52125 Main Road PO Box 1117 Southold, New York 11971
St. Patrick’s Church
St. Patrick’s Church
RECTORY TELEPHONE: 631-765-3442
RELIGIOUS EDUCATION: 631-765-2338
www.stpatricksouthold.org
Rev. Peter J. Garry—Pastor
Rev. George J. Michell
Pastor Emeritus
Ellen Harbes
Faith Formation Director
Rev. Kenneth Hand
Associate Priest
Tom Regan
Plant Manager
THE EUCHARIST
Weekdays - 8:00am (Except Wednesday & Saturday)
Saturday Evening Vigil Mass - 4:00pm
Sunday - 8:00am, 10:00am & 11:30am
Holy Days - See notice in Bulletin
S t. Pat r i c k ’ s M i s s i o n S t at e m e n t
St. Patrick’s Parish is a Roman Catholic Community where all are
welcome. Through liturgies, ministries and fellowship we encourage
and strengthen the spiritual needs of all. St. Patrick parishioners by
actions, words and examples show the community at large that we
are of one faith, one body in Christ.
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THE EUCHARIST
Weekdays - 8:00am (Except Wednesday & Saturday)
Saturday Evening Vigil Mass - 4:00pm
Sunday - 8:00am, 10:00am & 11:30am
2nd Sunday of the month “Youth Mass” All Welcome 7:00pm
Holy Days - See notice in Bulletin
SACRAMENT OF BAPTISM
First Sunday of the Month at 1:00pm. Kindly make
arrangements at the Rectory as far in advance as possible.
SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION
Saturday - 3:00 to 3:45pm
SACRAMENT OF MARRIAGE
Arrangements should be made at least 6 months in
advance. Please call the Rectory.
EUCHARISTIC ADORATION
Thursday after the 8:00am Mass until Noon Closing.
DEVOTIONS
Miraculous Medal Novena - Mondays after the 8:00am
Mass
COMMUNION TO THE HOMEBOUND
We are happy to bring the Eucharist to the homebound.
Please call the Rectory.
FAITH FORMATION
Contact Ellen Harbes at 765-2338
RCIA
Contact Father Peter Garry at 765-3442
OUR LADY OF MERCY REGIONAL SCHOOL
Principal: Alexandra Conlon - 734-5166
PARISH MINISTRIES
Prayer Group - Tuesday 8:30am
Parish Outreach - 631-477-6607
Food Pantry - 631-477-6469
Legion of Mary - Monday after the 8:00am Mass
Rosary Altar Society - Monthly meeting, Tuesday
after First Sunday
Pre-Cana - Paul & Anne Kraehling - 765-1876
Youth Group - Father Peter Garry - 765-3442
Consolation Ministry - Tippy & Jerry Case - 765-1658
PASTORAL ADVISORY COUNCIL
(Meets Regularly)
PARISH MEMBERSHIP
We welcome new Parishioners and Friends
and we request them to register with us and
encourage using the weekly envelopes. If
you are moving please notify us. Census
forms may be obtained at the front vestibule
of the Church, the Sacristy or at the Rectory.
ST. P ATRICK’S C HURCH
THE DEDICATION OF THE LATERAN BASILICA
“Brothers and sisters: You are God’s building. According to the grace of
God given to me, like a wise master builder I laid a foundation, and
another is building upon it. But each one must be careful how he builds
upon it, for no one can lay a foundation other than the one that is there,
namely, Jesus Christ.” (Paul to Corinthians)
Dear St. Patrick’s Parish Family,
Greetings of the Lord’s peace, joy and hope be with you on this
feast of the Lateran Basilica!
This annual special feast honors the Roman Church that is called
the Pope’s Church. Our message today looks to highlight God’s
temple, whose foundation is Christ, in which the Spirit dwells.
Hopefully our membership is very important.
Our parish family was very visible last weekend as we
celebrated All Saints/All Souls. The liturgy remembering all our
recently departed loved ones was special. Many families
responded to our invitation and felt welcome. I am grateful to
our Ministry of Consolation for this welcome moment. The
second moment was the 10AM Family Mass where our
Communion II children and their families were present for a
commitment ceremony. Please pray for those families during
this important year. Finally, the Open House that was offered
all weekend was appreciated by lots of us. Our Osborne Hall
Auditorium is a much nicer place, and you are thanked for
supporting this needed project.
