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The right cosmetic surgery procedure will help you unveil a body worthy of admiration. by Stephen T. Greenberg, M.D. Spring is here and bathing suit season is right around the corner. tone and texture, the new fractional laser skin resurfacing technology is unique and Now is the time to consider that cosmetic surgery procedure that very effective. By using the most advanced technology, you can reduce skin will have you looking your best when summer arrives. There are imperfections without harming surrounding tissue. The healing time is fast and most many procedures available to meet each person’s unique procedures can be performed quickly, with minimal discomfort and excellent long-term considerations and desires. Individualized evaluation and assessment results. Another avenue to consider are “injectables” which are quite will determine which procedures would effective in reducing lines and wrinkles on the face, without surgery. provide the most improvement. Whether opting for breast augmentation, breast lift, Cosmetic surgery might just be the Botox® and other dermal fillers are continuing to grow in tummy tuck, liposuction or a combination of answer to improving on those areas popularity. Exciting new products including Dysport®, a wrinkle the above, the result should be a beautiful and natural look. you want to show off this summer. relaxer, and injectables such as Restylane® containing lidocaine, This is especially true for women who have had children and You can look naturally beautiful and have expanded the market and increased the options available to people seeking immediate results with significant reductions in would like to turn back the hands of time and have their preproudly wear that new bikini! facial lines and wrinkles. As you consider improving your pregnancy figure back. The tremendous growth in popularity of appearance this spring, consider achieving a younger and fresher the Mommy Make-Over Package provides ongoing assurance that women who see the effects of pregnancy are especially interested in taking action to look using these injectable products. improve their look. More and more women are having children later in life and their The best candidates for plastic surgery are those who want to look their best by bodies do not bounce back the way they did when they were younger, or after their improving upon their natural beauty, while at the same time maintaining realistic first pregnancy. A combination of procedures including: breast augmentation, breast expectations. Remember, it is the proper mix of procedures that guarantees a successful lift, tummy tuck and liposuction can make a dramatic improvement in your appearance. improvement in appearance, while removing the signs of aging. What better time than Although diet and exercise are essential, many women struggle with extra skin on spring to get back into your ideal summer shape? their lower abdomen, from either weight loss or pregnancy, and are perfect candidates for a “tummy tuck”. Tightening the abdominal muscles and the skin of both the lower Dr. Stephen Greenberg is a board-certified plastic surgeon who specializes in cosmetic and upper abdomen can provide a slimmer and more attractive look. In addition, the surgery. He is director of New York’s Premier Center for Plastic Surgery with offices in SmartLipo MPX™ and ZeronaTM melt away excess fat quickly, efficiently, and with little Woodbury and Manhattan. For a complimentary consultation, call 516-364-4200. If you pain. Although liposuction can be used for the reduction of fat in the abdomen, it is have a question for Dr. Greenberg, please e-mail him at [email protected] or listen to his radio show on Saturday nights at 10 PM on WKJY (98.3 FM). Visit us on the web: also very effective on areas such as the hips, thighs and knees. For those looking to eliminate those wrinkles, reduce stretch marks or improve skin www.GreenbergCosmeticSurgery.com advertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMAN • April 2011 • 3 Good Advice advice columns from LONG ISLAND WOMAN advertisers It is Time to Come Out of Hiding by Stephen T. Greenberg, M.D. Cosmetic surgery might just be the answer to improving on those areas you want to show off this summer. You can look naturally beautiful and proudly wear that new bikini! more on page 3 Breast Surgery Combined with Tummy Tuck and/or Liposuction by Charlotte Rhee, M.D., FACS, P.C. Many of my patients come seeking help with the changes that can occur after childbirth; a woman’s breast can grow to uncomfortable proportions or just the opposite can happen. more on page 5 Perfectly Designed Eyebrows by Sarit Narkis Permanent eyebrows are the answer for alopecia, sparse, over-tweezed brows, post-menopausal loss of eyebrow hair or hair that is too fine or light. more on page 8 Urinary Incontinence by Scott M. Press, M.D. So many women in my practice complain that they just want to be able to go to the gym and go on the elliptical machine or kick box. more on page 9 The E-Z Lift™ Procedures by Dr. James C. Marotta EZ-Lift™ minimally invasive procedures provide amazing results with shorter procedure times, quicker recovery, little to no discomfort, long-lasting results and all at a lower cost than traditional facial surgery. more on page 11 Do You Need a Girlfriend Getaway? by Mary Eisenstein Considering Divorce? by Ann Block, Esq. I recently developed a healthy, successful way of losing weight with acupuncture, which can actually change your metabolism. There are several unique characteristics with this therapy. more on page 25 Image Wisely by Elizabeth Maltin, M.D. Our goal is to increase awareness about performing only necessary testing that uses radiation, and when doing so, using the lowest possible radiation dose. more on page 25 The weight of large breasts can cause the bra straps to dig into the shoulders leaving groove markings. Large breasts get in the way of physical activities, such as running. more on page 25 A “Personal Care Agreement” can be an effective method of fairly benefiting loved ones and preserving eligibility for Medicaid benefits. more on page 24 4 • April 2011 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN fyi 6 Health 10 Women’s Health Update E-SUBSCRIBE (for free) to the digital edition of Book Corner 14 Martha McPhee’s Dear Money Feature 18 Deidre Hall Catching Up with Carol 21 A Little Off Target Sustenance 22 Ugali. Chinsaga. Vindaloo. Yummm! Happenings 27 Classes, Entertainment, Events, Exhibits An Effective Medical Weight Loss Program by Dr. Konstantinos Zarkadas The Use of Personal Care Agreements by Marc Alhonte, Esq. 14 Breast Reduction Using The Lollipop Scar Technique by Charlotte Rhee, M.D., FACS, P.C. For years, my patients have had to choose between better results or less scarring. With hybrid face lifts, they get the best of both worlds. more on page 15 Many women don’t realize how daily stress can affect their body. Adrenal fatigue is a collection of signs and symptoms that can result in decreased production of adrenal hormones, mainly cortisol. more on page 17 April 2011 Help With Weight Loss and Diabetes by Dr. Dazhi Chen, Ph.D., LAC The Future Lift: A New Hybrid Facelift Technique by Andrew A. Jacono, M.D., FACS Adrenal Fatigue by Natalie Cher, D.O. Volume 10 Number 11 After litigating hundreds of divorces, I have discovered that choosing the best approach for a particular couple is a crucial first step. more on page 25 Girlfriend getaways have become a place to increase our bonds with each other. The impact of good, solid communication skills can be felt everywhere, as mothers as spouses and as colleagues. more on page 13 Many people think that being overweight is an appearance issue. But being overweight is actually a medical concern because it can seriously affect a person's health. more on page 16 Contents Support Groups 33 to e-subscribe and view our page-flip digital edition, visit www.liwomanonline.com NEXT ISSUE: May exclusive interview with Shirley MacLaine PO Box 176, Malverne, NY 11565 • 516-505-0555 [email protected] • www.liwomanonline.com AD RESERVATION BY Thursday, March 31st SUBSCRIPTIONS: One year (12 issues) – $30 visit: www.liwomanonline.com/subscriptions.html FOR ADVERTISING INFORMATION call 516-505-0555 x1 or email [email protected] ©Copyright 2011 by LONG ISLAND WOMAN. All rights reserved. No portion of LONG ISLAND WOMAN may be reproduced without permission. LONG ISLAND WOMAN is published monthly by MARAJ, INC. To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] A Spring Awakening at our April Day of Beauty 257 7 E. Jericho o Tpke. n Station, NY Huntington (Just east of the Huntington Townhouse) Day of Beauty Saturday, April 9th, 10am – 1pm Receive Special Discounts on Botox/Dysport and Facial Fillers. Free Gift Bags with Discounts toward future treatments Call to RSVP and for more information Charlotte e Ann n Rhee, MD, FACS 631-424-6707 www.liplasticsurgery.com Good d Advice Breast Surgery Combined with Tummy Tuck and/or Liposuction by Charlotte Rhee, MD, F.A.C.S., P.C. Many of my patients come to me seeking help with the changes that ing breast reduction. Both groups of women want to have breasts that are proportional to their can occur after childbirth. Following childbirth, a woman’s breast can body size with the most natural result possible. In certain situations, a breast lift is also needgrow to uncomfortable proportions or just the opposite can happen. A ed to tighten lax skin. The laxity can be the result of pregnancy or weight loss. When a breast woman’s breast can actually lose volume and shrink, resulting in the lift is needed, I utilize the lollipop scar technique. A breast lift procedure is very similar to a breast appearing “deflated”. breast reduction. The only difference is that with a breast reduction, breast tissue is removed. Additionally, a large number of women come to me seeking help with Combined Breast/Tummy Tuck and Liposuction Procedures. the post partum changes of their abdomen. During pregnancy the skin Many of my patients who have breast surgery also have other procedures performed at the and abdominal wall muscles are stretched. Following childbirth, the abdomen can protrude same time. This allows for one surgery and one recovery. The most common combined proand the skin can be loose or sag. In some cases, the abdominal muscles can cedures performed by Dr. Rhee are breast surgery, whether it is a breast Many of my patients reduction or augmentation, combined with tummy tuck, also known as be so weakened that the individual may look like she is still pregnant. Despite daily workouts including sit ups and crunches, a tummy tuck may be needed abdominoplasty. For those patients who desire breast augmentation togethwho have breast to restore these muscles. er with a tummy tuck, I am able to place the breast implants through the surgery also have other tummy tuck incision, leaving the breasts without any scars. Breast Reduction Liposuction is also commonly performed at the same time. Despite diet and Women with very large pendulous breasts may experience varied medical procedures performed at exercise, certain areas of the body are prone to carry excess fat. For these problems including back and neck pain. Also, the weight of large breasts can the same time. This areas, liposuction can help. The most common areas for liposuction are the cause the bra straps to dig into the shoulders leaving groove markings. Large allows for one surgery love handles (upper hip area) and thighs. breasts get in the way of physical activities such as running, making exercise Patients who have combined procedures do surprisingly well. In addition to and weight loss very difficult if not impossible. Breast reduction (reduction and one recovery having the benefit of just one recovery process, there can also be a significant mammaplasty), is a surgical procedure which makes breasts smaller. savings in price. There are many different breast reduction techniques. The more traditional method (inverted TTo learn more, please call our Huntington office to schedule a complimentary consultation scar) leaves the breasts with a vertical, long horizontal scar (along the breast crease). “I utilize the with Dr. Rhee at (631) 424-6707. Located at 257 E. Jericho Tpke., Huntington Station. Lejour technique, which leaves the breast with a single vertical incision (lollipop scar) and, in my www.liplasticsurgery.com. opinion, with a rounder more natural appearing breast and a better cosmetic result.” Breast reductions are performed as an outpatient procedure and are covered by insurance. Dr. Charlotte Rhee is a board certified plastic and reconstructive surgeon specializing in breast surgery. She is an assistant professor of plastic surgery at Montefiore Medical Breast Augmentation Center/Albert Einstein College of Medicine. Women who come to me seeking breast enlargement have very similar goals to those seekadvertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMAN • April 2011 • 5 fyi Indoor Farmers Markets If you love Farmer’s markets, check out the indoor farmer’s markets at Sweet Hollow Hall in West Hills County Park in Huntington and St. Paul’s United Methodist Church in Northport on April 2 and 16 and May 7 and 21. G & G Long Island Winter Farmers market is committed to providing fresh & healthy, high quality food, grown and/or produced in the New York region and they aspire to support local farmers and create a safe, healthy and fun environment for the whole family to enjoy. Visit winterfarmersmarketlongisland.com for hours and directions. Photography at Peconic Bay Winery Long Island photographer Susan Tiffen grew up in a house full of cameras, photographs and books about photographs. 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They have a vast selection of costume jewelry and accessories—from stunning to playful and everything in between—all at very reasonable prices. 6 • April 2011 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN by Debbi Honorof Meet This Long Island Woman NANCY CURTIN Director, Port Washington Library How long have you lived on Long Island? I grew up in Massapequa and now live in Garden City. Tell me about your job at the library. I have been the director of the Port Washington Public Library since 1994, but have worked there since 1974. I am only the fourth director since the Library’s founding in 1892. I work with a Board of Trustees and implement policy, hire and direct a staff of 100, manage a $6.7 million dollar budget, and create collections and programs to foster lifelong learning for all ages. I also work with volunteer groups such as our advisory councils, the Friends of the Library and the Port Washington Library Foundation to enhance the Library’s services. I try to make the Library the community’s living room, where all residents feel welcome and are able to pursue their interests How is technology affecting your library and other Long Island libraries? Technology is a tremendous tool in the Information Age. People can now go to the Library’s website and download books, check our catalog, place a reserve, research databases, even learn a foreign language. E-book circulation is way up and you can download titles for free. I am proud that libraries have adapted so well in offering technology options to the public. How has the library changed in the time you've been there? In 1974 there were no computers, no Internet, and no DVDs. When someone needed information, it was found in books, magazines, and journals, and reference librarians were busy assisting people in finding the best sources of that information. Today, much more of that research is done on-line, so librarians need even greater skills to find and deliver information. 