www.liwomanonline.com October 2012 FREE exclusive interviews Dorothy Hamill Jennifer Warnes What To Do After a Breast Cancer Diagnosis Happenings Calendar plus an extensive listing of Support Groups know you need an annual mammogram You deserve : You personal attention compassion doctors who care Complete Women’s Imaging at South Nassau takes a patient-centered approach to heath care, paying specific attention to the individualized needs of each patient, while maintaining a friendly and relaxed environment. Each patient has the opportunity to receive and discuss her results, with her physician, on the same day of service. It’s no wonder our patient satisfaction exceeds 99%! Complete Women’s Imaging, PC Breast Imaging Specialists Abraham Port, M.D., Medical Director George Autz, M.D., Medical Director Michael V. Golia, M.D. 440 Merrick Road, Oceanside, NY 11572 For more information call 516-255-8220 or visit www.southnassau.org 2rOctober 2012r-0/(*4-"/%80."/ To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] WEATHER GETS COLDER. YOU GET HOTTER. STEPHEN T. GREENBERG, M.D. C O S M E T I C P L A S T I C S U R G E R Y Voted The BEST Cosmetic Surgeon on Long Island 2012* Breast Augmentation Breast Lift Breast Reduction Cellulaze™ ZELTIQ™ CoolSculpting Zerona™ ® SmartLipo MPX™ Tummy Tuck Rhinoplasty Facelift VelaShape™ Cellulite Reduction Botox Cosmetic Mole Removal Restylane /Juvéderm Thigh Lift/Arm Lift Liquid Facelift Laser Hair Removal ReFirme™ Eyelid Surgery Earlobe Repair Spider Veins Portrait 3D™ Breast Imaging ® ® ® Featured on ABC, CBS, Fox News, The New York Times, US Weekly and Inside Edition. Listen to Dr. Greenberg’s Cosmetic Surgery Talk Show on KJOY 98.3FM Saturdays at 10 p.m. CALL FOR A COMPLIMENTARY CONSULTATION Woodbury 516.364.4200 Manhattan 212.319.4999 Southampton 631.287.4999 w w w . G r e e n b e r g C o s m e t i c S u r g e r y. c o m Not an Actual Patient *Long Island Press Good Advice Hottest Cosmetic Surgery Procedures by Stephen T. Greenberg, M.D. Now that the colder months are approaching and the kids are settled into their school routine, this is the perfect time to have the cosmetic surgery procedure you’ve always wanted. Diet and exercise are the best ways to help stay healthy and keep in shape, but supplementing a healthy lifestyle with cosmetic surgery procedures will leave you in the best shape that you can be in…healthy and beautiful both inside and out! Breast augmentation, breast lifts and breast reductions provide beautiful, natural-looking results. Combining these procedures with liposuction, tummy tuck, body lift, facelift, eyelid lift or other non-surgical services is most effective. Regardless of which procedures you select, my focus remains to make my patients as happy and as beautiful as they can be by turning back the hands of time in a caring, safe and supportive environment. Cosmetic®, and Restylane that, coupled with our non-surgical skin tightening and new HydraFacial™, ensures phenomenal results! As the seasons are changing, this is the perfect time to seek help with those last few inches that you can’t seem to lose. Body Contouring can be the answer to reshaping those undesirable areas of your body. The most common body contouring technique is liposuction and, utilizing the latest and most advanced products, your recovery is fast. The sooner you act, the sooner you’ll look fantastic. Smart Lipo MPX, is ideal for the neck, jawline, arms, breasts, "bra fat," abdomen, "love handles", "saddle bags," inner and Now is the best time to get outer thighs and knees. It is an excellent complement to into your best possible shape ® Cellulaze which is the first proven procedure to get rid of for the upcoming holidays cellulite permanently. and show off a younger and more vibrant you! The hottest surgical techniques to make you look younger include eyelid lifts, facelifts, deeper laser resurfacing, and rhinoplasty. The eyelid lift only takes about an hour and can give a very youthful appearance to both the upper and lower lids. A facelift, whether it is mini, lower, or full lift can take years off of facial appearance. A facelift is great way to pull up the excessive skin, rejuvenate the neck and lift the jowls. Mini or modified facelifts are often performed on much younger patients before the signs of aging are advanced. Overall, the natural look is of utmost importance. We can often combine laser resurfacing procedures and rhinoplasty to complete a full facial rejuvenation. In addition, injections work well to eliminate facial lines and wrinkles, including; Botox Another avenue to consider is having a Tummy Tuck (Abdominoplasty), especially effective post-pregnancy or after significant weight loss. This procedure improves abdominal contouring and can have you in great shape in a very short period of time. Abdominoplasty is very effective in reducing or eliminating stretch marks, skin excess and for correcting weakening of the abdominal muscles. Most women who have had children will have some laxity of the abdominal wall and will experience excellent results. You will have a flatter and thinner abdominal profile and be able to show off that terrific figure at the holiday parties. Now is the best time to get into your best possible shape for the upcoming holidays and show off a younger and more vibrant you! I offer complimentary consultations at my Woodbury, Southampton and Manhattan offices. To schedule an appointment, you can call 516.364.4200 or email [email protected]. Visit my website at www.GreenbergCosmeticSurgery.com. advertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMANrOctober 2012r 3 “Her voice is like the California weather, filled with sunlight. But there’s an earthquake behind it.” – LEONARD COHEN & Present An Evening with Jennifer Warnes The Oscar and Grammy award-winning singer In Her Only New York Area Appearance Wednesday, October 31, 8:00pm Purchase tickets at madisontheatreny.org or call 516-678-5000 Molloy College Madison Theatre, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre artsaliveli.org www.liwomanonline.com A Woman Knows… Cosmetic Surgery performed by a female surgeon committed to the quality care of women Fall Specials for Cosmetic Surgery Procedures Breast Augmentation Call for Details COMPLIMENTARY CONSULTATION Charlotte Ann Rhee, MD, FACS 257 E. Jericho Tpke. Huntington Station Board Certified Plastic & Reconstructive Surgeon 631-424-6707 www.liplasticsurgery.com Surgery of the Breast Skin Care Cosmetic Surgery Breast Augmentation Breast Uplift Breast Reduction (Lollipop Scar) Microdermabrasion Chemical Peels Restylane/Juvéderm Botox/Dysport Face/Neck Lift Eyelid Surgery Liposuction Tummy Tuck Repair of Torn Earlobes Good Advice Breast Surgery Combined with Tummy Tuck and/or Liposuction by Charlotte Rhee, MD, F.A.C.S., P.C. Many of my patients come to me seeking help with the changes that can occur after childbirth. Following childbirth, a woman’s breast can grow to uncomfortable proportions or just the opposite can happen. A woman’s breast can actually lose volume and shrink, resulting in the breast appearing “deflated.” Additionally, a large number of women come to me seeking help with the post partum changes of their abdomen. During pregnancy the skin and abdominal wall muscles are stretched. Following childbirth, the abdomen can protrude and the skin can be loose or sag. In some cases, the abdominal muscles can be so weakened that the individual may look like she is still pregnant. Despite daily workouts including sit ups and crunches, a tummy tuck may be needed to restore these muscles. ing breast reduction. Both groups of women want to have breasts that are proportional to their body size with the most natural result possible. In certain situations, a breast lift is also needed to tighten lax skin. The laxity can be the result of pregnancy or weight loss. When a breast lift is needed, I utilize the lollipop scar technique. A breast lift procedure is very similar to a breast reduction. The only difference is that with a breast reduction, breast tissue is removed. Combined Breast/Tummy Tuck and