EBJC RECORDER

EBJC RECORDER
TISHREI/CHESHVAN 5775 November, 2014, Vol 45 No. 3
Samantha Ginsberg p.10
Kira Dekhayser p.20
Sarah Herman p.11
Rebecca Rollman p. 11,14
Harvey Goldschmidt,p 20
Jack Rollman p. 11,14
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Friday, October 31 -5:40 pm
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Friday, November 14 – 4:20 pm
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Mincha, Maariv,
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TOLEDOT
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East Brunswick Jewish Center is more than just the
home to the oldest and largest Jewish Center in
East Brunswick. Although our roots are Conservative, we promote and encourage the religious, educational and social values of all Jewish organizations in our community and work closely with the
Jewish Federation of Middlesex County. In order
for us to accomplish so much, with so few resources, we rely upon volunteers to help us.
We need you to volunteer for these positions and
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B’nai Mitzvah of Jack and Rebecca Rollman
Sunday, November 23 – 10 am
Bat Mitzvah of Sarah Herman
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Saturday, November 29 – 9:30 am & 4:10 pm
Mincha, Maariv,
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RABBINIC REFLECTIONS
Once you hear Yossi Klein Halevi, I hope you consider joining EBJC at the AIPAC Policy Conference in
EBJC, AIPAC and Advocating for Israel
Washington. This year it is Sunday March 1 through
On Rosh Hashanah I spoke
March 3, right before Purim. More than 14,000 pro
about our responsibility as
-Israel Americans will gather in Washington. The
American Jews to become advo- Policy Conference will feature large inspiring gathercates for Israel. The Synagogue ings and intimate educational sessions. In those
Initiative of AIPAC (The Amerithree days we will become pro-Israel activists and
can Israel Public Affairs Comhelp secure Israel’s future. At the end of the Conmittee) has reached out to the ference, we will have the opportunity to lobby our
East Brunswick Jewish Center
members of Congress in support of Israel. I am into help us become advocates
viting you to join me, members of EBJC and thoufor the State of Israel. The next sands of Jews from around the United States to
step comes this month.
stand with Israel. The foundation of the Jewish
community and of EBJC is the State of Israel. This
is our opportunity to answer the call, Israel’s call for
Please join me on Sunday November 16th at 7:45 help. At the end of Yom Kippur we shouted, “next
PM, at the Young Israel of East Brunswick, as EBJC year in Jerusalem.” Please join us in Washington to
and YIEB are partnering with AIPAC to bring Yossi
help ensure a safe, secure, next year in Jerusalem.
Klein Halevi, renowned Israeli author and journalist,
to our community. Mr. Klein Halevi is a contributing
editor to The New Republic, a research fellow at the The war with Hamas this past summer was a diffiShalom Hartman Institute in Jerusalem, and also a cult period for the State of Israel, and the war with
frequent contributor to the op-ed pages of leading
ISIS and the threats of a nuclear Iran continue to
newspapers, including the New York Times and Wall threaten the State of Israel. As Israel cannot allow
Street Journal. He is speaking about the situation
itself to lose, we cannot allow ourselves to watch
in Israel and will be sharing with us the latest infor- from the sidelines. We must transform ourselves
mation on the ever-changing reality in the Middle
from supporters of Israel to advocates for Israel.
East. It will be a special evening as EBJC and YIEB AIPAC is helping us and the American Jewish comjoin together in support of Israel. Please RSVP to
munity become advocates. Please join us on NoAlexa Silverman at [email protected] or 917vember 16 in East Brunswick and on March 1 in
210-6318.
Washington DC and become an advocate for Israel.
Israel needs US and WE need Israel.
As Americans have a right and responsibility to have
our voices heard. While as American Jews our num- Am Yisrael Hai!
bers are small, the truth and passion of our support
for Israel helps spur those in Congress, who have
few or no Jewish constituents, to support Israel.