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In the 1960s, Boomers had high hopes for remaking society, but at the moment, 80% say they are dissatisfied with the way things are going in the country today. The 79-million-member Baby Boomer generation accounts for 26% of the total U.S. population, so by force of sheer numbers, they almost certainly will redefine old age in America. However, the typical Boomer believes that old age doesn't begin until age 72, and the typical Boomer feels nine years younger than his or her chronological age. When asked about the array of changes transforming American family life, the Boomers' views align more closely with younger generations than older ones. However, Baby Boomers today are less accepting than younger Americans of same-sex couples raising children, unmarried couples living together and other non-traditional arrangements. Despite differences among generations, 43% of Baby Boomers say there is less generational conflict now than in the 1960s and 1970s, when they were coming of age. 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Moms do and become sedentary. Everyone wants to be able to laugh without worrywant to get to play and enjoy sports with their kids (ie. soccer, ing about needing to wear a pad. Most women who come to my office are surbaseball, basketball, skiing etc.), they want to get to go to the prised that there are minimally invasive treatments available that can restore gym, run, and exercise to get back to pre-baby shape. their urine control and allow them to get back to doing the things that they loved but had to put on hold. Unfortunately for many women in this situation, urinary control The state of the art in treatment of stress incontinence is the problems can rear their ugly head and deprive many women of this Everyone wants to be vaginal tape procedure. The procedure is minimally invasive with important time. Now there is something that can be done that with able to laugh without minimal recovery time. It is done as an outpatient and is pera small investment of time can restore urinary control forever. Stress incontinence is urine that leaks out during laughing, worrying about needing formed so easily and quickly that I call it the 7 minute sling™. to wear a pad. Patient come in the morning for the procedure and are out before coughing, sneezing or vigorous activity. It can be caused by many noon. When they leave, they are dry immediately. Soreness and factors but one of the most common is childbirth. After child birth many women complain that they leak urine when they laugh or cough. This downtime is so minimal that many women do not even require pain medication. unfortunately can progress to losing urine during physical activity such as play- What a surprise and thrill the first time a woman coughs and nothing leaks out. ing with the kids, working out at the gym or while being intimate. The natural Women are back to their activities in no time. Of all the procedures that I do, response to this leaking problem is to compensate by avoiding these activities. this is the procedure that time and again I hear changed a patient’s life. Moms So many women in my practice complain that they just want to be able to go to are returning to the gym and chasing their children free of any worry about urithe gym and go on the elliptical machine or kick box without worrying about nary control. They can keep up with their kids without leaving anything behind! Contact Dr. Press at 631-675-2810. [email protected]. 226 North Belle leaving a wet spot on their workout clothes. This can be very embarrassing. Many women tell me that when they are chasing their kids around the house or Mead Rd., East Setauket. advertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMAN • April 2011 • 9 Health by Kathy Sena Women’s Health Update SLEEP LOSS AND FAT LOSS: WHAT’S THE CONNECTION? Cutting back on sleep? You might be hurting your dieting efforts (in addition to your overall health) according to a study published recently in the medical journal Annals of Internal Medicine. When dieters in the study got a full night's sleep, they lost the same amount of weight as when they slept less. So what’s the problem, right? Well, when dieters got adequate sleep, more than half of the weight they lost was fat. But when they cut back on their sleep, only one-fourth of their weight loss came from fat. They also felt hungrier. When sleep was restricted, dieters produced higher levels of ghrelin, a hormone that triggers hunger and reduces energy expenditure. “If your goal is to lose fat, skipping sleep is like poking sticks in your bicycle wheels,” says study director Plamen Penev, M.D., Ph.D., assistant professor of medicine at the University of Chicago. “Cutting back on sleep, a behavior that is ubiquitous in modern society, appears to compromise efforts to lose fat through dieting. In our study it reduced fat loss by 55 percent.” The study subjects lost an average of 6.6 pounds during each 14-day session. During weeks with adequate sleep, they lost 3.1 pounds of fat and 3.3 pounds of fat-free body mass, mostly protein. During the short-sleep weeks, participants lost an average of 1.3 pounds of fat and 5.3 pounds of fat-free mass. The message for people trying to lose weight is clear, Penev says. “For the first time, we have evidence that the amount of sleep makes a big difference in the results of dietary interventions. One should not ignore the way they sleep when going on a diet. Obtaining adequate sleep may enhance the beneficial effects of a diet. Not getting enough sleep could defeat the desired effects.” “If your goal is to lose fat, skipping sleep is like poking sticks in your bicycle wheels.” TOO-EARLY ELECTIVE DELIVERIES BECOMING A WORRISOME TREND, DOCTORS SAY Medical experts point to a disturbing trend of expectant mothers who are choosing to deliver their babies for non-medical reasons before 39 weeks of pregnancy. Research published recently in the medical journal Obstetrics & Gynecology reveals just how prevalent elective deliveries are in the U.S. In that study of 7,804 women giving birth for the first time, labor was induced 10 • April 2011 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN in 43.6 percent of the women, and 39.9 percent of those were elective inductions. A startling number of first-time mothers – 92 percent — believe it’s safe to deliver a baby before 39 weeks, according to a recent UnitedHealthcare survey of 650 insured, firsttime mothers. Only eight percent of women surveyed accurately identified 39 to 40 weeks as being the earliest point that it is safe to deliver the baby given no other medical complications requiring early delivery. Nearly 41 percent of women believed that 37 to 38 weeks is the earliest point, while more than half the women surveyed chose 34 to 36 weeks. “Unfortunately, many expectant mothers are not aware of the risks associated with early elective C-sections and induced labor. Expectant mothers may believe that at 36 weeks they have completed their nine months of pregnancy, but Mother Nature’s formula for healthy babies is actually 40 weeks,” says Tina Groat, M.D. and National Medical Director for Women’s Health at UnitedHealthcare. A study published in the New England Journal of Medicine revealed that babies born electively by C-section at 37 weeks were twice as likely to have health problems, usually respiratory in nature, than babies born at 39 weeks or later. Infants delivered preterm are at an increased risk of developing chronic lung disease, cerebral palsy, learning disabilities and behavioral problems. “The results of recent studies stress the importance of educating expectant mothers on the risks associated with elective deliveries prior to 39 weeks. These early-term births can result in the newborn’s admission to the neonatal intensive care unit, which increases the baby’s hospital stay and health risks,” Groat says. “Although the last few weeks of pregnancy can often be physically uncomfortable, expectant parents should take the opportunity to learn just how important these weeks are for their baby’s development and health,” Groat says. “Women should talk with their doctors about the best time to deliver and the risks of putting convenience before safety.” STUDIES LOOK AT NEW TECHNIQUES FOR MEASURING BREAST DENSITY Two new studies have tested three different methods for accurately measuring breast density, the relative portion of tissue to fat in a woman's breasts and a strong indicator of breast-cancer risk. Both studies were conducted by a group of medical physicists at the University of California, Irvine and were presented recently at the 52nd Annual Meeting of the American Association of Physicists in Medicine (AAPM) in Philadelphia. To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Leading Facial Rejuvenation Specialist uInjectable Treatment Expert Our Services Include Dr. James C. 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Marotta, MD Patients all want the same thing - to look and feel better about EZ Lift™ procedures are attractive to many patients because they are performed under themselves with as little “down-time” as possible, at the lowest cost, local anesthesia in the office while the patient’s awake. Despite the fact that today’s anand with the least discomfort. In the past, facial surgery, while always esthetics are very safe, some patients are still afraid of “going to sleep.” With E-Z Lift™ recognized as the most effective means of looking younger, was typi- procedures, local anesthesia (numbing agent) is delivered via simple injection using fine cally associated with prolonged recovery, discomfort and a high cost. needles to the entire surgical area so no pain is felt – it’s similar to what you’ve received This is no longer the case. Facial surgery has evolved to meet the at your dentist’s office. In addition, light oral sedation may be given to relax the nervous demands of today’s busy and discriminating patient. In my practice, patient. Patients find the experience extremely tolerable including those who claim they I offer a number of minimally invasive options that provide amazing are “afraid of needles.” results with shorter procedure times, quicker recovery, little to no discomfort and at lower Since there are a lot of other procedures and practitioners out there who offer some cost than traditional facial surgery. I call these procedures the EZ-Lift™and EZ-Lift Eyes™ version of “mini” facelift surgery, all with varying names, here’s some good advice to help and EZ-Microfat transfer™. you with your decision if you’re considering a mini-lift. Facial aging is a complex transformation involving areas including the “EZ-Lift™ procedures 1. Pick the surgeon, not the procedure: A surgery is only as good as the brow, upper eyelids, lower eyelids, cheeks, jawline, and neck. The amount talent and expertise of the surgeon who is performing it. Have a consultaof aging people have in these areas varies greatly based on anatomy, genet- have a quicker recovery tion with a surgeon who can correctly diagnose and treat the problem that ics, and facial/neck fat. If the brow and cheeks/lower eyelids have drooped time… [and]… are is bothering you. Look at the surgeon’s results and credentials – choose only or deflated, the EZ-Microfat transfer™ can help restore a youthful fullness a board certified surgeon. A facial plastic surgeon is someone who is dual to the face. EZ-Lift Eyes™ corrects sagging skin and bags in the upper and performed under local board certified and specializes in plastic surgery of the face. Talk to other lower eyelids. The EZ-Lift™, like a traditional facelift, diminishes jowls, folds, patients who have had surgery with the surgeon performing your surgery. anesthesia” and the dreaded “turkey gobbler” in the neck. These E-Z Lift procedures 2. Don’t believe the hype: Be wary of infomercials, “factories” and can be done alone or in combination to address most of the problems in facial aging. overly commercial offerings that promise miracle results and no recovery. Any mini-lift is In general, EZ-Lift™ procedures have a quicker recovery time because the areas of sur- surgery, after all, and even non-surgical procedures have some form of recovery. gery are smaller and shorter incisions are utilized. Also, time in surgery tends to be much 3. Be realistic: Not everyone is a candidate for smaller or mini lifts. The reason more quicker than more extensive lifts. These adaptations translate into less bruising and swell- extensive facelifts exist under anesthesia is because they offer the ability to do more. You ing, less postoperative discomfort, and shorter “down-time” away from work or recre- may not get the results you were looking for with a smaller procedure if you have excesation. Because EZ-Lift™ procedures utilize some of the same plastic surgery techniques sive drooping. adapted from “full” lifts, they have significant longevity and offer long lasting improveTo see E-Z Lift Before and After Photos, visit www.MarottaMD.com. ment in appearance. For more information, please visit www.MarottaMD.com or call 631-982-2022. advertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMAN • April 2011 • 11 Health Women’s Health Update The first study compared two existing techniques for measuring breast density: cone-beam computed tomography (CT) and breast magnetic resonance imaging (MRI). It found that both techniques gave highly similar estimates of breast density. The second study showed the promise of a third technique, called dual-energy mammography, for measuring breast density. “A better measure of breast density should yield a more accurate assessment of risk for developing breast cancer,” says medical physicist Justin Ducote, who presented the work on dual-energy mammography in Philadelphia. Doctors have known since the 1970s that women who have dense breasts are at greater risk for developing breast cancer. Tumors may be more difficult to detect when imaging dense breast tissue, since they have a greater portion of glandular tissue relative to the amount of fatty tissue, and the glandular tissue can obscure tumors. Measuring breast density is made difficult by the fact there is no currently accepted gold-standard method for doing so, says Ducote. WHAT YOUR MARITAL “FIGHT STYLE” MAY PREDICT ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE Most of us probably assume that newlyweds who yell a lot or call each other names might have a higher chance of getting divorced. But a new University of Michigan study shows that other conflict patterns also predict a split. A particularly toxic pattern appears to be when one spouse deals with conflict constructively, by calmly discussing the situation, listening to their partner's point of view or trying hard to find out what their partner is feeling, for example — and the other spouse withdraws. “This pattern seems to have a damaging effect on the longevity of marriage,” says U-M researcher Kira Birditt, first author of a study on marital-conflict behaviors and implications for divorce published in the Journal of Marriage and Family. “Spouses who deal with conflicts constructively may view their partner’s habit of withdrawing as a lack of investment in the relationship rather than an attempt to cool down.” Couples in which both spouses used constructive strategies had lower divorce rates, Birditt found. The data are from the “Early Years of Marriage Study,” supported by funding from the National Institute of Aging and the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development. It is one of the largest and longest research projects to look at patterns of marital conflict, with 373 couples interviewed four times over a 16-year period, starting the first year of their marriages. Surprisingly, the researchers found that 29 percent of husbands and 21 percent of wives reported having no conflicts at all in the first year of their marriage (1986). Nonetheless, 46 percent of the couples had divorced by The single most important thing you can do to alleviate the pain of fibromyalgia is to keep moving. 