Liposuction Procedures. Many of my patients who have breast surgery also have other procedures performed at the same time. This allows for one surgery and one recovery. The most common combined procedures performed by Dr. Rhee are breast surgery, whether it is a breast reduction or augmentation, combined with tummy tuck, also known as abdominoplasty. For those patients Breast Reduction Many of my patients who desire breast augmentation together with a tummy tuck, I am able to place Women with very large pendulous breasts may experience varied medical the breast implants through the tummy tuck incision, leaving the breasts without who have breast problems including back and neck pain. Also, the weight of large breasts can any scars. cause the bra straps to dig into the shoulders leaving groove markings. Large surgery also have other Liposuction is also commonly performed at the same time. Despite diet and breasts get in the way of physical activities such as running, making exercise exercise, certain areas of the body are prone to carry excess fat. For these areas, liprocedures performed and weight loss very difficult if not impossible. Breast reduction (reduction posuction can help. The most common areas for liposuction are the love handles at the same time. This (upper hip area) and thighs. mammaplasty), is a surgical procedure which makes breasts smaller. There are many different breast reduction techniques. The more traditional allows for one surgery Patients who have combined procedures do surprisingly well. In addition to method (inverted T-scar) leaves the breasts with a vertical, long horizontal having the benefit of just one recovery process, there can also be a significant and one recovery. scar (along the breast crease). “I utilize the Lejour technique, which leaves savings in price. the breast with a single vertical incision (lollipop scar) and, in my opinion, To learn more, please call our Huntington office to schedule a complimentawith a rounder more natural appearing breast and a better cosmetic result.” Breast reduc- ry consultation with Dr. Rhee at (631) 424-6707. Located at 257 E. Jericho Tpke., Huntington tions are performed as an outpatient procedure and are covered by insurance. Station. www.liplasticsurgery.com. Dr. Charlotte Rhee is a board certified plastic and reconstructive surgeon specializing in Breast Augmentation Women who come to me seeking breast enlargement have very similar goals to those seek- breast surgery. advertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMANrOctober 2012r 5 n Good Advice Advice columns from Long Island Woman advertisers Hottest Cosmetic Surgery Procedures by Stephen T. Greenberg, M.D. Now that the colder months are approaching and the kids are settled into their school routine, this is the perfect time to have the cosmetic surgery procedure you’ve always wanted. more on page 3 Taking children and going to the dentist as adults is not always a stress-free experience, but it may soon create a more complex set of decisions. more on page 15 Look Your Best For The Holidays Many of my patients come seeking help with the changes that can occur after childbirth; a woman’s breast can grow to uncomfortable proportions or just the opposite can happen. more on page 5 October is here and signs of the upcoming holidays are everywhere you look. Before you know it, Thanksgiving will be upon us, and the start of many social gatherings with family and friends will begin. more on page 19 Bio-Identical Hormone Balancing The Use of Personal Care Agreements The first and best way to achieve and maintain optimal hormonal function is to follow the previous five pillars of diet, supplements, exercise, stress management and detoxification. more on page 7 by James C. Marotta, M.D. by Marc Alhonte, Esq. When family members become unable to independently care for themselves, another family member may choose to become a fulltime caregiver. more on page 24 How Do I Reconnect With My Husband? by Lana Tamaro, LMHC, NCC, BCC Breast Reduction Using The Lollipop Scar Technique by Charlotte Rhee, M.D., FACS The American Psychological Association notes research has shown many couples are getting “a new lease on life when their children leave” the nest. How do you rekindle the flame? more on page 9 The weight of large breasts can cause the bra straps to dig into the shoulders leaving groove markings. Large breasts get in the way of physical activities, such as running.. more on page 24 Perfectly Designed Eyebrows Help With Weight Loss and Diabetes by Sarit Narkis by Dr. Dazhi Chen, Ph.D., LAC Eyebrows are the most important feature on your face and are unique to you and have the power to make a face look sexy, polished, intriguing and even wild. more on page 13 I recently developed a healthy, successful way of losing weight with acupuncture, which can actually change your metabolism. There are several unique characteristics with this therapy. more on page 25 IPL: Turn Back the Hands of Time by Annette Pennington Considering Cosmetic Dentistry? IPL (intense pulsed light) also known as “photo-facial” is a treatment breakthrough that can correct a variety of benign skin conditions. more on page 14 It’s comforting to know in advance that the dentist will provide you with an attractive, beautiful smile. Get started now with one of the many cosmetic dental options that are available today: more on page 25 There is Help for Intimate Conditions by Dr. Marilyn Freedman Digital Breast Tomosynthesis Consultations with your gynecologist, urologist, gastroenterologist and colorectal surgeon, result in being told there is not much more that can be done to help you. But there is! more on page 14 The breast specialists at Zwanger-Pesiri Radiology are now using digital breast tomosynthesis, or DBT, to perform threedimensional mammography for breast cancer screening and diagnosis. more on page 25 State-of-the-Art Treatment for Varicose Spider Veins by Renato B. Berroya, M.D., F.A.C.S. The Future Lift: A New Hybrid Facelift Technique by Andrew A. Jacono, M.D., FACS The treatment of varicose and spider veins has significantly changed. Safe, precise, highly effective, minimally invasive computerized laser and FDA approved injection solutions are office based procedures with minimal downtime. more on page 15 Volume 12 Number 5 Dental Fillings Can Lead to Health Issues (Part 1) by Dr. Linda Golden Breast Surgery Combined with Tummy Tuck and/or Liposuction by Charlotte Rhee, M.D., FACS by Richard Linchitz, M.D. October 2012 by Laura Selub, D.D.S. by Rebecca Obedian M.D. For years, my patients have had to choose between better results or less scarring. With hybrid face lifts, they get the best of both worlds. more on page 27 20 FYI/Picks 8 Book Corner 12 Susan Isaacs Health 16 What to Do After a Breast Cancer Diagnosis Interview 20 Dorothy Hamill Catching Up with Carol 24 The Language of Love Interview 26 Jennifer Warnes Life 30 Ten Ways to Be a Great Mother-in-Law Happenings 32 Classes, Entertainment, Events, Exhibits Support Groups 37 next issue: November 2012 exclusive interview with Get your free e-subscription to the page-flip digital edition of Long Island Woman at www.liwomanonline.com 6r-0/(*4-"/%80."/rOctober 2012 0/"OX-ALVERNE.9s INFO LIWOMANONLINECOMsWWWLIWOMANONLINECOM 3UBSCRIPTIONS/NEYEARISSUESn visit: www.liwomanonline.com/subscriptions.html ¹#OPYRIGHTBY,ONG)SLAND7OMAN!LLRIGHTSRESERVED No portion of Long Island Woman may be reproduced without permission. Long Island Woman is published monthly by Maraj, Inc. Like Long Island Woman on Facebook Sherri Shepherd Reserve your ad by October 11th 516-505-0555 x1 [email protected] To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Vibrant Health Vibrant: adj\vi-brant: pulsating with life, vigor, or activity Health: noun, often attributive \helth also heltth: the condition of being sound in body, mind, or spirit; especially: freedom from physical disease or pain Richard Linchitz, MD We are committed to creating vibrant health by identifying each person’s unique cause of disease. Using the most innovative diagnostic tools that help us identify critical imbalances that are the underlying cause of all LOOQHVVHVRXUDSSURDFKLVFRPSUHKHQVLYHDQGSDWLHQWFHQWHUHGKHDOWKFDUHQRWVLFNFDUH We are here to support you on the path to achieving and sustaining vibrant health. Individualized treatment plans by Richard M. Linchitz, MD and Jonathan E. 