Rabbi Joshua S. Finkelstein
Synagogues among other things are places of connection for the Jewish community. AIPAC wants us, [email protected]
the Jewish community, to mobilize for Israel and it is
our sacred obligation to answer the call. AIPAC is
also helping us educate our East Brunswick Jewish
Community and helping us keep up to date.
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President’s Report
In the New Year there are many
things we are looking to accomplish. Prior to the holidays your
Executive Board met weekly to discuss the business of the Shul.
Eighty percent of what discussed
had to do with the day to day operations of running the EBJC. Examples of agenda items include fund raising, High
Holy Days planning, education, maintenance, repairs, as well as membership retention and attraction.
but to join a committee to support our long-term
and short-term initiatives. We have several board
positions open and we are always in need for volunteers to help by joining a committee or helping in
an area of need. It easy to join. Just send me an email at [email protected].
At the congregational meeting I promised transparency letting our congregants know the specifics of
our financial situation. Over the next few weeks, we
will be scheduling open forums for members of
the congregation to voice your opinions and to ask
and answer any questions you might have. I just
Now, we’ve entered a new phase where 80% of
want to let everyone know that based upon the
what we focus on is strategic long-term planning
strength of our membership, our strong lay and
and short term tactical expense reduction and rev- religious leadership, the willingness of members to
enue improvements. We’ve already made signifi- join in our recovery, our Shabbat and Minyan rocant progress on our short term goals including a
bust participation, and the passion of our commuresoundingly successful Yom Kippur appeal led by nity I am very optimistic in our future and our direcAnne and Adrian Kroll featuring the best appeal
tion moving forward.
speech I’ve ever heard delivered with passion and
Have a happy and a healthy New Year!
heart by Anne Kroll. We also have a fund raising
event planned for December 6th
Eric Rabinowitz, President of the Congregation
I want to thank all of our members that contributed to our Yom Kippur/Kol Nidre appeal many of
which increased their contributions this year. As
Anne asked from the Bimah, many of you gave who
never gave before, and many doubled or even tripled their prior year’s contributions.
There seems to be a new excitement in the air. Corey Booker attracted over 300 people, with over
200 people staying for dinner including members
of several area synagogues and Jewish organizations. We also invited Jeffrey Bell the Republican
candidate for Senate who presented his vision for
our country’s future. Having Senator Booker and
Mr. Bell come and speak to our members’ reiterates the importance EBJC holds in our community
and state.
Our Board of Directors will be assigned committees
to participate based upon need. Members will be
asked not only to cover their areas of responsibility
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PreSchool Press from Lynda Perel
Hmm.. Who will be on our next
town council in East Brunswick? While most of East
Brunswick will be voting on
that, our preschoolers will be
voting on “What Is East Brunswick Jewish Center Nursery
School’s favorite type of apple?” Will it be Granny
Smith, MacIntosh, Yellow or Red Delicious? We will
have a voting booth for our preschoolers to cast
their vote. Stay tuned to find out.
Thanksgiving will be here before you know it. Our
youngsters will have their own feast. Each child will
get to choose whether they want to dress like a Native American or a Pilgrim. The children will make
their own costumes, bake corn bread and make
beautiful decorations for their table. We will be
singing songs, and have lots and lots of food!
We wish you a Happy Thanksgiving!
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Here are some pictures of our Simchat Torah Celebration with the Rabbi.
DIRECTOR’S DRASH from Julie Schwarzwald
As I walked through classrooms this
past weekend, each class was talking about the story of Creation. It occurred to me that we focus on the six
days in which God created the world
and the seventh day on which he rested, Shabbat.
This is, of course, completely appropriate for younger children. But there is so much more in parashat
Bereishit! It begins with a detailed description of
Creation, then tells the story of Adam and Eve and
their eventual expulsion from Gan Eden after allowing the serpent to convince them to eat from the
tree of knowledge of good and evil. The chapter
continues with Adam and Eve raising their sons and
the tragic story of Cain and Abel, followed by the lineage of their descendents and their descent into
wickedness and disfavor in God's eyes, until the
birth of Noah, a righteous man.