12 • April 2011 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN year 16 of the study (2002). Interestingly, whether or not couples reported any conflict during the first year of marriage did not affect whether they had divorced by the last year studied. Overall, husbands reported using more constructive behaviors and fewer destructive behaviors than wives. But over time, wives were less likely to use destructive strategies or withdraw, while husbands' use of these behaviors stayed the same through the years. “The problems that cause wives to withdraw or use destructive behaviors early in a marriage may be resolved over time,” Birditt says. “Or, relationships and the quality of relationships may be more central to women's lives than they are to men. As a result, over the course of marriage, women may be more likely to recognize that withdrawing from conflict or using destructive strategies is neither effective nor beneficial to the overall well-being and stability of their marriages.” HELP FOR FIBROMYALGIA PAIN Chronic muscle pain that is diffuse or moves throughout the body is the primary symptom of fibromyalgia. The syndrome is often accompanied by fatigue, bowel disturbances and urinary difficulty. Fibromyalgia can affect your daily activity, your sleep and even your thinking when you’re worn out and experiencing “brain fog,” says Henri Roca, M.D., medical director at Greenwich Hospital’s Center for Integrative Medicine in Cos Cob, Connecticut. Some people live with a low level of pain and think of it as a part of getting older. Although an exact cause for fibromyalgia has not been identified, Roca points to hormone imbalance, nutritional deficiencies and gastrointestinal dysfunction as potential triggers. “There’s not a singular reason why people get fibromyalgia,” he explains. “Nothing in the body is independent from anything else. We work to find the balance.” Conventional treatment options include medications used for general pain and medications that change the way the brain receives and processes pain stimuli. People who don’t respond to these medications, and people who don’t want the side effects of these medications, are starting to look at other ways to relieve their symptoms. Stress, for some people with fibromyalgia, is a big factor in their pain levels. “Stress may not cause fibromyalgia, but it can make it worse, explains Roca, who also uses acupuncture and mind/body techniques such as biofeedback and hypnosis to help a person recognize the impact of thoughts on the physical body. The single most important thing you can do to alleviate the pain of fibromyalgia is to keep moving, just a little bit at a time, according to Roca. Stretching in bed while lying down is a good place to start. Yoga and Tai Chi are effective to relieve painful symptoms by keeping muscles strong and supple. Moving in warm water is soothing and gentle because the buoyancy of the water supports the body. Fibromyalgia most often affects women in their 30s to 50s. 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Risk created the dancing-on-the-cliff’s edge opportunity I was seeking.” The book is pure fiction, but the idea came from a very real “proposition” that was presented to Martha McPhee several years ago. She refused the offer, but was intrigued by the idea, so she decided to write a novel about it. To write the book, she immersed herself in the world of bond trading to create a riveting story that pulls us into a turbulent financial world in its heyday. India occasionally looks back, but the lure of wealth is too compelling for her to consider turning back. “In some ways,” says the author, “It’s a cautionary tale about the grass being greener, but it’s also a commentary on our modern obsession of ‘keeping up with the Joneses,’ especially the Joneses who live in New York City, send their children to exclusive private schools, attend gala fundraisers at the Metropolitan Museum of Art, and summer in New England.” In an interesting plot twist, at almost the same time that India has become a bond trader, Will Chapman decides to leave his profitable Wall Street job to fulfill his dream of becoming a novelist, so in many ways, the two families trade places, and India’s obsession with money continues to grow. “It starts like this: you get a job, you want a better job; you get a car, you want a better car; you get a house, you want a better house; you have a child, you want another, then another. Crested Butte becomes Aspen becomes Gstaad.” Ms. McPhee ends the novel one year to the day before Lehman Brothers went under and the collapse of the financial market began its downward spiral. India Palmer is in Maine, having bought the Chapmans’ charming cottage on Pond Point. She is deciding whether or not to tear it down in order to build a more ostentatious house. “I wanted the book to end with India on a precipice, “says Ms. McPhee. “At this point, she is fully leveraged and channeling Scarlett O’Hara’s ‘Tomorrow is another day.’ India is a metaphor for the state of the financial market at that point in time.” Martha McPhee is the daughter of the prolific Pulitzer Prize-winning writer John McPhee, and is a tenured professor of English at Hofstra University. “Being a writer is unstable,” she explains. “There are constant ups and downs, acceptances and rejections. It’s a bi-polar existence. There is lots of excitement when something is published, and then a lull between publications. Being a professor is the even keel.” She still loves to cook and shares some favorite recipes on her website, marthamcphee.com. ◆ 14 • April 2011 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Dear Money by Martha McPhee Houghton Mifflin Harcourt; 2010; $25 When she was just ten years old, Martha McPhee loved to cook elaborate dishes for her large extended family—parents, stepparents, siblings, and stepsiblings. When she cooked Chicken Kiev, she enjoyed observing the butter spurt out as family members took their first bite. As an adult, Ms. McPhee is equally observant, which is one reason why her novel, Dear Money, is so vivid and engrossing. Dear Money, the author’s fourth novel, is a Pygmalion tale for the 21st century. Instead of taking place in ancient Greece or Edwardian England, the novel takes place in the early years of the new century, on a frenzied Wall Street deep in the throes of the subprime mortgage market. The story begins in Maine in the summer of 2003 and Martha McPhee’s exquisite description lures us in immediately. “Maine. Pond Point, the old Victorian cottage tied together, it seemed, with twine, standing as it does before the dunes with a swath of sea grass like a moat, sweet pea shoots, their blue flowers dancing in a late-afternoon breeze blowing offshore.” Novelist India Palmer, her sculptor husband Theodor and their two young daughters are staying at a friends’ seaside cottage. Emma and Will Chapman are dear friends and generous hosts, but India feels a just-under-thesurface envy whenever she spends time with them. The Chapmans seem to have it all—a luxurious apartment in Manhattan, a seaside cottage in Maine, and an ease about money that only those who have enough of it can emit. Though they struggle to send their daughters to the same private school as the Chapman girls, India and Theodor live in a crowded rent-stabilized apartment and juggle unpaid bills like so many balls in the air. Then India meets Win Johns, a charming Wall Street executive and a friend of the Chapmans, and she is immediately mesmerized. Win makes her an offer that will turn her current financial situation on its ear. On a Pygmalion-type bet that Win makes with the CEO of his Wall Street firm, India is lured into the frenzied world of bond trading. Almost immediately, her middling novel-writing career comes to a complete halt. 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Jacono, M.D., FACS The aging process, if you haven’t noticed, has a wear-and-tear effect on Future Lift, which fuses the optimal features of older-generation, short-incision “mini” face our skin and our bodies. As we enter our forties and early fifties the jaw line lifts with deep plane face lifts. Hybrid face lifts yield superior, natural looking results with minand neck begin to loosen, creating jowls, neck laxity, vertical bands in the imal scarring and a shorter recovery (7-10 days). In addition, this lift restores volume to the neck, and that much dreaded “turkey neck.” In recent years we have cheekbones and smoothes nasolabial folds, resulting in a youthful, beautiful, heart- shaped become intolerant of these consequences, and more of us are seeking to face and authentic result that does not appear tight or “overdone.” For years, my patients rewind the clock and revitalize our physical being. have had to choose between better results or less scarring. With hybrid face lifts, they get the There were over 100,000 facelifts performed in 2009 according to the best of both worlds. American Society of Plastic Surgeons, but the techniques used vary widely. There are corporate The Future Lift uses a short incision, while lifting the facial tissue and muscles simultaneoussponsored face lifts that are advertised on television claiming no downtime, trademarked lifts, ly so patients get the superior results of a deep plane face lift, combined with the minimal scarmini lifts, S-lifts, MACS lifts, and deep plane lifts. This is all very confusing, ring of a “mini lift.” It is not only an option that delivers best-in-class and most of us do not understand the vital differences. How do you decide results, but a procedure that offers longer-lasting results as well. The stanThe most state-of-the-art what procedure gives the best results, with minimal scarring and downdard lifetime of a “mini lift” is between three to five years, but with newer face lift is a recently time, and the longest lasting results? This is the most commonly asked hybrid face lifts results typically last 12 to 15 years. question by my patients. Just like a “mini face lift,” The Future Lift can be performed under local developed hybrid technique, Short-incision “mini” face lifts, often the ones advertised on television, anesthesia in about an hour and a half. General anesthesia is not necesthat I call the Future Lift. utilize an abbreviated incision to lift the skin. While the incision is small sary, making this a safe procedure as well. Given the level of difficulty in (hidden inside the ear) leaving minimal scarring, post-operative bleeding performing this procedure, as a more detailed understanding of the anatoand bruising is a trademark of these procedures. They typically tighten only the skin and do my is required, I encourage any patient considering this procedure to seek a physician who spenot lift and tighten the muscles. As a result, they can leave patients with a windswept, cializes in facial plastic surgery and possesses the level of expertise required to perform a hybrid “pulled” appearance, and the results last only three to five years, as the underlying facial musface lift. As a committed facial plastic surgeon, I assure that all of my patients have a clear cles are not tightened. The facial muscles are the structure of the face, the beams that hold up understanding of the different types of procedures. Any patient considering a face lift should the face lift if you will; and if not treated the lifted face will fall earlier than desired. be aware of all of their options. 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He is a very large incision, resulting in more noticeable scarring which makes hiding your procedure Section Head of the Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery at North Shore University Hospital virtually impossible. and an Assistant Professor of Facial Plastic Surgery at New York Eye and Ear Infirmary, and The most state-of-the-art face lift is a recently developed hybrid technique, that I call the Albert Einstein College of Medicine. advertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMAN • April 2011 • 15 Bayside • Astoria • Manhasset • Garden City Good d Advice An Effective Medical Weight Loss Program by Dr. Konstantinos Zarkadas Many people think that being overweight is an appearance issue. loss is a struggle whether you want to lose 15 or 150 pounds. 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In 1976, the now activist and author, created the pioneering role of the loving, working mother on Days of Our Lives, and in 1986 became the first performer ever to simultaneously appear on daytime and primetime television when she began sharing her smile and maternal instinct as Jesse Witherspoon on Our House. She left daytime tv the following year to focus on a career in television movies and stage roles, but returned to Days of Our Lives to the delight of millions of fans in 1991, where she and Drake Hogestyn (as John Black) became one of television’s most beloved couples. Throughout the next nineteen years in Hall’s work with Days of Our Lives, her career and personal life saw many changes. Hall had two sons, David and Sully, via a surrogate mother. In 1993, Hall created Never Say Never- The Deidre Hall Story (amongst many other television projects), an ABC Family film about her struggle to start a family, and her reasons for finally choosing to have a surrogate help her. An identical twin, Deidre also introduced her sister, Andrea Hall, to her Days of Our Lives family during both of her runs in the show. Andrea supported Deidre in December when the close pair visited New York, allowing Deidre to participate in a Days of our Lives 45 Years: A Celebration in Photos book signing event. Deidre also brought along copies of her cookbook, Deidre Hall’s Kitchen Closeup. Now single and living in Los Angeles with her boys, the 63 year old enjoys campaigning for causes close to her heart and creating books to help women improve their lives. Hall spoke with LONG ISLAND WOMAN before heading out to chat with hundreds of fans who had lined up to see her at for a Barnes & Noble book signing. I How do you think portraying Marlena has changed the way people perceive women in soap operas? I think that Marlena was topical and timely. When I joined the show I was a woman beginning her career and trying to establish herself and a medical practice. A lot of women my age were doing just that, trying to get themselves into business. The next stage of Marlena’s life was getting married and balancing marriage and family and a career, and women of that age were doing the same thing. Then she had a number of tragedies and left her husband, and everybody’s been through those stages, so she was today’s woman for about thirty years. I think people look at that and say, “Well, she’s going through it also, that must be what’s happening.” I think that’s why she lasted so long. People just related to her life schedule. She was strong, but she wasn’t perfect. What was the most challenging aspect of playing Marlena? I found that I was careful how I responded to things. Marlena had to be someone you always felt safe with. You always trusted her and you