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The perfect diet This is not to say that bio-identicals are perfect or are without potential dangers. In truth, will help to maximize healthy hormone production late into life. although there are a number of studies showing their effectiveness and safety (including Supplements can provide the nutritional precursors to hormone a recent large-scale meta-analysis), there is not an extensive body of large-scale studies as and herbal stimulants to endocrine glands including the pituitary, there is for the conventional HRT’s. However, logically, the bio-identicals should be safer the thyroid, the adrenals and the sex glands. Appropriate exercise than the synthetic hormones because the body already has enzyme pathways which work has been shown to stimulate hormonal production as well. Stress perfectly with the bio-identicals. We are also able to prescribe precise, individualized doscan have major effects on hormone production and managing stress ages so that physiologically normal levels can be maintained. Bio-identical hormones effectively can be crucial. Removing toxins, which are often endoIt is always important when evaluating a patient for hormone balcrine disruptors, from the body, will allow the endocrine glands to ancing, to look at all the hormones of the body that interact in a can provide the key to function at optimal efficiency. perfect symphony of function. In addition to sex hormones, we also achieving and preserving attempt to balance thyroid, adrenal and pituitary hormones. However, eventually, there will come a time when the delicate balvibrant health well into ance of our hormones begins to falter. Bio-identical hormones can Although bio-identical hormone balancing seems to be more acprovide the key to achieving and preserving vibrant health well into cepted by women, testosterone optimization can profoundly imour advanced years. our advanced years. prove a man’s quality of life. It can improve cardiovascular health (as Bio-identical hormones are formulated to be identical, molecule for molecule, to our opposed to synthetic testosterones which can cause heart troubles), as well as improve natural bodily hormones. They are not patentable because they are natural to our body. strength and muscle mass. Hormone balancing may also reduce body fat, improve bone There is therefore no interest by the pharmaceutical companies to fund studies to show health, and help with blood sugar management. It can even relieve depression! they are effective. In fact, pharmaceutical companies see them as a potential threat to For more information contact Linchitz Medical Wellness at 516-759-4200. their profits and actively campaign against them (including petitioning the FDA to pre- www.linchitzwellness.com. advertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMANrOctober 2012r 7 fyi CREATIVE CUPS The Adelphi NY Statewide Breast Cancer Hotline is bringing back this popular life-affirming event and invites everyone to create an “art bra.” Creative Cups™ are ordinary bras that are transformed into works of art by artists, art students, children, breast cancer survivors and their friends and family members. The bras must be received by October 15 to be included in the auction/ gala (to be held on March 14, 2013 at Adelphi University). Those wishing to create a bra are encouraged to sign up early, as entrants are limited to 200. Creative Cups™ celebrates the lives of those living with breast cancer and those whom have been lost to this terrible disease. For more information, guidelines and to register, visit adelphi. edu/creative-cups or call 800-877-8077. MUSEUM OF THE MOVING IMAGE If you need a healthy dose of fun and nostalgia, then get yourself to the Museum of the Moving Image in Astoria. The museum offers fascinating permanent and temporary exhibits that help visitors appreciate the art, history, technique and technology of film, television and digital media. There are also special events like film screenings, speakers and interactive experiences. It’s an intriguing spot for adults who will enjoy the exhibit of old television sets, teens who can play vintage arcade games, and children who will adore choosing sound effects for movies and television shows. With many excellent restaurants within walking distance of the museum, it’s easy to make a whole day of it. For more information, visit movingimage.us or call 718-777-6888. at soapboxny.com. RENEW YOUR FITNESS GOALS Here’s some advice from Barbara Brenseke, a strength and conditioning coach and owner of Train For The Game L.I. in Bellmore: Even if you had a good start in January and kept your resolve through the summer, the back-to-school craziness and endless procession of holidays of fall can cause even the most dedicated fitness buff to stop making fitness a priority. But instead of thinking, I’ll start over in January, use these “three Rs” to make the fall a time to renew your fitness goals. 1. Re-assess: Consider what you’ve accomplished so far and what new action you need to stay on course with your goals. How can you fit fitness in with your other activities and obligations—and fewer daylight hours? Learn something new: take a new exercise class, learn a new sport or attend a nutrition or health 8rOctober 2012r-0/(*4-"/%80."/ by Debbi Honorof Meet This Long Island Woman Kate Corrigan Musician/Songwriter/Breast Cancer Advocate Where did you grow up? I grew up in Bellerose in a big Sicilian family with lots of love, food and music. All my siblings played piano and/or guitar and everyone sang at family gatherings. I now live in Hicksville with my husband, Patrick, and have three grown children. What part does music play in your life? During my college and young adult years, I wrote and performed my own songs as well as popular folk-rock songs in clubs in the Port Jefferson/Stony Brook area. My music reflected the ups and downs of my life. I guess you would say I process the world through my music. In 2010, you wrote a song that was inspired by your experience with breast cancer. After going through a bilateral mastectomy and reconstruction, I realized how blessed I was to have such great doctors and so much support from friends and total strangers who had undergone similar surgery. I was also fortunate enough to be able to help other women who were patients in the medical office where I work as they went through breast cancer treatment. So I wrote a song called “We Believe.” I hope my song will be an anthem for people who have breast cancer and give them hope that they will make it through this very tough journey. I’ve sung the song at events sponsored by the American Cancer Society, the Susan G. Komen Foundation, and a Breast Cancer Victory Day celebration at Mather Hospital. Is the recording of “We Believe” available for purchase? Yes, I’ve recorded the song onto a CD and it’s also available on iTunes. I donate all profits from the CD sales to The American Cancer Society and Bravehearts, an oncology camp for women. Anyone interested in purchasing a CD can send me an email at [email protected]. education seminar. 2. Re-connect: Find ways to re-establish that emotional high toward your goals and keep the momentum going. Sign up for an event to complement your health and fitness goals, perhaps a Thanksgiving Day Turkey Trot or a triathlon. This will keep your motivation high throughout the year and lead to more confidence in your goal-setting/goal-achieving cycle. 