However, even a few minutes a day can make a
huge difference in our relationship with and in our
appreciation for our children - and their appreciation for us. I encourage you to make the time to get
all the stories of their day and their week. And for
Hebrew School? Spend just five minutes a day having your child read Hebrew to you or practice a prayer. Sing together. Let them teach you the letters and
sounds they have learned. Ask if they have any
homework (they probably do - just a little!) Go
through their Hebrew School backpack with them.
Take out completed work and put it on your fridge.
Restock kippot in the bag. Put in tzedakah money
for the next class. Show your children that there is
no punishment for learning - that you embrace their
newfound knowledge!
HEBREW SCHOOL HAPPENINGS
On October 5, Sara Alter joined us for the first of her
monthly Israeli dance lessons. Kita Gimel/3rd
grade students and parents made beautiful siddur
covers in preparation for their Kabbalat Siddur on
November 21. Each class had the opportunity to
visit the sukkah, say the blessings for sitting in the
sukkah and shaking the lulav, do a project, and
have a snack. The month of November/Heshvan
offers us a chance after the holidays to settle into
our learning and routines. We look forward to another Israeli dance day on November 16. School will be
closed November 6-9 for NJEA Teachers Convention
As I was thinking about this, I found myself comparand November 27-30 for Thanksgiving.
ing it to childhood in the present time. I think parents (myself included) naturally find themselves
YOUTH NEWS
wishing this particular phase would end and our
All three youth groups are off to a terrific start! USY
children would grow up and be better able to man- (9th-12th grades) enjoyed a Chinese dinner in the
age themselves. We tend to rush through these cur- sukkah and tie-dyed some shirts. Many members
rent magical, busy times. We have all heard others attended the regional opening dance in Millburn
(elders) tell us that these days go so fast; we should and are on their way to the Leadership Training Instop and slow down and enjoy them. And we know stitute in Toms River. Kadima and Chaverim joined
that is impossible in our current hurried lives - and together for "Torah Wars," competing to make the
really, this phase is not so much fun for us anyway! most beautiful edible Torah. Kadimaniks attended
Wow - so much material crammed into this one parasha! It begins with God being pleased with his creations and ends with his disgust and eventual plan
to destroy this world and start again. Along the way,
we discover that Adam and Eve (and the rest of humankind) have to pay for gaining knowledge and
not remaining innocent. Then one brother is murdered by another, and humankind degenerates. Any
of these single stories are fodder for thousands of
pages of rabbinic discussion and interpretation.
the opening regional event in Cranford.
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Next events:
Chaverim - November 25, 6:15-7:30 pm
Kadima - November 11, 6:15-7:45 pm
USY - November 11, 7:45-9:30 pm
If you have a college student and have not yet
signed up for College Connection, please email
Trudi Teicher, [email protected].
BASKETBALL - Our fall basketball season is underway, with 1st-3rd graders playing on Tuesdays and
4th-6th graders on Wednesdays. Over a dozen kids
in each group are practicing skills and playing
games each week.
For more information about any of these programs,
contact Julie Schwarzwald, Education and Youth
Director, [email protected].
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Hosts Senate Candidates
Cory Booker and Jeff Bell
On October 10th, Cory Booker started things off with a packed house as our Sukkah guest. He regaled us with his close times to the Jewish Community.
Following up on Sunday October 26th, Jeff Bell came by for a morning presentation and brunch with
us. His presentation was about the issues he felt were important to him and voters .
East Brunswick Jewish Center appreciates both candidates for taking their time to come and see
us and to discuss their visions and ideas. We do not suggest who you vote for. But, we do recommend you vote! A thriving democracy is the best tool for building the future we want to create.
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EBJC Youth Groups
Bar/Bat Mitzvah
Samantha Ginsberg
November 15
4th-8th Hebrew School graders had a wonderful time creating
and decorating edible Torahs (and their faces!). Toda raba to
Michelle and Allie for running a fantastic program!