always knew no matter what happened she’d be there. She’d be on your side and she’d be your champion, even to the extremes. She didn’t see any of the evil of Sammy. That was some girl! I got mail saying, “Can’t you see what a rat she is?” and “How come Marlena is still so accepting?” It’s because that’s what we all want. We all want someone to accept us even in our bad moments. It was not always easy! What was the most rewarding aspect of playing Marlena? The women that watched the show and followed her were like her. They were devoted, intelligent, sophisticated, gainfully employed, hard-working, and they had integrity. That became my fan base. When I went out in the marketplace, that’s who was coming toward me. I didn’t play Erica Kane. I didn’t have to worry about somebody throwing a pie in my face or hating me or resenting me. The worst thing that ever happened to me were arms flung wide for hugs, and that’s not so bad. When you first looked through Days of our Lives 45 Years: A Celebration in Photos, memories from your time with the show must have come flooding back to you. Which were your favorites? The funny thing about the Days book was that they’re not distant memories. Seeing the Horton living room, we revisited that so many hundreds of times. That room never changed. Seeing the set layout, seeing the blueprints, it’s like being in your childhood home. There really were very few moments that took me by surprise. You have been in so many television films, but the most personal one was Never Say Never – The Deidre Hall Story. Describe the feedback you got about making a movie having to do with the topic of surrogacy. My ex and I wrote it. There was so much confusion about surrogacy and so much misinformation and sort of a perverse curiosity. “Did he have to sleep with her?” It was not a knowledgeable arena. The satisfying part was reminding women there’s somebody else out there that’s going to give you the greatest gift of your life, and the joy she gets is seeing you have your family. There was no confusion. There was no fighting about it. The babies were created for me. Robin and I are still very close. My boys think of her children as their half brothers and sisters. I’m really proud of women. I love the part of us that can chip in, help each other, be so empathic that we give of our flesh to help each other out. We lose track of that in the day to day part of our lives. I think that when women stand together there’s nothing we can’t do. Were there any challenges in playing yourself in front of the camera? There were so many people in the film that were a part of my real life, so there was was it. I got to work one summer in a shop with a woman who was a hairdresser and rinse permanent rods, and oh my gosh, I loved it. Then I was studying to be a therapist, and came to L.A. one summer and was making some extra money modeling while still taking college classes. I was still modeling to support myself, but kept missing classes. Then I was acting and kept missing more classes. I woke up one day and thought, “Oh, wait, I do have a career. I just need to get out of school and go do it.” So I switched to an acting major, which became twelve years of classes. Was it challenging to be on Our House while still working on Days of Our Lives? When did you sleep? It wasn’t challenging. In daytime television you’re so good at what you do. I would come and do Days of Our Lives on the weekend, and I would have up to one hundred pages of dialogue per day. I would look at it, memorize it, go do it. And then I would be on Our House five days a week. There wasn’t a lot of time to do laundry and the functional part of living, but as far as shooting two shows, I loved them both, it wasn’t work! I didn’t sleep much, but I was a lot younger then too! Were you and your twin sister Andrea more competitive than your average siblings because you were both acting? Her voyage into acting was not planned. She’s an extraordinary Special Education teacher. At one point, Ann Marcus who was writing our show, took a meeting with several of the actors that were leads and said, “What would you like to do for a story line?” I said, “Oh, I would like to work with my sister.” “Why would that be?” I said, “I don’t know, we’re twins.” Oh gosh! “YOU HAVE A TWIN?” They had her on a plane the next week, screen tested, and bought her out of her contract. It was when the evil Samantha was born. But she had no ambition to act, it was not in her plan. And then she came back as Hattie Adams, which was screamingly good fun. We were raised as individuals, so we really had a solid sense of ourselves and what our interests and passions were. We’re so much alike in terms of our belief systems, our integrity, and our core values. There just isn’t a problem. Do you think that being a soap opera star got in the way of any other acting opportunities? Clearly it does. You make a choice when you sign a contract. It’s a no-outs contract, you can’t do anything else. Even if you could, there’s no time. Given the schedule that you have, they write story lines weeks ahead, scripts days ahead, and to ask for a lengthy time off to do a film or to do a miniseries, it would be debilitating for the soap opera. What is the most memorable comment a fan has made to you about the show when they saw you? I did a book signing in Miami, and an eight year old boy came up and said, “Sammy is so out of control, you’ve got to spank her!” And I said, “What is she doing?” “She shot E.J.!” “She shot E.J.!? Why?” “Because he was going to take her babies away from her!” I said, “Is he okay? Where did she shoot him?” “In the ear.” I said, “Didn’t mama teach her better shooting than that?” It was a hilarious, sweet little kind of ongoing dialogue. He was adorable. How did you discover all of the secrets that are in your cookbook? It’s information that my friend and co-author Lynn Bowman and I happen to have. There are no great mysteries unraveled in the book, it’s just good common sense. It’s a book I always wanted. I always wanted to be able to answer the question, “Oh golly, the nightmare, the question: What’s for supper? Oh my gosh!” We tend to fall back on the best five dishes that we make, that we’re sick of and our families are sick of. This book was designed to be used for quick meals – simple, basic, raw, healthy ingredients, and delicious food. Everything in the book is easy to make. There’s a portion in it that is a shopping list – things you want to have in your refrigerator and in your pantry so when you can’t stop after a PTA meeting, and you can’t stop after a long day at work, you go, “Okay, I know what to do…and it’s still fresh and terrific.” What is your favorite thing to cook? I’m really proud of women. I love the part of us that can chip in, help each other, be so empathic that we give of our flesh to help each other out. a great sense of camaraderie in playing those moments. There was a moment in a monologue that I had written that takes place outside the doctor’s office where [Robin] decided not to be our surrogate, and I tell her what it’s like to not have your family. During that scene, David, who was just about 2 1/2 years old, was standing beside me. We were shooting in a close-up. We were standing against the wall, and I said, “Mommy and Robin are talking, you cannot talk, okay?” And he never spoke. It was such a full moment to be talking about his birth for millions of people to see while he’s leaning against my thigh. Very dear. Do your sons want to follow in your footsteps by getting into the entertainment business? No. David (18) has a knack for it and would be good at it. Plus, he’s drop dead gorgeous. Tully (16) is more cerebral, off-the-charts bright and sensitive. 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We have so many ideas for books. We want to do Kid in the Kitchen and Man in the Kitchen. Also, Cooking for One, which is a big problem in this country because there are so many single people that are eating packaged food because they just can’t get it together. It’s no fun cooking for one, we all know that, and so I think there’s a big need for that sort of a handbook. Then I want to write a beauty book, and then maybe an autobiography. Any chance you’ll be back on Days? One: I haven’t been asked. Two: I’m really loving where I am now. I spent 32 years there. My son is going away to college next year. My little one’s in high school, it’s a good time to be home. I’m working in my garden and seeing my friends… I would consider it, but I would have to really seriously think about it. I love where I am, but I also love Days and they’re a family to me. Other than spending time in your garden, what do you find yourself doing in your relaxation time? I get to work out now, and I’m politically active, always have been. I’ve been all over the Child Nutrition Act renewal. We’ve been to D.C. to campaign for the Nutrition Act. I took my older son to Brazil a couple of summers ago to work for Operation Smile, and we worked with handicapped children or disfigured children. It’s just stuff that I could never do before, because I never Deidre’s Favorites had a schedule. I never knew when I’d Book: The China Study. I think it’s an be off. It’s been a spoiling time, real life. absolute must-read for everybody. I Tell LONG ISLAND WOMAN something that even recommend it in my book. no one else would know about you. Movie: Notting Hill. Love it. I’m way too open! I love jigsaw puzzles. I would do them until I dropped. I Actor & Actress: I like James used to walk and talk in my sleep. I Spader. Love his later work. Drew sleep alone, so I don’t know if I still do Barrymore is always adorable, always or not. That being said, I’m learning contemporary, always believable. I love with time that we need a greater her work. amount of self care. I’m working on a Singer: Susan Boyle. And I love Josh sleep book also, because it’s the one Groban. thing of which we’re so deprived, and Food and/or Restaurant: New York’s so many things suffer when you lose sleep. Your sex life, your physical life, Trattoria Dell’Arte. I’m not a pizza your mental life, your relationships, fan, but it’s got a smashing house everything suffers. We’re all walking specialty, thin-crust pizza. around absolutely exhausted most of Television show: I’m a big fan of the time, and we’re depleting ourselves. NCIS, Dr. Oz, Oprah and The Good I would say to women: Get into self Wife. I’m not a fan of reality, it just care, put on your own mask first and doesn’t interest me. I watched One you’ll be a better woman, wife, mother, Life to Live when it was on the air. I wife, friend, employee, if you just get don’t keep up with Days. eight hours a night. Start there. ▲ To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Catching Up with Carol by Carol Silva A Little Off Target I’m going to be married 20 years come September. Pretty remarkable. Not because I don’t believe in marriage. I very much do. In fact my husband and I have been teaching PreCana (marriage preparation taught by married couples to engaged couples getting married in the Catholic Church) for two decades. I just can’t believe we finally got in the same place long enough. I met him when I was 17. We worked in the same department store; even used to double date with my boyfriend and his girlfriend. We went our separate ways – I guess to grow up. Then in the late 1980s, he was working at WNBC-TV when there was a strike. To fill his time, he came to work at News 12 – such a great old friend, I set him up on dates with my friends! It took a few years for our “friendship” to become something more. But the earliest stage of “something more” was tricky–the part when you’re not sure if you’re dating. One day we agreed to meet for lunch. He told me he was working on his sailboat so we should meet outside Cocco’s Restaurant on the water in Huntington. I picked the perfect outfit: nautical blue striped shirt, a white cable sweater around my shoulders, adorable cuffed white shorts. Yes, I remember. He showed up in a pair of old blue gym shorts, white t-shirt, a bandana around his head. He looked like Papa Smurf! He was covered in blue dust from sanding the bottom of his boat. I’m not sure who was more embarrassed when he said, “Oh, the boat is in the boatyard around the corner, but I never thought you’d find it.” Off we went to the deli for sandwiches so I could perch on a ladder in the boatyard. Nice. But I got even. Didn’t mean to. I was working the 4am shift at News 12 while he worked the 2-11pm shift at NBC. I told him to meet me around 1-PM (his breakfast) in a Northern Blvd., Manhasset restaurant. Perfect little salad shop, light meals. Except I gave him the name of a restaurant several doors away. We both walked into heavy duty Italian port wines, thick velvet curtains. I was too embarrassed to suggest, “Wanna move down the block?” Although he could have had that pasta dish they make with eggs. Then there was the time he and Lea Tyrrell’s husband dropped us off in the middle of Little Italy and went to park. About 45 minutes later the guys showed up – realizing we had walked into the other Italian restaurant on the block with the big windows and brass trim. So where do we go for our 20th? Even if we stay home, I’m afraid he’ll show up at the kitchen table, while I’m all decked out, waiting in the dining room! ◆ News 12's Carol Silva has been bringing Long Islander's their local news for more than 20 years. Watch her weekday mornings at 5:30am on News 12 Long Island. I’m going to be married 20 years come September. Pretty remarkable. To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMAN • April 2011 • 21 Sustenance by Lyn Dobrin Ugali. Chinsaga. Vindaloo. Yummm! Food Stories from Returned Peace Corps Volunteers of Long Island Fifty years ago the Peace Corps was established. Since then, answering the call of President John F. Kennedy to serve the cause of peace by living and working in developing countries – “ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country” – more than 200,000 Americans have worked as Peace Corps volunteers in 139 host countries. The Peace Corps has been an amazing opportunity for Americans, mostly in their 20s, to see the world and be immersed in another culture while trying to do something useful. In 1965, just out of college, my husband of less than a year and I traveled to Kenya to work with farmers cooperatives. A bonus of the Peace Corps experience for us, and most other volunteers, was the opportunity to eat new foods. The tribe we were living with, the Kisii, enjoyed The author sampling ugali, a very thick corn food in Kenya. mush, generally eaten with cooked greens similar to collard greens, called chinsaga. On special occa- their stories. Some of the best coffee in the world is from Panama so I’m a bit jealous of Karen Donneson of Westhampton. When she was a volunteer in Panama, working in sustainable agriculture, Karen lived in a mountainous coffee-growing area and had fresh roasted coffee every day. I, too, lived in a coffee growing country but at that time all the best coffee was shipped out and I had to travel to Nairobi, 250 miles to the east, to get the good stuff. Says Karen, “It was interesting to see how the entire coffee processing went, from harvesting to roasting over an open fire pit to hand grinding it. I loved drinking it. Many Panamanians in my village drank their coffee with sugar. I liked it black - like espresso. I drank a lot of it.” A bonus of the Peace Corps experience for us, and most other volunteers, was the opportunity to eat new foods. sions ugali is served with meat stew, made from a freshly slaughter goat or cow. And then there was Indian food. Asians had come to Kenya with the building of the Uganda railroad and stayed. We had Sikh and Goan friends who introduced us to their food. For the first time, I had real curries made with freshly ground spices and homemade yoghurt. Moving to Westbury upon returning we had trouble finding Indian food. Forty years ago there was only one Indian restaurant on the Island. Today, the choices are many—Hicksville alone is a gold mine of Indian restaurants and food shops. I wondered about the culinary experiences of others and so asked some of the members of Returned Peace Corps Volunteers of Long Island for 22 • April 2011 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN Karen says that rice was a staple in her village and people ate it for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Here in the U.S. she frequently cooks rice and beans. “I tried to make patacones, fried plantains, but they don't come out the same,” she says. Rice was a staple for Danielle Jacobs-Erwin of Mattituuck while working in HIV/AIDS prevention in Madagascar. “Malagasy eat rice three times a day with ro, a little meat or vegetables on top.” Her favorite dish was ravitoto made of ground cassava leaves and pieces of meat, combined with coconut milk. 