3. Re-assert: Change your mindset from making a resolution to making a commitment. A personal commitment is much more powerful than a resolution and can have a huge impact on motivation. For more information, visit trainforthegameli.com. POLITICAL SLANT: EDITORIAL CARTOONS Held in conjunction with the October 16, 2012 presidential debate at Hofstra University, this exhibition at the Hofstra Museum features original sketches and prints of editorial cartoons by contemporary political cartoonists, many of whom are Pulitzer Prize winners, including Long Island’s own Walt Handelsman. Topics include the economy, education, human rights, presidential elections, and war. A historical perspective is provided through works by the late 19th-century political artist Thomas Nast. The exhibit runs from October 1 through December 21 at the David Filderman Gallery on the 9th floor of the Axinn Library. For more information, visit hofstra.edu/museum or call 516-463-5672. AUSPICIOUS STITCHES On Mondays from 12 noon to 2 p.m., you can create needlework, appliqué, and other fiber arts inspired by the Rubin Museum of Art collection. Explore the embroidered images and various symbols found in the museum’s galleries and learn stitching techniques used in the Himalayan region. Previous experience with embroidery is helpful, but not necessary. Participants will create work following a particular theme, which may include Tibetan auspicious symbols, flora and fauna, Indian motifs, animals in Buddhist art, and phulkari scarves. The program and basic materials are free with museum admission, but a donation of $5 per person is suggested. For more information, visit rmanyc.org or call 212-620-5000 x274. To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Good Advice How Do I Reconnect With My Husband? by Lana Tamaro, LMHC, NCC, BCC Q: Lana, our son just your own vows, add some whimsy “I started college leav- promise to hang up my coat when I ing my husband and I get home” or “I promise to rub your alone, I feel lost. 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But telling an entire story in first person requires almost impossible finesse. The writer must manage to make it sound as natural as conversation yet include only the details necessary to tell the story, and offer them in tantalizing bites. Layers of perception must be woven in so deftly the reader understands that the narrator might not be as reliable as he thinks he is. Hardest of all is establishing a voice and maintaining it for the entire book. In Goldberg Variations, Susan Isaacs does it pitch perfectly. Four times. Told in first person by all four fascinating characters, this wise, witty, relationship-driven novel is a truly original family saga. At the heart of it is Gloria Goldberg Garrison, an ice-cold business tycoon who’s as elegant as any grand dame in literature, but nastier than a feral mutt with his teeth in your leg. Approaching eighty with no one to take over her very successful beauty makeover business, she reaches out to her three twenty-something grandchildren, who are practically strangers to her. Gloria summons them from New York to her mansion in Santa Fe to determine which one is fit to inherit her multi-million dollar business. But instead of fawning, flattering and competing for her approval, the grandchildren knock her for a loop. They are not interested. Still, the offer sets in motion an awakening in each of them, and the reader gets to take the journey as they grow and change. Isaacs got the idea for the book while on a journey herself. She was on a flight listening to Goldberg Variations, a classical composition by Johann Sebastian Bach, when it occurred to her that it would be a great title for a novel. “As far as ideas, my theory is that the subconscious does most of the work,” says Isaacs. “At very least it’s a great collaborator. And by the time I got off the plane I knew I was going to write about a family named Goldberg.” The author admits that her first instinct was to write the book in third person, but had second thoughts. “As soon as I switched it to first, it came alive.” To get inside the head of the main character, whom Isaacs describes as “chic, intelligent, cruel and cold,” she asked herself, “How does a terrible person become a terrible person?” The result is a richly layered character who’s entirely relatable, despite her harsh persona. The grandchildren are equally fascinating. Daisy, the oldest, works in the film industry as a story editor for Paramount. Smart and perceptive but not entirely in touch with her own loneliness, Daisy can be relied on for visual perspective, including this view of her grandmother’s home: Speaking of beige, the hallway she sent me down was just that color. Tasteful. You think beige is always beige, but some luxe magic happens when it’s on the walls of rich people’s houses that doesn’t happen in the post office. Daisy’s brother Matt is handsome and charismatic enough to At the heart of it is Gloria Goldberg Garrison, an icecold business tycoon who’s as elegant as any grand dame in literature, but nastier than a feral mutt with his teeth in your leg. 12r-0/(*4-"/%80."/rOctober 2012 attract his grandmother’s attention, especially since he reminds her of her favorite son. As a public relations manager for the New York Mets, charm comes easily to him. And the decision about his profession came easily to Isaacs, who calls herself “a huge Mets fan.” The character who locks horns most with Gloria is Raquel Goldberg, a halfLatina, all-Catholic Legal Aid attorney. With her grandmother’s courage and a conscience all her own, she stands up for herself and cousins, while coming to grips with her career dissatisfaction and her love life troubles. But clearly, Gloria’s persona is a catalyst for her. God, it was amazing how each and every time a thought about Gloria Garrison entered my head, I’d explode about something. And not only furious over her wrongs. She also served as a burning fuse that reignited every hostile thought I’d ever had on any subject at all. Those familiar with some of Susan Isaacs’s other books—such as Compromising Positions, Lily White, Shining Through, After All These Years and As Husbands Go—might not be surprised to learn that Goldberg Variations is as thematic as it is entertaining. Exploring issues of faith and forgiveness, this novel is an intricately woven family tapestry that will delight book club readers, who are always eager for the kind of depth and moral dilemmas that serve as prompts for discussion. Smart readers will find Goldberg Variations enchanting from beginning to end. As far as what happens to the characters after the last page, Isaacs says, “You know what I know. 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You have just been diagnosed with breast cancer. Maybe your mother had it, maybe a close friend or acquaintance had it, but this time it’s different. This time, it’s you. Now what? Breast cancer is the most common cancer among American women, except for skin cancers. About 1 in 8 (12%) women in the U.S. will develop invasive breast cancer during their lifetime, according to The American Cancer Society. It is a cancer that forms in tissues of the breast, usually the ducts (tubes that carry milk to the nipple) and lobules (glands that make milk). It occurs in both men and women, although male breast cancer is rare, according to the National Cancer Institute. No two cases of breast cancer are alike, which makes treatment distinctive for each patient diagnosed. “Breast cancer is not one disease and is unique for each person diagnosed,” according to Hillary Rutter, Director of the Adelphi Breast Cancer Program. “The course of treatment might be different for each person but there are evidencebased standards of care for different types of breast cancer.” The first few days after diagnosis are a time to work on a game plan and develop a way to tackle treatment, as well as build an emotional support system. It is a time for researching information relative to your specific diagnosis, finding an advocate to accompany you to doctor visits and review treatment options after second and even third medical opinions. Obtaining a second or even third opinion is not a professional slap in the face to any doctor. Gather Facts Relevant to Your Diagnosis Feeling overwhelmed after a breast cancer diagnosis is extremely common. A critical life change has occurred and as