A Mass is celebrated in our parish cemetery at this time of the
year to remember all our beloved deceased. This year’s mass
will be celebrated this coming Tuesday, Veterans Day, at
11AM. If it is not a good day, this Mass will take place in our
church.
Last weekend and its special moments gave us lots to thank our
God for.
Let us continue to pray for each other.
P.S. Having been reminded of the importance of the Catholic
Ministries Appeal a few weeks ago, I hope some of you will
consider supporting the Appeal. Remember, when you support
the Appeal you also help our church.
PLEASE NOTE: Tuesday, November 11, Veterans Day, at 11am, we
will celebrate a Mass in St. Patrick’s Cemetery for all buried in the
cemetery and all veterans on their day.
Inclement weather – Mass will be in church.
Scripture Readings
November 10 – November 16, 2014
MONDAY: Ti 1:1-9;Lk 17-1-6
TUESDAY: Ti 2:1-8,11-14; Lk 17:7-10
WEDNESDAY: Ti 3:1-7;Lk 17:11-19
THURSDAY: Philm 7-20;Lk 17:20-25
FRIDAY: 2 Jn 4-9;Lk 17:26-37
SATURDAY: 3 Jn 5-8;Lk 18:1-8
SUNDAY: Prv 31:10-13,19-20,30-31;1Thes5:1-6;Mt 25:14-30
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Saturday, November 8th
4:00 pm
Kathleen Morris
Virginia Stanton
Cathy La Grego
Joseph Ristuccia
Joan Condit
Frank Phelan
John J. Gallagher
Francis Beisner
Diane Baker
Helen Wynne
THE SICK OF THE PARISH
All Souls Novena
Joseph Sawicki Sr. ….Family
Thomas Wall….Jay & Ethel McKenna
Fr. Dom Pietro Carpeneto….Alba
Sunday, November 9th
The Dedication of the Lateran Basilica
8:00 am
We will leave names on the sick list for three
months. If you would like to have the name 10:00 am
renewed, please call the rectory office at 11:30 am
765-3442.
7:00 pm
All Souls Novena
James & Raymond Jr. Cubells….Ray & Eva Cubells
Susan Thompson….Garry Family
Joanne Cicotte Markovitch….Jack & Kathy Abele
Youth Mass
Monday, November 10th
8:00 am
John & Helen Spicijaric….Maria & Tony Giocoli
Tuesday, November 11th
Stewardship Reflection for this Week:
As we pray today for an increase of spiritual gifts,
we are reminded by the Bishops’ Pastoral on
Stewardship that good stewardship of the Church
“means cherishing and fostering the gifts of all,
while using one’s own gifts to serve the
community of faith.”
Living Stewardship:
We are grateful this week for all stewards in our
parish who use their God-given gifts to serve
others, especially through our parish’s ministries as
well as out into the wider community.
Thank you for sharing your gifts and
talents here in our parish community.
Parish Sacrificial Giving Summary
For the weekend of
November 1-2: $8,426
ALTAR FLOWERS
for the week of
November 8-9
In Memory of
MARY OLSTAD
Requested by Family
8:00 am
Theresa Anderson….Benic Family
11:00am
Cemetery Mass
Thursday, November 13th
8:00 am
Emma Vlakancich….Mr. & Mrs. Karlo Janketic
Friday, November 14th
8:00 am
Willy McKenna
3:30pm
Wedding
Saturday, November 15th
12 Noon
Wedding
2:00 pm
Wedding
4:00 pm
Allen Sobel….Wife
Rosalie Rupp….Birthright
Blaine Burton….St. Patrick’s Rosary Altar Society
Sunday, November 16th
33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time
8:00 am
Margaretmary V. Gmelch….Rita & Bill Miller
10:00 am
Ellie Rand….Ronnie & Jerry Matovcik
11:30 am
Patrick Carpenter….Mary & Kathleen Travers
REST IN PEACE
ANTHONY MORETTI
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ST. P ATRICK’S C HURCH
TODAY'S READINGS
First Reading — I saw water flowing out of the temple; wherever the
river flows, every living creature shall live (Ezekiel 47:1-2, 8-9, 12).
Psalm — The waters of the river gladden the city of God, the holy
dwelling of the Most High (Psalm 46).