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Guatemalan friends were fans of the fast food chain Pollo Campero and she ate there whenever she visited the capital city, a five-hour bus drive from her village. Pollo Campero now has two restaurants on Long Island, in Hempstead and Brentwood. Carol Siller, of Amityville, worked as an ESL teacher in Turkey in Rize, a province on the Black Sea. “Turkish food is wonderful, as are the Turkish people,” says Carol. “Don't tell the Greeks or the Turks, but their food is VERY similar!” Carol recalls a wonderful Christmas feast that she and fellow Peace Corps volunterrs celebrated in Turkey. “We enlisted the help of our students and many of the Rize residents, especially the merchants. Our students saved candy wrappers and made tree ornaments. The butcher went to a nearby village to get us a turkey, which everyone called the ‘Americali’ and the local baker used his ovens to roast us a leg of lamb. Good d Advice The Use of Personal Care Agreements by Marc Alhonte, Esq. The new Medicaid es. 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Now that was a Christmas to remember. I even made my family's fresh coconut cake. Word spread throughout the Peace Corps world and we actually received a letter of commendation from Sargent Shriver. Now that is the Spirit of Christmas, lovingly celebrated with our Muslim friends.” Doro wat was the favorite food of Mary Myers-Bruckenstein of Coram while she was working as a nurse and a nurse educator in Ethiopia. Doro wat is often referred to as Ethiopia’s national dish. It is a very spicy blend of chicken and many spices, most particularly berbere, which contains fenugreek, cayenne pepper, cumin, cardamom, allspice, to name a few. It is served with injera, a sourdough type of soft flatbread that is used in lieu of utensils. Says Mary, “This is yummy! You eat it with your hands. Injerra has a sour taste that balances the hot spices.” These days Mary makes the labor-intensive doro wat and injerra for parties. So let’s celebrate Kennedy’s dream the food of the world! ◆ YES! you’re right. 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Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-423-7201. nassaulibrary.org/longbeach. David Houston will be performing the reading. 7 •Sunflower Pin: 10am-12:30pm. Beads n’ Stitches, 153 Broadway, Hicksville. 516-3969893. beadsnstitches.com. $25. 9 •2nd Annual Sewing Workshop: 9am-5pm. The Long Beach Public Library, 111 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. Call Kacie at 516-4316437 to register. nassaulibrary.org/longbeach. You must have a sewing machine and basic sewing skills for this class. 11 •Lunch & Learn: See April 4th. 12 •AARP Mature Alive Driving Course: See April 5th. •How to Meditate: 7:30-9:30pm. Judith S. Giannotti, Smithtown. 631-724-9733. lightawakeningsmeditationandbeyond.com. Reduce stress and improve your life. 13 •Creative Writing Workshop: 7pm. Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com. 15 •Tree of Life: 7:30-9:30pm. Beads n’ Stitches, •Basic Jewelry Making Workshop: See April 1st. •Sunflower Pin: See April 7th. 25 •Never Enough Earrings: 10am-12pm. Beads n’ Stitches, 153 Broadway, Hicksville. 516396-9893. beadsnstitches.com. $20 plus the cost of materials used. 26 •Meditation Group: 7:30-9:30pm. Judith S. Giannotti, Smithtown. 631-724-9733. lightawakeningsmeditationandbeyond.com. Achieve inner peace and understanding. Ongoing •Adolescent Support & Mentoring: By appointment. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. Facilitator: Marlene Natale. For those adolescents whose lives have been touched by cancer-related illnesses. •Beginner Bridge Lessons: 10am-12pm Sundays through June 5th. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. 516-766-4341 x111. friedbergjcc.org. •Breast Cancer Exercise Program: Noon1pm, Saturdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. For breast cancer patients who are finished with treatment. Provided by personal trainers certified in teaching exercise & wellness to breast cancer survivors. •Cancer Discussion: 1-2:30pm, Wednesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. Facilitator, Geri Barish. An informal, ongoing chat for people whose lives have been touched by cancer. •Cancer Support Group: 11:15am-12:15pm, Tuesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. For those in need of support for all cancer-related illnesses. Group members of different ages and with different types of cancer come together each week to support one another. •Cancer Support Group for Bilateral Surgery: 5:30-6:30pm, Tuesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516374-3190. 1in9.org. Facilitator, Geri Barish. For women who have had bilateral surgery, double mastectomy. •Cardio Ballroom: 11am, Sundays. Sky Athletic Club, 310 Merrick Rd., Rockville Centre. 516-678-9400. skyathletic.com. Dance like the stars and lose weight. •Chair Yoga Mondays: 10:30am-11:30am Mondays through April 11th. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. 516-766-4341 x111. friedbergjcc.org. Yoga instructor, Sandye Pinz. To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] •Crochet Class: noon-1:30pm, Thursdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. The group is designed to help cancer patients draw strength from each other and enjoy togetherness in this circle of friendship. •Decoupage Art Class: 12:30-2:30pm., Tuesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. The art of decoupage under glass is in reformatting paper images to create something else. •Family Support & Cancer Support: By appointment, Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. Facilitator, Florence Brodsky. For family members of those who have had cancer or are undergoing treatment. •Fitness for Older Adults: 9:05am, Fridays. Long Beach Public Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432-7201. nassaulibrary.org/longbeach. •Intermediate Bridge Lessons: 10am-12pm Tuesdays through May 31st. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. 516-766-4341 x111. friedbergjcc.org. •Italian Language Class: 10am-noon, Saturday. Stony Brook Univ., Stony Brook, 7:30- 9:30pm., Tuesdays. John Glenn HS., Elwood Rd., Elwood. 631-632-7444. italianstudies.org. 50 hours of instruction through May 3rd. For levels 1-4. $200. •Koga: 10:30am, Fridays. Sky Athletic Club, 310 Merrick Rd., Rockville Centre. 516-6789400. skyathletic.com. All levels are welcome. •Mat Yoga Mondays: 9am-10am Mondays. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. 516766-4341 x111. friedbergjcc.org. Yoga Instructor Sandye Pinz. •Learn to be Tobacco Free: Through April 26th. Dowling College, 1300 William Floyd Parkway, Shirley. 631-244-1312. dowling.edu. •Mah Jongg for Beginners: 6:30-8:30pm., Mondays. Huntington Library. 338 Main St., Huntington. 631-427-5165. thehuntingtonlibrary.org. Registration Required. Fee for playing cards. •Music Appreciation: 11am-noon, Mondays. Mid Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516-822-3535 x335. miyjcc.org. Listen to operas, operettas and Broadway musicals. $110. •Newly Diagnosed Breast Cancer Support: 12:30-1:30pm, Tuesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. Facilitator, Jill Alper. For those recently diagnosed with breast cancer. •Pilates: 6:30-7:30pm, Wednesdays. Huntington Library. 338 Main St., Huntington. 631-427-5165. thehuntingtonlibrary.org. Registration required. $12 for the series. •Pots of Hope: Thursdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. An innovative art class for cancer patients, using terra cotta flowerpots. •Reiki Clinic: Wednesdays by appointment. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., SPOTLIGHT Dr. Andrew Jacono's Annual Cosmetic Surgery Seminar and Brunch to benefit the n Nassau County Coalition Against Domestic Violence Andrew Jacono, MD is the Senior Advisor of “Face to Face,” a nationalproject offering pro bono consultation and surgery to victims of domestic violence. Dr. Jacono is also a volunteer surgeon for “Beyond Our Borders,” and for “Healing and Children,” which helps children throughout the world receive medical care unavailable to them due to a lack of medical and financial resources or health insurance. Dr. Jacono will discuss the latest advances in facial rejuvenation, address your questions and concerns and raffle off prizes for Botox, Juvederm, Restylane, Laser Treatments and more. All proceeds from ticket purchases for this event are donated to the Nassau County Coalition Against Domestic Violence. When: Saturday, April 2, 11am-1:30pm Where: Garden City Hotel Tickets : $10 To reserve your tickets call 516-773-4646 advertisement Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. Learn about and experience this simple healing technique. For all cancer-related illness. •Sherlock Holmes: 12:30-1:30pm, Tuesdays. Mid Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516-822-3535 x335. miyjcc.org. Discussion group. $15. •Spiritual Care Companion Program: Through April 7th. Catholic Health Services of Long Island, 245 Old Country Rd., Melville. 631-465-6433. chsli.org. For those in need of support for all cancer-related illnesses. This free program will offer individuLONG ISLAND WOMAN • April 2011• 27 Happenings April als the required skills necessary for caring and listening to people who are sick or elderly. •Writers Round Table: 11am-noon, Wednesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. Freelance writer and author Lyna Caruso facilitates this creative writing workshop for those affected by cancer. Eight-week program. Registration required. Free. •Yoga for Beginners with Linda Cadle Hinton: 6:30-7:30pm, Wednesdays. Huntington Library Station, 1335 New York Ave., Huntington Station. 631-421-5053. thehuntingtonlibrary.org. Registration required. $24 for the series. •Yoga for Beginners with Augusta Berner: 10-11am, Thursdays. Huntington Library, 338 Main St., Huntington. 631-427-5165. thehuntingtonlibrary.org. Registration required. $12 for the series. •Yoga Intermediate: 9:15-10:15am., Saturdays. Huntington Library, 338 Main St., Huntington. 631-427-5165. thehuntingtonlibrary.org. Registration required. $15 for the series. •Yoga/Stress Reduction: 11am-noon, Wednesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. Mondays 1:30-2:30 pm. 6-week program. For all cancer-related illness. E N T E R TA I N M E N T 1 •Frankie Valli: 8pm. NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury. 800-745-3000. livenation.com. •Lucy Kaplansky: 8pm. YMCA Boulton Center, 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore. 631-9691101. boultoncenter.org 2 •Christopher O’Riley: 8pm. Staller Center, 100 Nicolls Rd., Stony Brook. 631-6322787. staller.sunysb.edu. •Frankie Valli: See April 1st. •Parsons Dance: 8pm. Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St. Suite 1, Port Washington. 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org. •Red Molly: 8pm. YMCA Boulton Center, 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org 3 •Frankie Valli: 7pm. See April 1st. •Homegrown String Band: 2pm. The Long Beach Public Library, 111 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-423-7201. nassaulibrary.org/longbeach. The Jackofsky family presents nine acoustic instruments and a demonstration of traditional American step dancing. •Ljova and the Kontraband: 3pm. The Sky Room Cafe at the Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. •Spring Awakening: 7pm. Staller Center, 100 28 • April 2011• LONG ISLAND WOMAN Nicolls Rd., Stony Brook. 631-632-2787. staller.sunysb.edu. 4 •Toad the Wet Sprocket: 8pm. YMCA Boulton Center, 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore. 631-9691101. boultoncenter.org 5 •Harmonica Player, Jia-Yi-He: 11:30am1:30pm. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Road, Plainview. 515-822-3535 x354. miyjcc.org. $6. •Winter’s Bone: 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. Writer/ director, Debra Granik will attend. 6 •George Maselli: 11:30am-1:30pm. MidIsland Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Road, Plainview. 516-822-3535 x354. miyjcc.org. $6. •Phil Ochs: There But for Fortune: 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. Fm about the meteoric music career of Phil Ochs, an artist who sought the bright lights of fame and social justice in equal measure. Sonny Ochs, sister of Phil Ochs, will attend. 7 •Phil Ochs: There But for Fortune: See April 6th. Filmmaker, Kenneth Brower will attend. 8 •Adelphi Symphony Orchestra: 8pm. Adelphi University Performing Arts Center, 1 South Ave., Garden City. 516-877-3000. aupac.adelphi.edu. •An Evening with Debbie Reynolds: 8pm. Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Greenvale. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org. •Carducci String Quartet: 8pm. Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. They will be performing Mendelsohn and the Long Island Premiere of Insects in Amber by Arlene Sierra. •Living Legends Tribute: 7:30pm. NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury. 800-745-3000. livenation.com. 9 •Midori: 8pm. Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Greenvale. 516299-3100. tillescenter.org. •Orla Fallon: 8pm. YMCA Boulton Center, 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org •The Smithereens: 8pm. Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St. Suite 1, Port Washington. 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org. •Yah-oh-Weh: Thunderbird American Indian Dancers: 3pm. Adelphi University Performing Arts Center, 1 South Ave., Garden City. 516877-3000. aupac.adelphi.edu. 10 •Islip Arts Council Chamber Series: 2pm. YMCA Boulton Center, 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org. •Long Island Philharmonic: 7pm. Staller Center, 100 Nicolls Rd., Stony Brook. 631632-2787. staller.sunysb.edu. •Spring Awakening: 5:45 and 7pm. Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Greenvale. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org. •Wah!: 7:30pm. Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St. Suite 1, Port Washington. 516-7676444. landmarkonmainstreet.org. 11 •CW Post Orchestra: 8:15pm. Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Greenvale. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org. •In Search of Beethoven & In Search of Mozart: 7pm. Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. DIrector, Phil Grabsky will be there in person. 