a new patient you are being asked questions in medical terms that sound like a foreign language. Educate yourself about the specifics of your own cancer and how to treat it. “There are multiple treatment options available to the patient and there are several clinical and histopathologic variables that determine which course of treatment is recommended for a patient,” explains Julie Fasano, M.D., Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center in Commack. “The size of her tumor, the hormone receptor, whether or not there is lymph node involvement, her age and underlying medical comorbidities are all variables that inform therapeutic decision making. That is why breast cancer is unique to every patient and there may be multiple treatment options for a particular patient.” Too often newly diagnosed patients waste valuable time researching information that does not even apply to their diagnosis. Having a concrete grasp of your type of cancer and the stage is paramount to making informed decisions about treatment options. Bring a Second Set of Eyes and Ears Whether it is a friend of family member, many patients often benefit from a second set of eyes and ears at their doctor visits to take notes during medical appointments. However, it is not uncommon for this newfound need to bring about a role reversal that many female patients are uncomfortable with. “I find that my breast cancer patients’ immediate concerns are not for themselves but are for their spouses and children,” states Dr. Fasano. “They are so 16r-0/(*4-"/%80."/rOctober 2012 Questions to Ask Your Doctor after a Breast Cancer Diagnosis 1. What type of breast cancer do I have? 2. Has the cancer spread to other organs (metastasized) or my lymph nodes? Are you going to perform tests to check? 3. What stage of cancer am I currently in? What does that mean? 4. What is the size of my tumor? How many do I have? 5. How does my stage affect treatment options and prognosis? 6. Have you treated this type of cancer before? How much experience have you had? 7. What are my treatment options? 8. Who will coordinate my care? 9. Will I need additional tests before I commit to a treatment plan? Can I change treatment plans at any point? 10. What treatment do you recommend for my cancer type and stage? 11. What are the immediate and long term goals of my treatment? 12. In your experience, what are my chances for survival with this type of cancer? 13. How will my treatment affect my fertility? Will I still be able to have children after receiving treatment? How does having reached menopause affect my treatment? To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] South Shore Surgical Specialists Specializing in General & Vascular Surgery Anthony J. Capizzi, MD, FACS Specializing in all areas of breast surgery, including the Mammosite Radiation Therapy System. 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Always take someone with you so you can clarify what you think you heard,” stresses Geri Barish, President of 1in9, Long Island Breast Cancer Action Coalition and Executive Director of Hewlett House. “Write down your questions before you go so you do not forget, and take notes.” In addition to bringing an appointment buddy, many doctors recommend bringing a tape recorder to appointments, as long as there is doctor consent. At the very least, either the patient or their buddy should take notes to ensure important details are not missed. Get A Second, or Third Opinion “Most patients usually get the initial referral by their primary care doctor or gynecologist. These physicians are usually an excellent referral source and they often seek specialists whom they know and think will work well with the patient,” explains Patricia Farrelly, M.D., Clinical Assistant Professor, Department of Surgery, Stony Brook University School of Medicine, and surgeon at Stony Brook’s Carol M. Baldwin Breast Care Center. “Word of mouth by friends and/or support groups, as well as insurance companies can also be helpful. If one is not comfortable with the physician they are seeing, they again can be encouraged to seek other doctors.” Many patients, surprisingly, are hesitant to reach out to other doctors for a second or third opinion. Experts have cited that many patients feel they do not want to upset or offend their diagnosis physician by having other consultations with different doctors. Obtaining a second or even third opinion is not a professional slap in the face to any doctor. There are a number of reasons multiple opinions are important, mostly because you should have a grasp of every treatment option available to you before you make a decision to begin. “Breast cancer is considered one of the most treatable cancers and much research has been done to better understand this disease. There are different combinations of treatment tailored to the type of cancer and the stage at which it was diagnosed,” according to Lynette LeePack, M.S., N.P., CBCN a nurse practitioner at Stony Brook University Hospital. “Breasts surgeons, medical oncologists, radiation oncologists and other health care professionals devise a plan of care tailored to these patients.” Before consulting any doctor about another opinion, have copies of all your medical records, mammograms, test results and pathology slides. This will help to provide the doctor with a complete picture of your condition thus far. Having an open line of communication with your physician is a critical aspect of your treatment plan. Avoid forgetting all the questions that jump into your mind after the initial diagnosis by writing them down. If you don’t know where to start, refer to page 16 for a listing of questions to help navigate through the first few doctor visits after your initial breast cancer diagnosis. 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A quick and easy way to erase these imperfections is with a photofacial. In my look. Before you know it, Thanksgiving will be upon us, and the start of practice I offer an IPL (intense pulsed light) photofacial. IPL is like a laser, but instead of one many social gatherings with family and friends will begin. With all of the wavelength, it uses the energy of many different wavelengths, making the treatment safer, shopping, cooking, cleaning, wrapping, and socializing, who has time to more efficient, and with less downtime than a laser. IPL photofacials are also great for elimibeautify? Actually, it’s easier than you think. In less than an hour, there nating spider veins and broken blood vessels as well as treating Rosacea. Photofacials can be done in about 15 minutes and the results are typically seen within 7- 14 days. are several things you can do to look picture perfect for the holidays. 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It brought me back to the 1976 Winter Olympics in Innsbruck, Austria, when a relatively unknown young athlete won the gold medal in figure skating and almost overnight became “America’s Sweetheart.” From her signature “Hamill Camel” spin to her immensely popular wedge haircut, no one who watched her historic performance can forget the 19-year-old Dorothy Hamill’s breathtaking routine. Several weeks later, the three-time U.S. figure skating champion went on to win the World Figure Skating Championship in Göteborg, Sweden and was later inducted into the U.S. Olympic Hall of Fame. Behind the stardom and glitter, though, was a personal story of sacrifice, personal struggle and heartache, but true to the Olympic tradition, the always smiling and cheerful Dorothy Hamill overcame the odds that plagued her throughout her life. Today’s young athletes can take advantage of many more opportunities for funding and sponsorship, but back when the young Dorothy was in training, her parents and siblings struggled and sacrificed to make sure she had the right coaches, spent her summers training in the most prestigious facilities, and had the proper equipment and costumes. Both of her parents suffered from undiagnosed depression which led to drinking issues, and this, in turn led to quarrels and fights that were ever-present