My name is Samantha Ginsberg and I
am a 7th grader at Hammarskjold Middle School. For my Mitzvah Project, I
wanted a hands-on way to make a difference in people’s lives, so with the help
of Rachel Weiner, a fellow congregant
who is a social worker, I was able to get
a volunteer position at the Summer Hill
Nursing Home. At the nursing home I
helped with entertaining activities, such
as morning exercises, cooking club, trivia and much more. I feel I was doing
something good for the residents by
helping them throughout the day because they can’t do much on their own,
and I hope that I made their day a lot
brighter. I have enjoyed my time volunteering at the nursing home, so after my
Bat Mitzvah I will continue to volunteer.
Morah Sara Alter led each class in Israeli dancing
on Sunday. Everyone had a great time, except
Morah Julie who didn't get to dance with each
class....
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Bar/Bat Mitzvah
Rebecca Rollman
Jack Rollman
Sarah Herman
November 22
November 22
November 23
My name is Rebecca Rollman and
I am an 8th grader at Churchill
Junior HS. I like to play softball
and do gymnastics. In August, my
family and I went to Israel. Although a war was going on, we felt
very safe because of the brave
soldiers that protect Israel each
and every day.
My name is Jack Rollman and I
am an 8th grader at Churchill Junior High School. I play Fast Break
Basketball and I play in the
Churchill Junior High School
band. In August, 2014, my family
went to Israel. While we were
there, I saw how wonderful Israel
is, and I realized that it was because of the Israeli soldiers who
risk their lives to protect the
country.
I am a seventh grader at Gold Och
Academy in West Orange, New
Jersey and enjoy playing on the
tennis team. In the summer I attended Camp Monroe where I
was on the swim team and in the
play. For my Bat Mitzvah project, I
am excited to participate in The
Holocaust Stamps Project, which
is a community service learning
initiative, teaching history and tolerance one postage stamp at a
time.
For my Bat Mitzvah Project I am
raising awareness and donating
money to help wounded Israeli
soldiers. I am doing that through
the FIDF. (Friends of the IDF) who
help these soldiers by providing
rehabilitation to help them fully
recover. We will never stop supporting the brave soldiers that risk
their lives every day to keep the
State of Israel safe.
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For my Bar Mitzvah Project, I am
spreading awareness and donating money for wounded soldiers,
through the FIDF (Friends of the
IDF). I am proud to help support
the brave soldiers of Israel.
My family and I have been saving
cancelled stamps to help the project reach the goal of collecting
11 million postage stamps. Each
stamp represents a life that was
lost in the Holocaust. Congregants
can help by saving their cancelled
stamps (from their mail) and giving those stamps to Sarah.
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at [email protected]. Gift cards are from ACME,
SHOPRITE, and LOX, STOCK, & DELI.
Join Today’s Sisterhood!!!
I do I have a dream!........I know people get incentives for using their credit cards,(cash back, points,
SISTERHOOD- IT’S WHAT YOU PUT INTO IT! etc....) so how about 1⁄2 of your purchases go on
your credit card and the other 1⁄2 go to the Gift
EVERY WOMAN IN OUR SYNAGOGUE
Cards! That is what I do!......................Just do it! Call
SHOULD BE A SISTERHOOD MEMBER
Carol today! She’ll come to you! It’s a totally no
IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT AGE YOU ARE! brainer fundraiser!!..........
Our Judaica Shop is here for YOU!!! Come in and
NOT A MEMBER YET???....JOIN US!!!
see what’s NEW!!! There are beautiful gift items for
every occasion.