12 •Arlene Kane and Ruth Nodiff: 11:30am1:30pm. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Road, Plainview. 516-822-3535 x354. miyjcc.org. $6. •Queen in Concert: 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-4237611. cinemaartscentre.org. Archivist, BIll Shelley will be the guest speaker. •Sag Harbor: 2pm. Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.org. Actor David Houston performs scenes based on Colson Whitehead’s autobiographical novel and tells the history of the resort village. 17 •C.W. Post Wing Ensemble and Symphonic Band: 3pm. Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Greenvale. 516299-3100. tillescenter.org. 20 •Joe Sample: 8pm. YMCA Boulton Center, 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org 21 •Lara Herscovitch and Josh Joffen 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. 22 •Kevin Hart: 8pm. NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury. 800-7453000. livenation.com. 23 •Jesse Colin Young and Jonathan Edwards: 8pm. YMCA Boulton Center, 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org 26 •Lady Gaga’s Monster Ball Tour with Scissor Sisters: 8pm. Nassau Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Tpke., Uniondale. 800-7453000. nassaucoliseum.com. •The Navigator: 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. 27 •Annual Passover Seder: 11:30am-1:30pm. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Road, Plainview. 516-822-3535 x354. miyjcc.org. $6. •Young Frankenstein: 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. Cloris Leachmen will attend. •Howling III: 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. •Jason Crosby & Dave DIamond: 8pm. Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. •Tom Horlick: 11:30am-1:30pm. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Road, Plainview. 516822-3535 x354. miyjcc.org. $6. 15 29 13 •Jupiter String Quartet: 7:30pm. Adelphi University Performing Arts Center, 1 South Ave., Garden City. 516-877-3000. aupac.adelphi.edu. •The Machine Performs Pink Floyd Acoustic: 8pm. YMCA Boulton Center, 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org 16 •Chopiniana and Romeo and Juliet: 8pm. Staller Center, 100 Nicolls Rd., Stony Brook. 631-632-2787. staller.sunysb.edu. •Jim Florentine: 8pm. YMCA Boulton Center, 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org. •Larry King: 8pm. NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury. 800-7453000. livenation.com. •St. Petersburg Philharmonic: 8pm. Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Greenvale. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org. •Alejandro Escovedo: 8pm. Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St. Suite 1, Port Washington. 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org. •Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater: 8pm. Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Greenvale. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org. •Dar Williams: 8pm. YMCA Boulton Center, 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org •Engelbert Humperdinck: 8pm. NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury. 800-745-3000. livenation.com. •Strauss’s Capriccio: 7pm. Staller Center, 100 Nicolls Rd., Stony Brook. 631-632-2787. staller.sunysb.edu. 30 •Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater: 2 and 8pm. See April 29th. •Russell Thompkins Jr and the New To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] “THE BEST SHOW YOU WILL EVER SEE!” ©2008 BILLY BROADWAY, LLC – NEW YORK POST TELECHARGE.COM/BILLY 212-239-6200 2009 TONY AWARDS INCLUDING ® 10BEST MUSICAL ON BROADWAY IMPERIAL THEATRE BillyElliotBroadway.com ILLUSTRATIONS BY BO LUNDBERG A NEW MUSICAL from the team that brought you HAIRSPRAY On Broadway · or 877-250-2929 Neil Simon Theatre, 250 W. 52nd St. · CatchMeTheMusical.com To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMAN • April 2011 • 29 Happenings April Stylistics: 8pm. NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury. 800-7453000. livenation.com. EVENTS 1 •Bethenny Frankel: 7pm. Book Revue, 313 New York Ave., Huntington. 631-271-1442. bookrevue.com. Reality star will speak about and sign her new book, A Place of Yes: 10 Rules for Getting Everything You Want Out of Life. •Trout Season Opens: 10am-12pm and 13pm. Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery and Aquarium, 1660 Rte 25A, Cold Spring Harbor. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org. Free rod rental during the opening day of trout season. 2 •Minimally Invasive Facial Rejuvenation Seminar and Benefit Brunch: 11am1:30pm. Garden City Hotel, 516-773-4646. To benefit the Nassau County Coalition Against Domestic Violence. $10. 3 •Bob Holman and Mary Jo Bang with Veronica Golos: 1-3pm. The Walt Whitman Birthplace, 246 Old Walt Whitman Rd., Huntington Station. 631-427-5240. waltwhitman.org. Walking With Whitman a program that pairs a nationally prominent visiting writer with one of Long Island’s regional poets for a program of poetry and conversation. 4 •Neuroeconomics and the Biological Basis of Decision-Making: 7pm. Grace Auditorium at Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory, 1 Bungtown Rd., Cold Spring Harbor. 516-367-8455. cshl.edu. Neuroscientist Paul Glimcher combines neuroscience, economics, and psychology to study how people make decisions. •The Romantic Exploration of the Piano: 1pm. Peninsula Public Library, 280 Central Ave., Lawrence. 516-239-3262. peninsulapublic.org. Musical event with conversation. 6 •Illustrated Art Lecture: 1pm. Peninsula Public Library, 280 Central Ave., Lawrence. 516-239-3262. peninsulapublic.org. Relevancy of the historical art objects today. •Nikola Tesla- Inventor with Bob Thierfelder: 2:30-4:30pm. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516-8223535 x354. miyjcc.org. $6. 7 •Help, You Need Somebody: 5:30pm. North Shore Child and Family Guidance Center, 480 Old Westbury Rd., Roslyn Heights. spanoabstract.com. 3 guest speakers & resources for managing present or future various health-care crises. •Rita Marcott Memorial Chinese Auction: 6pm. AHRC Suffolk, 2900 Veterans Memorial Highway., Bohemia. 631-5850100. ahrcsuffolk.org. •Shop and Schmooze Boutique: 7pm. Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Happauge Rd., Commack. 631462-9800. syjcc.org. 8 •Girlfriend Getaway: Hotel Indigo, Riverhead. 631-369-2200. melmarenterprises.com. Communication Bootcamp for Women in Business. One night accomodation, wine & cheese reception, lunch, 6 hour workshop, Chrysalis Retreat Workbook, Tanger Outlet Center coupon book (Value $1400.00), shuttle to outlet center. $275 plus tax per person. 9 •Belmont Family Fishing Festival: 10am4pm. Belmont Lake State Park, 625 Belmont Ave., West Babylon. 631-321-3510. ifishnewyork.org. 10 •Holistic Health Fair: 10am-4pm. Huntington Hilton Hotel, Melville. 631-385-7321. peninsulapublic.org. •Nunsense: 2:30pm. Peninsula Public Library, 280 Central Ave., Lawrence. 516-239-3262. peninsulapublic.org. A musical comedy performance. •We Got the Beat (Poetry): 2pm. Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516766-2360. oceansidelibrary.org. Readings of Beat poetry accompanied by the sounds of Long Island’s Axiom Nexus band. 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Learn about many of our animals during live animal presentations: Tuesday (Fish), Wednesday (Turtles), Thursday (Amphibians). 12 •A Taste of Long Beach: 5:30-7:30pm. The Allegria, 80 W Broadway, Long Beach. 516423-7201. nassaulibrary.org/longbeach. For the third in our series, we will sample executive chef Todd Jacobs’ signature hors d’oeuvres. $20. •New Plants for Your Garden: 7pm. Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.org. Celebrate the return of spring with the Oceanside Garden Club as they welcome inspiring ideas by the staff of Dees Nursery. 13 •Annual Passover Seder: 11:30am-1:30pm. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516-822-3535 x354. miyjcc.org. $6. •Bubby Knows Best from Crossing Delancey with Irving Pfeffer: 2-4:15pm. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516822-3535 x354. miyjcc.org. $6. •Current Issues: 1:30-3pm. Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516766-2360. oceansidelibrary.org. Political commentator Barbara Krupit explores today’s headline news stories. 14 •Global Affairs: Changing Times: 1pm. Peninsula Public Library, 280 Central Ave., Lawrence. 516-239-3262. peninsulapublic.org. An in-depth analysis of the events behind the headlines. 16 •Craft and Gift Fair: Newfield HS, 145 Marshall Drive, Selden. 631-846-1459. depasqualeshows.com. Fair to benefit Middle County Athletic Booster club. 20 •Live Animal Presentations: See April 19th. 21 •Birds of Israel: 7:30pm. Connetquot State Park and Preserve, Sunrise Highway, Oakdale. 631-563-7716. gsbas.org. Presented by Eric Salzman. Mr. Salzman has had the opportunity to bird in Israel during early spring migration when it is one of the world’s top birding sites. •Chaco, Chocolate and Chalchicuitl: The First American Import/Export: 7pm. Sachem Public Library. 150 Holbrook Rd., Holbrook. 631-5885024. sachemlibrary.org. Find out how the application of modern scientific methods to archaeological studies has uncovered ancient American trade routes, some as long as 1500 miles with Professor Garman Harbottle. •Live Animal Presentations: See April 19th. •The Magic of the Opera: Tosca: 1pm. Peninsula Public Library, 280 Central Ave., Lawrence. 516-239-3262. peninsulapublic.org. Lecture with video excerpts by Professor James Kolb. 23 •Spring Egg Hunt: 10am. Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery and Aquarium, 1660 Rte 25A, Cold Spring Harbor. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org. Bring a basket to collect your eggs. 26 •Creative Writing Workshop: 7-9pm. Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.org. Registration required. 27 •The Friedberg JCC Day Trippers Travel to Atlantic City: 7:30am-9pm. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. 516-766-4341. HELP WANTED ADVERTISING SALES for Long Island Woman Flexible Schedule Rewarding Opportunity If you have previous sales experience, work well independently and have a home office, then LONG ISLAND WOMAN has an excellent advertising sales opportunity for your consideration. This is a relationship-building, repeat business selling situation for experienced sales closers. Part time or full time. Email resume to [email protected]. To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Happenings April friedbergjcc.org. $59. •The Mental Health Players: 2-4:15pm. MidIsland Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516-822-3535 x354. miyjcc.org. $6. •Plastic Surgery Seminar: 5-6pm. 516-7734646. Minimally invasive facial plastic surgery and non-surgical treatments. 1459. depasqualeshows.com. Fair to benefit DECA club. •Spring Fair: 10am-4:30pm. Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery and Aquarium, 1660 Rte 25A, Cold Spring Harbor. 516-6926768. cshfha.org. 28 •AARP E-Filing: 11am. Tuesdays through April 15. Long Beach Public Library, 111 W Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432-7201. nassaulibrary.org/ longbeach. For ages 60 and over; AARP will assist you in completing you 2010 tax returns. Call to find out which forms to bring. •AARP Free Tax Aide: 10am. Fridays through April 15. Long Beach Public Library, 111 W Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432-7201. nassaulibrary.org/longbeach. •Adult Connections: 7 or 7:30pm (time varies), Thursdays. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. 516-766-4341 x111. friedbergjcc.org. $10 dues per month. Additional fees apply occasionally for theme dinners, etc. •Adult Happenings: 7:45-9:15pm, Tuesdays. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516-822-3535 x328. miyjcc.org. Ages 40 and up. •Baby Boomers Club: 7:30-9:30pm, Wednesdays. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. 516-634-4170. friedbergjcc.org. •Digital Communications for Seniors: 2pm. Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.org. Computer educator Barry Howard explores the vast array of options for communicating digitally through social networking, texting, Skype, and more. Registration required. •Mother’s Day Jewelry Workshop: 7pm. Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.org. Design a sparkling 18-inch square crystal necklace. Registration required. $12 materials fee. •The Mystery of Johannes Vermeer: 1pm. Peninsula Public Library, 280 Central Ave., Lawrence. 516-239-3262. peninsulapublic.org. An illustrated art lecture of the life and masterpieces of Vermeer. 30 •Northport Spring Craft Fair: Northport HS, 154 Laurel Hill Road, Northport. 631-846- Ongoing For those between 1946 and 1964. $10. •Book Lovers Bonanza: 1:30-5pm, on the first Wednesday of each month. Extended hours until 8pm on the first Wednesday of each month. Merrick Library Wing, 2369 Merrick Ave., Merrick. 516-379-6434. Books are 50 cents to $1 and proceeds go toward library programming. Fill a tote bag to the brim for $8. •Connections: 6:30-7:45pm, second and fourth Tuesdays. Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack. 631-462-9800 x139. syjcc.org. Widow and widowers group for ages 50 and up. $9 or 516-465-2520. •Creature Feature: 2pm on Saturdays. Theodore Roosevelt Sanctuary & Audubon Center, 134 Cove Rd., Oyster Bay. 516-9223200. audubon.org. A Sanctuary naturalist will provide you with an up-close look at one of our resident wild creatures each week. Free. •Friendship Circle: 7:30-10pm, Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516822-3535 x335. miyjcc.org. Ages 60 and up. $6. •Give Back Sundays: 8am-noon, Sundays. Call for upcoming dates. 631-930-9460. ZPgivebacksundays.org. Zwanger-Pesiri Radiology provides uninsured Long Islanders with free radiologic services (MRI, x-ray, ultrasound etc.) at either its Massapequa or Smithtown offices. Sex Therapy Naturally Gentle, Safe and Effective Products for the Entire Family and Home 128 Old Town Road, Suite B, Setauket •Custom Skincare Systems •Spa Grade Bodycare •Home Fragrance Oils GET YOUR SLEEK PHYSIQUE… For a FREE sample or to learn about our rewarding business opportunity Contact: Crystal Melton 516-445-7505 www.mysensaria.com/spasentials www.goldcoastpilates.com (631) 675-2787 Group Reformer & Pilates Arc Classes Private Instruction on Full Apparatus Teacher Education Courses Wellness and Beauty Services Balanced Body® Authorized Training Center Arousal Difficulties Erectile Dysfunction Low Libido Orgasm Difficulties Premature Ejaculation Infidelity INTERIORS, FENG SHUI HOME STAGING Linda Rose, LCSW 516-922-7574 Williston Park/Glen Head Locations [email protected] www.patriciabono.com Laser East Eyebrows • Eyeliner • Lip Line • Full Lips your treatment w/mention of this ad. 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Family & Child Health Plus free or low-cost health insurance available for NYS residents. •Japanese Classical Dance: 4:30-6pm & 6:30-8pm Tuesdays. Long Island Japanese Culture Center. 12 Lincoln Ave., Roslyn Heights. 917-226-1195. [email protected]. Learn to wear kimono and dance with a fan in the elegant Soke Fujima style. Beginners of all ages. For free trial lesson, contact the instructor. •Monday Mingle: 11am-1pm, Mondays, Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Elders-Long Island (SAGELI), 34 Park Ave., Bay Shore. (516) 484-9338, sageli.org. Gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people 50+. coffee and cake is provided. •Night Sky Observing Sessions: 7pm-midnight, Saturdays. Custer Institute and Observatory, 1115 Main Bayview Rd., Southold. 