in Dorothy’s childhood. She adored her parents—especially her mother’s athleticism and her father’s musical talents—but their marriage was constantly being tested under the strain of ensuring that Dorothy continued her training. The rink was the one place where young Dorothy found her escape. Dorothy’s grueling training schedule often took her away from home for weeks or months at a time. Her mother would sometimes accompany her, leaving Dorothy’s brother and sister in the care of her father. The family managed to make ends meet but had little extra money, so the traveling and living away from home added to the family’s already large financial burden. Throughout her years of training, her mother was insistent that Dorothy receive a decent education, and this often conflicted with her rigorous training schedule. Later, as a single mother raising her own daughter, Dorothy came to understand and appreciate the sacrifices and difficulties her own mother—and father—took on to make sure that Dorothy was able to achieve her dreams. After winning the gold medal, Dorothy’s life changed forever. She became an instant celebrity and the commercial endorsement opportunities started pouring in. Over the years, she appeared in a series of TV specials with stars like Gene Kelly, Perry Como and Andy Williams, as well as a televised production of Romeo and Juliet on Ice, for which she earned an Emmy award in 1984. Ladies Home Journal named her “The Most Trusted Sports Figure in America.” She also got to hobnob with the rich and famous. Who can forget the 1982 headlines announcing Dorothy Hamill’s marriage to heartthrob Dean Paul Martin, a member of the band Dino, Desi & Billy (with Desi Arnaz, Jr.) and son of the popular crooner and “Rat-Pack” member Dean Martin. Though the two divorced several years later, they continued to be very close until his untimely death in a plane crash in 1987. Dorothy married sports physician Ken Forsythe in 1987 and the two had a daughter, Alexandra. When the Ice Capades approached bankruptcy in the early 1990s, Hamill and Forsythe purchased the company and revamped the show. Dorothy used her connections to bring in top skaters, and although she was now a producer, she also starred in the performances. In 1995, when Disney’s “World on Ice” provided stiff competition, Dorothy was forced to sell the Ice Capades and declare bankruptcy. Dorothy also found herself going through another divorce. Over the years, through business deals that didn’t pan out and a string of health issues including depression, seasonal affective disorder (SAD), osteoarthritis and a diagnosis of breast cancer, Dorothy Hamill has not lost her “can-do” attitude and has continued to capture the public’s imagination. She is now in a loving marriage, lives in Baltimore, spends the winters in California, and runs a skating camp in Nantucket during the summer. She has the time to spend on charitable causes and her cherished daughter Alexandra is now 23. Dorothy’s mother, with whom she has a warm and caring relationship, is still alive. These days, Dorothy continues to travel and speak and performs for charity. Although she sometimes feels guilty about not being as active as before, she enjoys spending her time helping others. I had the pleasure of catching up recently with Dorothy and she was as modest and charming as ever as she shared some old memories and caught me up on her current activities. How did the famous Dorothy Hamill haircut come about? The haircut came about mostly because I wouldn’t let my mom brush my hair when I was a little girl because my hair was always so tangled, so I got a pixie cut. My mom always wanted me to have short hair but I wanted to grow it out. I was 14 and it didn’t like the way I looked. So I went through fashion magazines to find a new look. At that time, Vidal Sassoon was popular for his short, “wash ‘n wear” haircuts, meaning no more rollers or hairspray. I made an appointment with celebrity hairstylist Yusuke Suga. It was right before the Olympics, and I loved the haircut and felt very stylish. He continued to cut my hair and we became fast friends until he passed away 22 years ago. He was the sweetest man and the most incredibly talented hair stylist. The Dorothy Hamill doll was a huge hit when it was introduced in 1977. Do you still have one? I probably have a few floating around in storage. I always felt “why me?” I remember going through the process. I had to approve the final design, and I was surprised that it actually looked like me! After the Olympics, I was Hamill A “Can-Do” Survivor by Debbi Honorof “After the Olympics I was numb, going from a complete unknown to not being able to walk down the street without someone recognizing me. Now it seems like another person, another lifetime.” numb, going from a complete unknown to not being able to walk down the street without someone recognizing me. Now it seems like another person, another lifetime. How has the world of competitive skating changed today? It’s hard to even say what has stayed the same! First of all, now there are no compulsory figures and those took four to five hours a day just to keep them perfected—they were 50% of the entire score. If you didn’t do those well, you didn’t have a chance at winning. We were amateurs—certainly a lot more innocent. Now everyone is subsidized and there are massive sports programs. Athletes can a lot of prize money in competitions. So you can earn money to pay for your lessons. By the time I finished my Olympics, my parents were in so much debt. It was nice after the Olympics to perform in ice shows and make some money. The whole amateur/professional component has changed. After the Nancy Kerrigan incident, skating on television became enormously popular and ratings went through the roof, so there’s a lot of money to be made with sponsorships. Skaters wanted to earn money and producers didn’t care about quality. Tell me about the Ice Show you performed in a few days after 9-11. We were scheduled to do an Ice Show at the Kennedy Center in Washington, D.C., but it was really tough to go on with the show. We were all so stunned, and looking at the big picture, this meant absolutely nothing. But the Kennedy Center felt that “the show must go on” and the audience was so appreciative. Maybe it was a place that people felt they could come to escape the awful events of 9-11 and all the horror on television. We really didn’t think anyone would show up, but the show was poetic and lovely and uplifting. So it was really nice that everyone enjoyed it—the performers as well as the audience. When did you first understand the depression that plagued your family? The medical community takes depression seriously, but there is still a stigma associated with it. But it’s real, and like any other medical condition, the more you can be open about it and deal with it, the better the outcome— especially with all the medications that are available to treat it. It’s different for each person, but when it comes on, you often don’t know till it’s too late and then you don’t have the energy to help yourself. I am lucky that I found a doctor in Baltimore to help me through it. Especially as a single mom who was on the road a lot, I didn’t have nurturing people around to help. In January 2008, you were diagnosed with breast cancer. Yes, but I was really lucky to have been diagnosed and treated at the Johns Hopkins Kimmel Cancer Center three months after a study had come out recommending a new medical protocol. If the diagnosis had come just three months earlier, the protocol would have been more extreme. I’ve had two surgeries, chemotherapy and radiation, but it’s been more than four years since the initial diagnosis and I’m cancer-free. My mom had breast cancer 30 years ago and she is also still doing well. Note: Dorothy Hamill has lent her name to many cancer-related programs and events. To view a wonderful video of Dorothy Hamill skating to “Some Enchanted Evening,” visit womens.cancerinformation.com/celebrate/ videos/enchantedEvening.aspx. Tell me about your I-skate program. I am passionate about