Sisterhood along with Men’s Club and the Social
Our Mitzvah Baskets are beautiful and our Mazel
Action Committee sponsored a breakfast and had Tosses are fun and delicious! Get them for your
Walgreens giving out flu shots. In addition, a very
next Simcha!
informative program was presented on Vitamins. A
big thank you goes out to Walgreens, Holly Cerami, Your Sisterhood is a warm and nurturing organization. We’ve had and will continue to have various
and Mark Foladare for a successful program!
functions and programming that will be of interest
Our paid up membership dinner was on Wednesto ladies of ALL ages. It is my hope that more womday, October 22nd filled evening with a belly dancer en will get involved. A strong Sisterhood is the backshowing us ladies how to “strut our stuff”! The Mo- bone of a strong Shul.
roccan inspired meal was delicious thanks to Lox,
Stock and Deli! Many thanks to Dori Saypol for the Be connected, take a friend and come to the programs. Volunteer to assist in the functions. Be a
beautiful centerpieces, Sheila Behrman for keeppart of this extraordinary organization.
ing track of the responses, Margot Julis for paying
the bills, and the Committee for setting up. On behalf of Sisterhood I want to thank the following temple members for their donations for the tricky tray:
Myra Feldman, Inge Gross, Barbara Pollack, and
Jesse Reitner. Finally, I want to give a huge thank
you to our anonymous donors for beautiful tote bag
give away. A good time was had by all!
SAVE THE DATES!
Thursday, November 20th Scarf making with Carol
Goldberg. No experience necessary!!! Flyers with a Cindy Rabinowitz
tear off to sign up will be forthcoming!
[email protected]
Saturday, December 13th—Sisterhood Shabbat!
As always, Gift Cards are a win/win for everyone!!!.... Contact Carol 732-257-6752 or email her
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Meet The Rollman Family
he has offended as he always
asks people if they want to join
Mens Club!
The Rollmans toured Israel for 12
days this past August and are
very excited for Jack and Rebecca’s upcoming B’nai Mitzvah on
November 22nd
Their oldest daughter, Lauren, is
a Speech Pathologist in Ridgewood, NJ.
Jenny is a senior at the University
of Maryland who is studying to be
an Occupational Therapist.
From time to time we would like
to introduce members or families
that exemplify the values we
strive for at EBJC. Our first profile starts with the Rollman family
—whom many of you already
know. And, if you don’t know
them don’t be shy. They will be
glad to meet you.
they grew up only about 5 miles
apart they met on a singles mission to Israel sponsored by the
Jewish Federation of Metrowest,
NJ. True Beshert!!
Cindy is a former elementary
school teacher who taught in Elizabeth, NJ for 12 years.
Rick is a dentist with a practice in
East Brunswick.
Cindy is a member of the Executive Board of EBJC, the past 2
years being the Recording Secre- .
tary and currently the CorreCindy and Rick Rollman both be- sponding Secretary. She is also a
lieve that actions speak louder
mem ber of Sisterhood and
than words. They and their twins, Hadassah.
Jack and Rebecca, and their 2
Rick is a member of the Men’s
older daughters, Lauren and Jen- Club Board and the Synagogues
ny have been members of EBJC Board of Directors, serving as the
since 2006. They are seen at
programming representative for
most Shabbat and religious ser- both Boards. He has been very
vices, fundraising activities and involved with the 92nd Y Educaeducational programs. Rick and tional Simulcasts and movie
Cindy both grew up locally, in
nights, and bringing in speakers
Cranford and Clark, respectfully, for various events.