Second Reading — Do you not know that you are the temple of God,
and that the Spirit of God dwells in you? (1 Corinthians 3:9c-11, 16-17).
Gospel — Destroy this temple and in three days I will raise it up
(John 2:13-22).
Schedule
November 8 - November 23
Nov 8
4:00pm
Jessica Mele
Siobhan Merrill
Nov 9
8:00am
Patrick Connolly
Jacob Dominy
10:00am Matthew Civiok
Colin McCarthy
11:30am Megan Tuthill
Sean Tuthill
Molly Tuthill
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In the liturgical calendar of the Catholic Church, November 9 is the feast of
the Dedication of the Basilica of St. John Lateran, often referred to in older
missals as the Dedication of the Basilica of the Holy Savior. In view of its
role as the mother church of the whole inhabited world, this day is celebrated as a Feast in the present universal calendar of the Catholic Church.
Nov 15 4:00pm
Gianna Santacroce
Melina Santacroce
Nov 16 8:00am
Justin Tobin
Kaitlin Tobin
10:00am Steven Palermo
Emiliann Palermo
11:30am Maggie Scott
Adrianne Portillo
Nov 22 4:00pm
Dante Tramontana
Rhiann Tramontana
Nov 23 8:00am
Thomas Mina
Aidan Walker
10:00am Ben Ward
James Hayes
11:30am Justin Tobin
Kaitlin Tobin
ATTENTION ALL ALTAR SERVERS
Please find a replacement if you
cannot serve as scheduled.
For several weeks, we have considered penance as a sacrament of forgiveness, and yet there are two other sacraments in
this category. The first, of course, is the Eucharist itself. The other is the sacrament of the sick, long associated with
penance.
The Letter of James sets out the deep tradition for caring for the sick: sending for the priests, who will pray and lay
their hands on the sick ones, anointing them with oil, and giving them forgiveness. Long before other rites of penance
developed, the sacrament of the sick was therefore a profound experience of forgiveness. Jesus often healed the sick,
nearly always as a visible sign of forgiveness of sin. The tradition didn't unfold smoothly, however, and within a few
centuries the oil of the sick was taken home to be applied by caregivers as a salve, or even to be drunk as a medicine. As
early as the second century, bishops were therefore urging that priests should be the ones to visit those separated by
illness from the Sunday assembly. Thus the practice of consigning the Eucharist and the oil of the sick to the nonordained faithful to bring home was relatively short-lived.
ST. P ATRICK’S C HURCH
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Jewish-Christian Inquiry
into the New Testament
Once again thank you to all who were able to attend the
session on October 18th. Our next discussion on the
Gospel of Matthew will take place on Sunday,
November 23rd at the Universalist Church in Southold.
We begin at 1:30 PM (coffee at 1PM). Please join us even
if you have not been able to attend all the discussions.
All are welcome.
PARISH OUTREACH
This weekend is our monthly
Food Drive
to benefit
Parish Outreach.
Food donations, cash
donations, or grocery store
gift cards
are greatly appreciated.
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MILITARY PRAYER
This prayer, Lord, that I say tonight
Is for our troops who all must fight.
These are the troops that we love
And so I pray dear Lord above
Please keep them safe while they’re away
And bring them home to us someday.
Let us remember our military:
Capt. Wesley Baker—U.S. Army
Lt. J.G. Lauren M. Solo—U.S. Navy
Chief P.O. David Conlan—U.S. Navy
Capt. Matthew Krupski—U.S. Army
P.O. Michael T. O'Donnell—U.S. Navy
1st Sgt. Shawn R. Herzog, U. S. Army
Lt. Michael Madden—U.S. Air Force
1st Lt. Michael Farrell—U.S. Marine Corps
2nd Lt. Sean Brodarick—U.S. Marine Corps
2nd Lt. Ryan Brodarick—U.S. Marine Corps
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Our next Rosary Altar Society meeting will be on
Tuesday, 11/11/14, beginning at 6:30pm with the
rosary, followed by our meeting and social
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Please bring a new item and wrap it in brown paper
or newspaper, and we will bid on the items and make
some money for the Rosary Society. You may bring
several items if you wish.
Looking forward to seeing you all there. Bring a
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have to be a Rosarian.
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