my volunteer work with the adaptive skating program at the Kennedy Krieger Institute in Maryland. It helps kids with varying degrees of challenges from mild autism to cerebral palsy to spina bifida. It’s so much fun to share the experience of skating with these courageous children. Most people wouldn‘t think that someone in a wheelchair could skate, but we’ve been able to give them that experience. We’re going into our fourth season, and it’s incredible to see the kids grow and the program expand—and we need to raise a whole bunch of money. I not only love working with youngsters, but I also love to see their parents on sidelines, watching as their kids go from crutches to skating without support. Some families drive several hours to give their kids the experience. What is the most important piece of advice you would give to your younger self? If I could have done anything differently, I would have really tried not to make all my business associates my best friends. I got very emotionally attached to my business associates, and when the business is gone, the emotional pain is worse when they are also close friends. Friends are there for you no matter what. X from A SKATING LIFE: MY STORY by Dorothy Hamill I could feel my mom’s resentment growing, having to live away from home and struggle to make ends meet. She glared and snarled at me at the rink if she didn’t think I was working hard enough. I knew I had to make it worth her while. But at the same time, I felt there wasn’t anything that would make her happy. Yet she was capable of such love and sacrifice that when I think about it now, it still breaks my heart. It was 1976. There were no professional teams in women’s basketball. There was no woman in the world of golf I could look to for an example. The sports pages barely acknowledged figure skating as a sport. 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There were put the spoon down and repeat and repeat and repeat.” Soon she says, babies are pictures on his highchair tray. And, there was sign language. touching their fingertips together to ask for more. When David wanted more of anything, The day I met Linda in my local library, Joyce was there for her from a bottle to Cheerios, Linda would tap her ten fingertips tosecond sign language class. Joyce’s two year old granddaughter has gether and say, “More, more.” Then he’d get it. It didn’t take long It’s easier for “big special needs and she is being taught sign language and she’s alfor David to understand the way to get “more” was to tap his fin- kids” to teach “little ready teaching Grandma some sign words! gertips. Her thumb to her forehead with her five fingers spread was New mom, Lindsay, was there with six month old Hannah. She kids” to sign, than it said, “I’ll do anything to interact with her. Anything.” Two-year old “Daddy.” Her thumb to her chin with five fingers spread out was is to teach them to Zahara was there with her pregnant mom to learn sign language, “Mommy.” Touching her pointer fingertips meant “pain.” Linda says that babies can often express themselves with sign lanso maybe Zahara can communicate easier with the new baby in a throw a ball. guage, long before their mouths can form words, which removes month. And there will be less frustration and less crying and a lot some of babies’ frustrations and crying too. Linda found sign lanmore peace – for everyone. guage worked beautifully again when Andrew, Tim and Jeremy were born. In fact, Linda says we’re already teaching them sign language like blowing kisses and it’s easier for “big kids” to teach “little kids” to sign, than it is to teach them to waving bye-bye. So why not this? That’s why she’ll continue traveling Long Island throw a ball. And that builds relationships. to spread the good word. O That’s why Linda teaches sign language today in Long Island libraries and to parLinda Hees can be reached at [email protected] ents groups, or to anyone who wants to learn. Like many sign speakers, Linda disagrees News 12’s Carol Silva has been bringing Long Islanders their local news weekday that sign language delays verbal language. In fact, other studies say it helps children mornings for more than 25 years. Find her starting at 5 AM on News 12 Long Island. Good Advice Good Advice Breast Reduction – The Lollipop Scar Technique The Use of Personal Care Agreements by Dr. Charlotte Rhee by Marc Alhonte, Esq. Women with very scar) leaves the breasts with a vertical large pendulous and a long horizontal scar (along the breasts may experi- breast crease). I utilize the LeJour techence a variety of nique which leaves the breast with a medical problems single vertical incision (lollipop scar) including back and neck pain. 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Still writing, still recording, still touring and about to make her first, and only, local appearance in decades, Warnes spoke about flying on the changing winds of a long career in music. “I don’t know that I am in the music business anymore,” she admits, “because I don’t know where it is. There’s no there there. There’s no door I can knock on and say `How can I plug into the system?’ There’s no system. So how does any human being change their life to be productive and also accept reality? The answer is always, `go within.’ “Like most people of my generation, I’m in a huge transition, a huge transformation. It has nothing to do with my age; it has so much to do with what’s going on in the world. And anyone who’s in the middle of this Waring blender, this soup, will understand. A lot of people are in a massive shift. And if you’re brave, and you’re an adventure seeker – which my generation always was – it’s kind of exciting. But I have no name for it.” Certainly, Warnes bristles at naming this stage of her career a comeback or return. “I’ve been touring every year for the last five years, so it’s not actually a comeback. I took some time off because my mother had passed away, but I was recording all that time.” JENNIFER WARNES Where She Belongs Nevertheless, the death in 2001 of Warnes’ “significant other” – her mom – pushed her focus from music to family for nearly half the preceding decade. “9/11 occurred in 2001, and that’s the year she died. So the combination of a number of things put me in a genealogical search. I scanned 8,000 photographs and put together the history of my family. During that process, I got an offer from the YMCA in Rome, New York, to do a mentorship program in the music department. I didn’t really want to go to Rome in the middle of December, but the fellow at the YMCA said he would help me locate my father’s home in Utica. So I went back east, and I found a huge chunk of my history there, including all these musicians from Wales. All the graves are there – it’s a really stunning story. I sang in this church with a pipe organ that my great-grandfather found. “Just a lot of puzzle pieces got completed,” recalls Warnes, “and it became the focus of my attention – doing this for my family. I don’t know how the next five or six years went, but they were involved with a karmic return to my roots. To complete that, I moved back to my home of my childhood, and I’m living there now. Still, all along, I’m making music. The media gauges when an artist surfaces as being important, when their head bobs up out of the water. But for us, the more magical part of our life is under water. It’s a continuous string of activity that has creative expression, and it also has public expression.” Which is one reason a high-school friend suggested she get back out and tour, even promising to make the all arrangements and travel together. That was ten years ago, and Dee Perez has stayed Warnes’ tour manager ever since. “Every year, we go out on a little trip,” says Warnes. “They take me and my band, and that comfort makes it possible to go.” However, cautions Warnes, fans coming to her concerts shouldn’t expect anything resembling a greatest-hits package. “Don’t come if you want to hear, `I’ve had the Time of My Life’ or `Up Where We Belong,’” she says. “You can’t duplicate those kinds of experiences with two players. Twenty years ago, when commerce dominated artists and turned people into product, we had to sing what was commercially acceptable, music that fit into a genre, in order to keep our jobs. We allowed ourselves to be marketed as product rather than as people in order to fit into the system. But with the rise of the internet, the whole nation didn’t meet in front of the TV to discover The Beatles; the whole nation met in front “If I do step on-stage prepared and ready to enjoy myself in song, then hopefully, everyone else will, too.” 26r-0/(*4-"/%80."