and were both members of families that were active in their Con- Rick and Cindy are both cheerservative Synagogues. Although leaders” for EBJC and its programs. Rick apologizes to anyone
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Donations
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Sheila Arnel for yizkor
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Robyn and Michael Barnett in memory
of Roberta Solomon’s mom, Erna Ein- 
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Sheila and Joe Behrman
Susan and Phil Ben-Zvi for yizkor in
memory of their parents, Ray and Max 
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Grossberg and Anna and
Samuel Ben-Zvi
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Karen and David Blivaiss for yizkor
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Joan and Bob Bramson for Yom Kippur
Yizkor
Judy and Saul Brodman in honor of
Zeena Kelberg’s 80th
Judy and Saul Brodman for a meshuberach
Diana Buren for yizkor
Myra and Fred Feldman in memory of
Sally Godfrey’s sister, Ellen Barath
Myra and Fred Feldman in honor of
Amy and Steven Schonfeld’s son,
Evan’s Auf Ruf and his upcoming
marriage to Sarah Rothenberg
Marty Genee for his honor as Chatan
Beresheit
Israel Goldman for yizkor
Gail and Ira Goldner for yizkor in
memory of Ann Kramberg
Gail and Ira Goldner for yizkor in
memory of Hyman Kramberg
Anne and Matt Kaufman
Sherry Keller in honor of Maury and
Steve Wohl becoming grandparents
Sherry Keller in honor of Lila and Fred
Wohl becoming grandparents
Sydney and Larry Kramer in memory of
Meri Pearl’s mother, Muriel Newman
Alexandra and Henry Lurman for yizkor
Gloria and Alan Nadler in memory of
Gail Appelbaum’s mother, Velma
Smith
Vickie and Marty Nathanson for yizkor
Gail and Stan Rubin in honor of Shirley
and Bruce Sommers
Ellen and Ed Seckler in honor of the
birth of their grandson, Nathaniel
Scott Seckler
Fran and Joel Shafer for yizkor
Terri and Jack Silverman for yizkor
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Randy and Steven Solomon for yizkor
Phyllis Stern for yizkor
Dianne and Allen Vogel for yizkor
Lori and Arnie Wallis for yizkor
Renee and Paul Weissman for yizkor
Florence and Steven Winter in honor
of Carol Landa’s excellent tot services
Maury and Steve Wohl for yizkor
Roz Zell in honor of Elaine and Bob
Feldbaum’s 61st
Roz Zell in honor of Gloria and Barry
Jaslow’s son Michael Jaslow’s marriage to Arielle Goldman
Roz Zell in memory of Jerry Pliskin’s
mother, Roz Pliskin
Roz Zell in memory of Meri Pearl’s
mother, Muriel Newman
Roz Zell in memory of Sara Ullman’s
mother, Erika Uttner
Roz Zell in memory of Sally Godfrey’s
sister, Ellen Barath
Hildy and Jeff Zonis in memory of Masha Moshkovsky, mother of Tova
Courtney
Hildy and Jeff Zonis in honor of Matan
Omansky’s Bar Mitzvah
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Allen Bachenheimer
Susan and Phil Ben-Zvi
Ron Berger
Melanie and Marc Blatteis
Karen and David Blivaiss
Isadora Gelb
Marla and Marty Genee
Anne and Matt Kaufman
Sydney and Larry Kramer
Alexandra and Henry Lurman
Lory and Arnie Pelofsky
Liz and Bob Salston
Adela and Raymond Sasson
Fran and Joel Shafer
Terri and Jack Silverman
Randy and Steven Solomon
Linda Korman-Spiegel and Phil Spiegel
Janice and Lewis Stolar
Florence and Steven Winter
Thelma and Harry Zalewitz
THE CONGREGATION EXTENDS MAZEL TOV TO:
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Bobbie and Stephen Steinberg on the
birth of twin granddaughters, Ashley
and Mikayla
Linda and Marty Jacobson on the birth
of a granddaughter, Zoey Michelle
Maury and Steve Wohl on the birth of
a grandson
THE CONGREGATION EXTENDS CONDOLENCES TO:
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Sara Ullman on the lossof her mother,
Erika Ettner
Meri Pearl on the loss of her mother,
Muriel Newman
Jerry Pliskin on the loss of his mother,
Roz Pliskin
Sally Godfrey on the loss of her sister,
Ellen Barath
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Sheila and Joe Behrman
Debra and Mordechai Bermann
Joan and Bob Bramson in memory of
her grandmother, Sarah Meyer
Judy and Saul Brodman in memory of
her mother, Clara Witt
Janice Cohen
Myra-Lee Cohen in memory of her
great grandfather, Max Malachofsky