631-765-2626. CusterObservatory.org. Guided tours of the night sky through powerful telescopes. Weather permitting. Suggested donation $5. •RADISH (Reserve a Day for Interesting Social Happenings): 11:30am-1:30pm, Tuesdays, Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill • Alphalase Laser Hair Therapy for Hair Regrowth • Microdermabrasion with Lymphatic Massage, Oxygen Treatment & Vitamin Infusion • Isolaz Deep Pore Therapy We Now Have Zerona Lose 3 1/2 inches or one dress size in only two weeks Non-Surgical & Pain Free Seen on The Doctors, Nightline and The View CALL FOR A FREE CONSULTATION BRING IN AD FOR 6143 JERICHO TPKE., COMMACK ANY LASER TREATMENT Expires 4/30/11 631.858.2325 25% off W W W. L A S E R E A S T. N E T LIW LONG ISLAND WOMAN • April 2011• 31 Happenings April Rd., Plainview. 516-822-3535 x335. miyjcc.org. Ages 60 and up. $6. •R.A.P. (Retirees Activity Program): 24:15pm, Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516-822-3535 x335. miyjcc.org. Ages 55 and up. $6. •R.E.A.C.H. (Recreational, Educational, Artistic, Cultural Happenings): 10:30amnoon, Tuesdays. Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Drive, East Hills. 516-484-1545 x134. sjjcc.org. Ages 60 and up. $10. •SAGE (Senior Adult Group Enthusiasts): 10:30am, second Thursdays. Woodbury Jewish Center, 200 S. Woods Rd., Woodbury. 516-496-9100. •Seal Walks: call for dates and times. Montauk State Park, 631-668-5000.nysparks.com. A series of walks on weekends through April to see wintering seals. $5 •Seal Walks: call for times and dates. CRESLI at Cupsogue Beach, Cupsogue Beach County Park. 631-244-3352. cresli.org. Seal walks will be taking place on weekends through May. $5 suggested donation. •Singles Chat & Chew: 7:45-9:30pm, Wednesdays. Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack. 631-462-9800 x139. syjcc.org. Group for all singles facilitated by a certified social worker. Refreshments served. $9. •Sociable Singles: 3-5pm, first and third Thursdays. Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack. 631-462-9800 x121. syjcc.org. Group for active, single seniors ages 60 and up. $4. Registration required. •Sophisticated Singles: 7:30-9:30pm, Mondays. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. 516-766-4341 x133. friedbergjcc.org. Singles ages 40 and up meet weekly; facilitated by Irwin Pfeffer. $8. •Wednesday Club: 10:30am-1:30pm, MidIsland Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516-822-3535 x335. miyjcc.org. Ages 70 and up. $6. EXHIBITS 6 •An Artist’s America: 7:30pm. The Long Beach Public Library, 111 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-423-7201. nassaulibrary.org/ longbeach. An Artist’s America Lecture by Michael Albert, a new pop artist. Ongoing •Donald Baechler: through May 8th. Nassau Museum, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. 516484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. Art exhibition examining the contributions of Donald Baechler accompanied by several of his collaged paintings. •Family Sunday at the Museum: 1pm, Sundays. One Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. 1 pm. 310 Merrick Rd., Rockville Centre Change Your Thinking Empower Yourself Take the first steps to change your life Gayle Israel 516-236-1219 Psychotherapy • Counseling • Individual Couple • Adolescence • Depression Anxiety • Life Skills PATHWAYS Lymphedema Therapy 815 Sunrise Hwy., Lynbrook 516-660-3911 Licensed & Certified Physical & Occupational Therapists Complete Decongestive Therapy Free Consultations 32 • April 2011• LONG ISLAND WOMAN 516-678-9400 skyathletic.com Call or visit our website for a FREE GUEST PASS South Shore's leading club for Women with nearly 100 Fitness Classes and Free Childcare Docent-led family walk-through of the exhibition and, beginning at 1:30 pm, supervised art activities for the whole family. Special family guides of the main exhibition are available in the galleries. Museum admission required. •Island Passions Exhibit: Through April 4th. Huntington Arts Council Art-trium Gallery, 25 Melville Park Rd., Huntington. 631-2718423. huntingtonarts.org. •Juried Portrait Exhibit: From March 3rd through April 22nd. Huntington Arts Council, 213 Main St., Huntington. 631271-8423. huntingtonarts.org. •Landscapes of France: Through April 26th. Huntington Public Library, 1335 New York Ave., Huntington Station. 631-427-5165. thehuntingtonlibrary.org. Featuring the art of Anne B. Gunthner. •Milton Avery and the End of Modernism: through May 8th. Nassau Museum, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. Art exhibition examining the contributions of Milton Avery, as a significant figurative painter from the 1920s-60s. $10. •NCMA’s Sculpture Park: Nassau County Museum of Art, One Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. More than 50 works by renowned artists set amidst the 145-acre property. •NCMA’s Walking Trails and Gardens: Thinking of Divorcing? Don’t gamble with your future! 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The museum’s 145 acres include many marked nature trails through the woods. Experience the many lush examples of horticultural arts. •Nite-Out: through July. 270 Northern Blvd., Brookville. tillescenter.org. consists of a 15’ formal menswear cotton shirt, fabricated with 450 yards of cotton, bow tie askew, juxtaposed with a woman’s 30’ strand of cast acrylic pearls. •Posters of the Russian Revolution 19171921: through May 8th. Nassau Museum, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. Posters from the Lenn Library in Moscow depict graphic posters which carried the Revolution’s message and served to capture the minds and souls of the masses. All listings for Happenings consideration must be submitted by email ([email protected]) by the first of the month for the following month. No information will be accepted by telephone. Listings are published on a space available basis. Deadline for May Happenings April 1 MAKEUP by Veronique Airbrushing All Occasions Events 516-993-2131 [email protected] *REDUCE STRESS & IMPROVE YOUR LIFE =dlidBZY^iViZ>LLR*V\YZL 7Z\^chIjZhYVn!BVgX]'.!'%&& *ONGOING MEDITATION GROUP 7Z\^cNdjg?djgcZnidEZVXZJcYZghiVcY^c\# CZlXdbZghLZaXdbZ# 6aiZgcViZIjZhYVnh!,/(%·./(%EBsHb^i]idlc ASTROLOGICAL INSIGHTS 7^gi]YViVgZfj^gZY# *Discounts available; registration required; call for details. JUDITH S. GIANNOTTI, M.A., R.Hy. 631-724-9733 lll#a^\]iVlV`Zc^c\hbZY^iVi^dcVcYWZndcY#Xdb To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Support Groups Alcohol, Drug and Other Addictions AA/Al Anon Meetings ...631-473-1320/631-476-2723 John T. 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Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Sexual Addictions Anonymous S-ANON, SA, Couples .......................................................347-531-5977 St. Gregory Church, Seaford Women for Sobriety ................................215-536-8026 womenforsobriety.org Alzheimer’s Adult Children of Individuals with Alzheimer’s Groups ..............................516-767-6856/866-789-LIAF Long Island Alzheimer’s Foundation. liaf.org Alzheimer’s Association ...........................................631-580-5100/800-272-3900 Ronkonkoma. alz.org/longisland Alzheimer’s Groups .......516-767-6856/866-789-LIAF Long Island Alzheimer’s Foundation. liaf.org Alzheimer’s Caregivers ...............631-585-2020, x260 Community Programs Center of L.I., Ronkonkoma Alzheimer’s Caregivers Group...............516-432-0570 Temple Emanu-El of Long Beach, Long Beach Friendship Circle .......................................516-484-1545 Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org Let’s Do Lunch (Young Onset) .............516-484-1545 Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org Shabbat Respite Program............516-822-3535, x326 Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. myjcc.org Spouses of Alzheimer’s/Dementia Patients ......................................................................631-264-0222 Broadlawn Manor, Amityville Arthritis Arthritis Support Groups....................... 631-427-8272 Arthritis Foundation, Long Island Chapter, Melville arthritis.org Bereavement Animal Bereavement Group...................516-785-6416 Plainview-Old Bethpage Library, Plainview Bereavement .............................................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Bereavement..............................................516-465-2500 North Shore-Long Island Jewish Health System (various locations) northshorelij.edu Bereavement .............................................631-744-8566 St. Louis de Montfort R.C. Church Bereavement ....................................516-766-4341 x131 Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org Bereavement .............................................631-465-6262 Good Shepherd Hospice. goodshepherdhospice.net Bereavement .............................................631-928-2377 Hope House Ministries Bereavement ..................................516-822-3535, x328 Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org Bereavement....................................516-484-1545 x196 Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org Bereavement....................................631-581-4266 x100 St. Mary’s Church, 20 Harrison Ave., E. Islip maryseastislip.org Bereavement Group (suicide)............. 631-687-2960 Brookhaven Hospice Bereavement ..................................631-462-9800, x139 Suffolk Y JCC, Commack .suffolkyjcc.org Bereavement...............................................516-374-3190 Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org Bereavement Groups for Children and Families .......................................................................516-626-1971 North Shore Child and Family Guidance Center Death of a Child Support Group ....... 631-738-0809 St. Sylvester’s Church, Medford Grief Share..................................................516-731-6736 Plainedge Baptist Church, Bethpage Grief Share Support Group ....................516-561-5160 Bethlehem Assembly of God Church, Valley Stream H.E.A.L.(Help Ease A Loss) ...........................................631-265-4520/631-265-2810 St. Thomas of Canterbury Church, Smithtown Holocaust Survivors and Friends ............................................................631-462-9800 x121 Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org Loss of a Baby...........................................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Loss of a Child ................................516-822-3535 x328 Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org Loss of a Sibling .............................516-822-3535 x328 Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org Loss of Spouse...........................................516-634-4190 Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org Recent Widow/Widower................516-766-4341 x131 Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org Recently Bereaved Group .....................866-789-5423 Sunrise of N. Lynbrook, N. Lynbrook Widows and Widowers 50+........631-462-9800 x139 Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org Widow/Widower..............................516-766-4341 x131 JCC of West Hempstead, W. Hempstead FEGS Partners in Caring/Friedberg JCC Widow/Widower .............................516-484-1545 x196 Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org Widow/Widower (ages 40 and up ......516-395-8303 Parkway Community Church, Hicksville Widow/Widower (ages 50-60) .....516-766-434, x131 Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org Widows Group ................................516-822-3535 x331 Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org Widows and Widowers to Age 45 ............................................................631-462-9800 x139 Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org Breast and Other Cancers American Cancer Society ......................................516-921-6016 or 800-ACS-2345 cancer.org Breast Cancer .............................................516-877-4314 Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City Breast Cancer Hotline............................ 800-877-8077 Breast and Ovarian Cancer Group To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] ............................................................631-462-9800 x129 Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org Breast Cancer ............................................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, Breast Health Center, W. Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Breast Cancer Family and Friends .......631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center Breast Health Center, W. Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Cancer Group............516-256-6025 or 516-256-6478 Franklin Hospital, Valley Stream Cancer Patient and Survivor Group ....631-675-9003 Long Island Cancer Help and Wellness Center, Bay Shore. breastcancerhelpinc.org Cancer Groups..........................................516-465-2500 North Shore-Long Island Jewish Health System (various locations). northshorelij.edu Cancer Survivors.......................................631-473-1320 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Family Support...........................................516-374-3190 Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org Huntington Breast Cancer Action Coalition .......................................................................631-547-1518 hbcac.org Lean On Me................................................516-374-3190 Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org Live, Love & Laugh Again (breast cancer) ......................................................................631-476-2776 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Look Good, Feel Better...........................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center Breast Health Center, W. Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Metastatic Breast Cancer .........................516-877-4314 Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City Mid-Island Skin Cancer ..........................516-352-4227 ccmac.org National Ovarian Cancer Coalition (NOCC) ......................................................................631-672-2027 Long Island Chapter, Huntington Station. ovarian.org Newly-Diagnosed Breast Cancer ...........516-877-4314 Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City Newly-Diagnosed Breast Cancer ...........516-374-3190 Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org Newly-Diagnosed Breast Cancer ......................................631-476-2776 or 631-689-1854 Mather Hospital, Port Jefferson. matherhospital.org Post-Treatment for Breast Cancer..........516-877-4314 Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City Close Knit Group (knit and talk group for women with breast cancer)....................................516-877-4314 Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City South Fork Breast Health Coalition.....631-726-8606 southforkbreast.com Spanish-Speaking Women with Breast Cancer .......................................................................516-877-4314 Spouses and Partners of Those with Breast Cancer .......................................................................516-877-4314 Support for People With Oral and Head and Neck Cancer..............................516-759-5333/800-377-0928 Syosset & Stony Brook. spohnc.org Thyroid Cancer Survivors Hotline........877-588-7904 Working Women with Breast Cancer ...516-374-3190 Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org Young Women with Breast Cancer .......516-877-4314 Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City Breast Cancer Hotline .............................800-877-8077 Caregiver Support Adult Children Caregivers.......................516-742-2050 Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center miyjcc.org Caregivers Group............................516-496-7550 x217 F.E.G.S., Syosset . fegs.org Caregivers Group ........................631-244-2400 x2235 Good Shepherd Hospice. goodshepherdhospice.net Caregivers Group ...........................516-822-3535 x328 Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org Caregivers Group......................................516-742-2050 Temple Emanuel, Long Beach JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center Caregivers Groups ...................................631-585-2020 dayhaven.org Caregivers Group ......................... 