Carl Cresci for yahrzeit in memory of
Fay Berkowitz
Carl Cresci for yahrzeit in memory of
his son, Adam Cresci
Gloria and Robert Feldman in memory
of his father, Joseph Feldman
Anita and Elliot Freidrnerich in
memory of her mother, Dorothy Sherry
Janet and Billy Fromkin in memory of
her father, Jack Stein
Isadora Gelb for yahrzeit in memory of
her father, Sol Wachtell
Marla and Marty Genee in memory of
her aunt, Sarah Goldman
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Marla and Marty Genee in memory of
her great Aunt Jennie Landau
Rosalyn Goldstein
Inge Gross for yahrzeit in memory of
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Sylvia Halpern in memory of her husband, Melvin Halpern
Trudy Hankin in memory of her husband, Alfred Hankin
Toby Kash
Joyce and Mark Kass
Sherry Keller
Michael Kesler in memory of his parents
and the Jews in the town of Dubno in
Poland
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Bernice Schultz-Knobe in memory of 
her mother, Edythe Ribowsky
Gail and Neil Kosher in memory of his 
father, Nathan Kosher
Doris Leska in memory of her uncle
Ben Thier
Bobby Lesser in memory of her mother-in-law, Bertha Lesser
Linda and Roy Levi in memory of his
father, Henry Levi
Beverly and Mark Levine
Linda Lidor in memory of her husband,
Gideon Lidor
Suzanne Lustig in memory of her father, Melvin Halpern
Trudy Myles-Hankin in memory of her
husband, Emuel Myles
Dian and Larry Perkel
Ginger and David Ploshnick in memory
of his mother, Arvice Ploshnick
Myra and Paul Rose
Jean Rossner in memory of her mother, Minnie Fuchs
Gail and Stanley Rubin in memory of
their son-in-law, Alan Kleinberg
Rita and Alexander Ryslik in memory
of his mother, Emma Ryslik
Liz and Bob Salston
Leslie and Paul Schoen
Irving Scott
Ellen and Ed Seckler in memory of her
father, Milton Krell
Fran and Joel Shafer in memory of her
grandmother, Rose Monas
Suzanne and Martin Silver in memory
of his father, Nathan Silver
Marion Slatnick in memory of her husband, Louis Slatnick
Michael Sleppin
Ethel Spitzer
Sylvia Stone in memory of the town of
White Shores in Poland
Pearl and George Sultan
Ida and Murray Turner in memory of
her mother, Fela Jakubowicz
Carol and David Weisfelner
Helen and Jerry Wexler in memory of
her mother, Rose Krawczyk
Renee and Alvin Wittlin in memory of
her mother, Mary Singer
Renee and Alvin Wittlin in memory of
her family friend, Ronald Wasser
Roz Zell for memory of her son, Paul
Zell
Hildy and Jeff Zonis in memory of her
mother, Lenore Gurewitz
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November 2014 Calendar
ing. contact Carol Weisfelner at (732) 257
6752
Bikur Cholim Dinner-Nov 4
Board of Directors Nov 19-8:30 pm
Join Men's Club for only $36 contact Gale at (732)
257-7070
Board of Ed Nov 12 – 8:30 pm
Egalitarian morning minyan-Nov 15 9:30 am
Egalitarian Mincha minyan-Nov 29 4:15pm
JNF Tree Certificates - $15.00 contact Diana Horowitz at (732) 390-9058
Genesis Science Nov 3, 10, 17, 24 8:30 pm Library
Gimmel Class Dinner & Service-Nov 21
Hebrew Class-Nov 6, 13, 20
Israeli Dancing-Nov 3, 10, 17, 24 7:15 pm-Kroll Ballroom
Lunch & Learn-Nov 5, 12, 19, 26 12-2pm Rabbi Joshua
S. Finkelstein
Dedication of the second pair of Amir Stained Glass
Panels “Reaching for the Heavens”. $1800 $10,000. contact Gale at (732) 257-7070
Show your appreciation, honor or comments about
someone in this Recorder for ony $18. contact
Gale at(732) 257-7070
Mah Jongg- Nov 3, 10, 17, 24
Rabbi’s Class-Nov 4, 11, 18, 25
Talmud Class- Nov 5, 12, 19, 26 8:30 pm
Ulpan Class- Nov 4, 11, 18
Youth Group- Nov 4, 11, 18, 25
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EBJC Offerings and Fundraisings
Beautiful basket of Food Items, matched to you
Simcha with a letter and placement on the Bimah $150. contact Gale at (732) 257-7070
Mazel Tosses - Delicious wrapped Sunkist Fruit
Gems to be gently tossed at a Bar/Bat Mitvah. $36/50 tosses contact Lory Pelofsky (732)
254-7851
Buy Script for Shop Rite, Acme & Lock Stock &
Deli, Sisterhood keeps 4-5%. It costs you noth18
Sponsor or Co-Sponsor a Shabbat Morning Kiddish. (We all love to eat!) Contact Sylvia
Halpern at (732) 9233 or Inge Gross at (732)
238-0664
EBJC has a wonderful Gift shop. Please visit us.
Advertisers and Sponsors are needed for the Recorder. Please contact Gale at (732) 2577070
College Students—Receive Chanukah and Purim
baskets from EBJC. Free—Undergraduates—$36
Post Graduates. Please contact Trudi Teicher at
732) 257-7070.
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Youth of the Year,
Kira Dekhayser
October was a crazy month, with the
holidays events, and breakfasts. We
co sponsored Cory Booker for Sukkot
dinner program at which 300 attended. We followed that with Scotch,
beer, wine and steak in the Sukkah for 30 of us which
was not in the Sukkah because of weather. Leftovers
helped sponsor Simchat Torah luncheon. Then we co
sponsored a a flu shot clinic and breakfast presentation
on vitamin supplements given by Walgreens. Finally, we
closed the month by inviting Jeffrey Bell, the Republican
candidate for Senate, to speak at breakfast. At this writing, we expect that about 60 will have been with us for
that breakfast. It's been a busy month.
I want to thank everyone for the support given to Mens
Club this past holiday season and look forward to many
more great events
Mark Foladare
EBJC Mens Club President
Man of the Year,
Harvey Goldschmidt
On November 12th, we will
be honoring our Man of the
Year, Harvey Goldschmidt
and youth of the year, Kira
Dekhayser at the annual
MOY/YOY dinner. This year's
dinner will be held at Temple
Beth Am Israel in Springfield
NJ. Harvey gets double congratulations as his son Scott is getting married the week
before.
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Kira Dekhayser is a senior at
East Brunswick High School.
She currently serves as the
Social Action Vice President
on the East Brunswick USY
board, as well as the Art Director on the the East Brunswick High School National
Honor Society Executive
Board. For the past two
years, Kira has worked with the Ronald McDonald House
organization as Junior Art Director and has helped raise
a total of $120,000 over the course of two events. Kira
is known as a gifted artist, a volunteer, and an honor
student. After high school, Kira hopes to study industrial
design at a top art school.
Harvey Goldschmidt has been a member of the East
Brunswick Jewish Center and the Men’s Club for over
twenty years. During the past few years, Harvey has taken lead roles in the Yom HaShoah program and as financial secretary for the club. In addition to his Men’s Club
activities, Harvey serves as a friendly visitor to the elderly and delivers Meals on Wheels with his wife Donna.
Harvey is very excited about the many religious, cultural
and social activities the Men’s Club runs in the Shul,
sometimes in conjunction with the Sisterhood and the
New Era Club. Men’s Club activities span from sponsoring the repair of a Torah, providing ushers for services to
sponsoring synagogue social events and speakers.
Harvey has retired from his jobs as database administrator for Verizon Wireless and AT&T and as a teacher in
NYC. Harvey and his wife Donna have two children, Scott
and Jaime. He will soon be travelling to California to celebrate the marriage of his son Scott to Jennifer Pollack.
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