516-484-1545 x196 Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org Caregivers Group .....................................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Caregivers Group...........................631-462-9800 x220 Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org Caring For Your Spouse ..........................516-742-2050 JCC of W. Hempstead, W. Hempstead JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center Let’s Do Dinner (spouses of Young Onset Alzheimer’s patients) ...............................516-484-1545 Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org Let’s Do Pizza (kids with parents with Young Onset Alzheimer’s) ...............................................516-484-1545 Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org Sandwich Generation ..............................516-742-2050 Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center Spouses & Siblings....................................516-742-2050 Temple Chaverim, Plainview JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center Spouses, Children & Siblings..................516-742-2050 Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center Well Spouses or Partners of the Chronically Ill and Disabled ......................................................516-829-8740 St. Charles Rehab Center, Albertson [email protected] Divorce & Separation Divorce Care ..............................................516-731-6736 Life Center of Bethpage, Divorce Support Group ..........................516-992-2873 Alliance to Restore Integrity in Divorce (ARID) Divorced & Separated ....................516-822-3535 x331 Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org Divorced and Separated 12-Step Group ......................................................................718-468-2654 Community Church of East Williston Divorced and Separated Group..516-484-1545 x196 Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org Divorced & Separated Groups ............ 631-462-9800 Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org Divorced and Separated Group ...........631-724-9462 Reflections Associates, Smithtown Marriage Alive Support Group .............631-525-3646 Separated/Divorced Counseling Group .......................................................................516-599-1181 Peninsula Counseling Center, Lynbrook Separation/Divorce..........................516-766-4341 x131 LONG ISLAND WOMAN • April 2011 • 33 Support Groups Friedberg JCC, Oceanside friedbergjcc.org Singles...............................................631-462-9800 x139 Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org Singles Group............................................516-822-3535 Mid Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org Singles Group 55+ ...................................516-766-4341 Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org Singles Support and Discussion Group ......................................................................516-395-8303 Parkway Community Church, Hicksville Women Separating and Divorcing ......631-525-3646 Domestic Violence, Rape & Sexual Abuse Brighter Tomorrows ..................................631-395-3116 brightertomorrowsinc.org Child Abuse ..............................................631-439-0480 Child Abuse & Maltreatment Referrals .....................................................................800-342-3720 Elder Abuse ...............................................516-542-0404 Coalition Against Domestic Violence, Hempstead Family Violence and Child Abuse .........516-485-5710 F.E.G.S.. fegs.org Nassau County Coalition Against Domestic Violence 24-hr. hotline............................516-542-0404 cadvnc.org Protection of Children and Young People ............................................................516-678-5800 x573 Diocese of Rockville Centre, Rockville Centre Rape/Sexual Assault Hotline (Nassau County Coalition Against Domestic Violence)...516-222-2293 Self-Esteem in Relationships .................631-667-4188 Ascension Lutheran Church, Deer Park Sexual Abuse Survivors ...............516-678-5800 x573 Diocese of Rockville Centre, Rockville Centre Suffolk County Coalition Against Domestic Violence ...........................................631-666-7181/631-666-8833 sccadv.org The Retreat (hotline for Domestic Violence) ......................................................................631-329-2200 Victims Information Bureau (VIBS) of Suffolk County ........................................................631-360-3606 Health-Related/Miscellaneous Alopecia...........................631-680-0148; 415-472-3780 naaf.org Autoimmune ..............................................516-674-7833 Glen Cove Hospital, Glen Cove Behcet’s Disease ..................................... 631-956-1660 Brain Aneurysm .......................................516-562-3815 The Brain Aneurysm Center at North Shore Univ. Hospital, Manhasset. [email protected] Brain AVM and Aneurysm Support Group ......................................................................516-442-3527 Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long Island mni.org Brain Tumor Support Group .................516-442-3527 Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long Island lmni.org Brain Tumor Patients and Their Families ...........................................516-679-5075/516-946-0649 North Bellmore Public Library, N. Bellmore guardianbrain.org Coma/ Traumatic Brian Injury Recovery ......................................................................631-756-1826 South Nassai Community Hospital, Oceanside Crohn’s & Colitis Group..........................516-222-5530 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org 34 • April 2011 • LONG ISLAND WOMAN Chronic Fatigue & Fibromyalgia ...........631-548-8237 Diabetes/Heart Club.................516-674-7833 or 7936 Glen Cove Hospital, Glen Cove Diabetes Group.........................................516-596-4357 Hewlett House, Hewlett Eating Disorders........................................516-637-0965 Reaching Out Against Eating Disorders, Baldwin roaed.org Epilepsy .......................................................631-474-6797 St. Charles Hospital, Port Jefferson Face Pain and Trigeminal Neuralgia Support Group ......................................................................516-442-3527 Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long Island lmni.org Fibromyalgia ........................................... 631-427-8272 Island Trees Library, Levittown. arthritis.org Hearing Impaired and Cochlear Implant Patients .......................................................................718-470-8631 North Shore LIJ Health System Hearing and Speech Center, New Hyde Park Self Help For Hard of Hearing People ......................................................................631-549-3901 Harborfields Public Library, Greenlawn South Shore Women’s Heart ...............631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Hepatitis C Support Group (American Liver Foundation) ...............................................631-754-4795 HIV/AIDS.....................................................516-496-7550 F.E.G.S., Syosset. fegs.org Irritable Bowel Syndrome .....................516-371-0660 South Nassau Communities Hospital Counseling Center, Baldwin Lesbian Group.......................................... 631-748-4193 Sayville Congregational Church Lupus ...........................................................516-783-3370 Lupus Foundation of LI. Bellmore Lymphedema..............................................516-374-3190 Hewlett House, Hewlett 1in9.org Melanoma (Patients & Caregivers).......516-352-4227 [email protected] Multiple Sclerosis .....................................631-864-8337 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Myasthenia Gravis.....................................516-567-1978 Massapequa Public Library, Massapequa Park Myasthenia Gravis.....................................631-765-2186 Emma S. Clark Memorial Library, Setauket National Federation of the Blind...........516-868-8718 National Multiple Sclerosis Society, ...........................................631-864-8337/516-740-7227 Melville Neck and Back Pain Support Group ...516-442-3527 Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long Island lmni.org Ostomy Association of Long Island/Nassau ..................................................................... 516-759-0734 Pain Management Support Group ......631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Parkinson’s Support Group....................631-265-6621 Smithtown Parkinson Therapy Center, Smithtown Methodist Church, Smithtown Parkinson Disease Support Groups ....631-862-3560 Scleroderma...............631-667-2655 or 631-968-3314 Southside Hospital, Bay Shore. scleroderma.org Sleep Apnea ..............631-376-4299 or 631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Sleep Disorders .........................................631-476-2721 Mather Hospital, Port Jefferso. matherhospital.org Stroke Support............................................516-719-2411 North Shore Univ. Hospital, Manhasset Stroke Survivors & Caregivers ...............516-562-4947 Plainview Hospital, Plainview Mental Health Counseling..................................................516-364-0794 F.E.G.S.. fegs.org Emotions Anonymous............................631-584-5604 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Mental Illness Family Support ..............516-504-HELP Mental Health Association of Nassau County, Hempstead Mental Health Association in Suffolk County ......................................................................631-226-3900 Lindenhurst. mhasuffolk.org Mood Disorder Group.............................516-546-1370 South Nassau Communities Hospital Outpatient Clinic, Baldwin National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) ..........................................516-694-7327/800-950-6264 NAMI Long Island Regional Council, Old Bethpage nami.org NAMI Huntigton ............631-424-4528/631-271-2935 Postpartum Depression ..........................631-422-2255 Postpartum Resource Center of New York postpartumNY.org. Suicide Prevention Hotline......................800-SUICIDE Parenting & Family Issues Adoption Hotline.......................................516-799-7445 JCCA Developmental Disabilities Institute....631-360-4600 Smithtown (family support services) ddiinfo.org Grandparents Raising Grandchildren..516-569-6600 Peninsula Counseling Center, Woodmere Homebirth Group....................................631-834-5586 [email protected] Long Island Infant Developmental Program ......................................................................516-546-2333 National Infertility Network Exchange (NINE) ......................................................................516-794-5772 New Mothers’ Group ..............................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Parenting (Special Needs)............516-484-1545 x200 Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills sjjcc.org Parenting Young Children ......................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip good-samaritan-hospital.org Parents of Adult Children With a Developmental Disability .....................................................516-822-0028 Bethpageacld.org Parents of Children Diagnosed with Psychological Disorders ....................................................631-271-2999 Western Suffolk Psychological Services, Huntington Parents of Children With Autism ............................................................516-822-3535 x332 Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org Parents of Lesbian and Gay Children ......................................................................516-569-6600 Peninsula Counseling Center, Lynbrook Parents of Special Needs Children .............................................................516-766-4341 x160 Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org Parents of Young Children, Birth to Five .............................................................516-766-4341 x162 Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. ParentingResourceNetwork.org Perinatal Group...............................631-581-4266 x100 St. Mary’s Church, E. Islip. stmaryseastislip.org Postpartum Depression ..........................631-422-2255 Postpartum Resource Center of New York postpartumNY.org. Pregnancy and Infant Loss ...................516-562-8422 North Shore Univ. Hospital, Manhasset Pregnancy After Loss ..............................917-405-3200 North Shore Univ. Hospital, Manhasset Pregnancy Information and Referral ...631-853-3033 Prison Families Anonymous ..................516-496-7550 F.E.G.S., Syosset. fegs.org Resolve: National Infertility Association ......................................................................800-765-2810 northeast.resolve.org Single Parent Support Group......516-822-3535 x328 Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org Smoking Cessation American Cancer Society..................... 800-ACS-2345 516-921-6016 or 631-436-7070. cancer.org Green Seminars........................................800-342-1303 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Nicotine Anonymous....631-665-0527/415-750-0328 nicotine-anonymous.org Weight Loss Bariatric Support Group..........................631-376-4444 Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip Green Seminars........................................800-342-1303 John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson matherhospital.org Post-Bariatric Support Group................516-62MERCY Mercy Medical Center, Rockville Centre Overeaters Anonymous ..........................631-473-1320 Mather Hospital, Port Jefferson. matherhospital.org Women’s Issues WINGS (Women In Network Giving Support) ......................................................................516-334-8985 609 Dartmouth St., Westbury Women’s Self-Awareness, Self-Care and SelfRealization ..................................................516-794-7328 EDA Counseling Center, Westbury WomenHeart ............................................631-271-3766 The Huntington Heart Center, Huntington L.I. Women’s Coalition ..........................631-666-8833 All listings for SUPPORT GROUP consideration must be submitted by the first of the month by email ([email protected]). No information will be accepted by telephone. Listings are published on a space available basis. 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