/rOctober 2012 To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Watch Dr. Jacono’s New TV Show Facing Trauma on Read Dr. Jacono’s New Book T HE F ACE OF THE F UTURE, LOOK NATURAL, NOT PLASTIC: $UAL"OARD#ERTIkED&ACIAL 0LASTIC2ECONSTRUCTIVE3URGEON ANDREW A. JACONO, MD, FACS B OTOX ® C O S M E T I C RESTYLANE JUVÉDERM® RADIESSE U LT H E R A ® SCULPTRA® FRAXEL LASER LASER GENESIS A Less-Invasive Approach to Enhance Your Beauty and Reverse Facial Aging !VAILABLEAT"ARNES.OBLEAND!MAZONCOM ANDREW A. 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In addition, this lift restores volume to the neck, and that much dreaded “turkey neck.” In recent years we have cheekbones and smoothes nasolabial folds, resulting in a youthful, beautiful, heart- shaped become intolerant of these consequences, and more of us are seeking to face and authentic result that does not appear tight or “overdone.” For years, my patients rewind the clock and revitalize our physical being. have had to choose between better results or less scarring. With hybrid face lifts, they get the There were over 100,000 facelifts performed in 2009 according to the best of both worlds. American Society of Plastic Surgeons, but the techniques used vary widely. There are corporate The Future Lift uses a short incision, while lifting the facial tissue and muscles simultaneoussponsored face lifts that are advertised on television claiming no downtime, trademarked lifts, ly so patients get the superior results of a deep plane face lift, combined with the minimal scarmini lifts, S-lifts, MACS lifts, and deep plane lifts. This is all very confusing, ring of a “mini lift.” It is not only an option that delivers best-in-class and most of us do not understand the vital differences. How do you decide results, but a procedure that offers longer-lasting results as well. The stanThe most state-of-the-art what procedure gives the best results, with minimal scarring and downdard lifetime of a “mini lift” is between three to five years, but with newer face lift is a recently time, and the longest lasting results? This is the most commonly asked hybrid face lifts results typically last 12 to 15 years. question by my patients. developed hybrid technique, Just like a “mini face lift,” The Future Lift can be performed under local Short-incision “mini” face lifts, often the ones advertised on television, anesthesia in about an hour and a half. General anesthesia is not necesthat I call the Future Lift. utilize an abbreviated incision to lift the skin. While the incision is small sary, making this a safe procedure as well. Given the level of difficulty in (hidden inside the ear) leaving minimal scarring, post-operative bleeding performing this procedure, as a more detailed understanding of the anatoand bruising is a trademark of these procedures. They typically tighten only the skin and do my is required, I encourage any patient considering this procedure to seek a physician who spenot lift and tighten the muscles. As a result, they can leave patients with a windswept, cializes in facial plastic surgery and possesses the level of expertise required to perform a hybrid “pulled” appearance, and the results last only three to five years, as the underlying facial musface lift. As a committed facial plastic surgeon, I assure that all of my patients have a clear cles are not tightened. The facial muscles are the structure of the face, the beams that hold up understanding of the different types of procedures. Any patient considering a face lift should the face lift if you will; and if not treated the lifted face will fall earlier than desired. be aware of all of their options. Compared to “mini” face lifts, a deep plane face lift yields more effective, longer lasting To learn more about this innovative procedure, please call our New York or Great Neck offices at results with my patient population. It is a procedure that lifts the skin and muscle as one unit, 212-570-2500 or 516-773-4646, or you may visit us at www.NewYorkFacialPlasticSurgery.com. as well as lifting the mid-face and cheek area. On the downside, deep plane face lifts require Dr. Andrew Jacono is a Dual Board Certified Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgeon. He is a very large incision, resulting in more noticeable scarring which makes hiding your procedure Section Head of the Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery at North Shore University Hospital virtually impossible. and an Assistant Professor of Facial Plastic Surgery at New York Eye and Ear Infirmary, and The most state-of-the-art face lift is a recently developed hybrid technique, that I call the Albert Einstein College of Medicine. advertisement To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] LONG ISLAND WOMANrOctober 2012r27 of YouTube to discover what they actually liked as individuals. So artists have changed in that regard. It’s based on individual preference. “So this is the person I’ll bring to the stage on Long Island,” Warnes promises, “my individual unique self. I won’t be singing through a veil of commercial formula, or through a veil of what I expect you want, or what I used to expect of myself. Who I am today is entirely different from 1983, 1987 . . . But if I do step on-stage prepared and ready to enjoy myself in song, then hopefully, everyone else will, too.” Although Warnes has visited New York to see her old school friend, painter Laurie Munn, who lives in East Hampton, she honestly can’t recall the last time she performed in concert `round these parts. “I was in Boston with Stevie Goodman before he passed,” Warnes recalls, “and I remember doing `Song of Bernadette’ around 1981-82 with Tom Rush and a bunch of friends at the Boston Pops. But otherwise, I’ve just visited Laurie. She vowed to become a famous painter, and I vowed to become a famous singer. And lo and behold, we did that – sort of!” Though Warnes speaks merrily of her experience singing with Bob Dylan on an outtake of “Every Grain of Sand” (“he said, `Just sing along,’ so I sang along, and it was pitiful, horrible singing. A dog was barking in the pool room, and that’s the track that appears on The` Bootleg Series!’”), and working with John Cale on her first Warner Brothers album (“he taught me that any sound in the world is a possible addition to the painting that you’re going to make”), she is protective and almost reverent when discussing her old friend and most significant collaborator, Leonard Cohen. “A friendship, to me, is so sacred,” Warnes says, “that I would never attempt to make a bullet statement about a friend. That would be a disservice to Leonard. Not only that, it’s impossible to do that with a soul, with a person, with a life. I’ve known him for 40 years. It would be folly for me to try to sum him up in a sentence, so let’s not go there. He’s a wonderful, wonderful man and a great artist.” Asked why she connected so specifically to his art, leading to her acclaimed 1986 album of Cohen covers, Famous Blue Raincoat, Warnes replies, “We just got on. The bell rang when we were together. He has a rich kind of cello-ish voice, and mine’s kind of a bell-like, clarion voice, and they complemented one another. It’s like asking, `Why are the Beach Boys together? `Why are the Everly Brothers together?’ Because they sound good. From the moment we first sang together, it was, `Oh, well, that’s easy. And that’s always there.” As for her personal life, Warnes is happily single and living alone. “I’m a heterosexual without children,” she laughs. “My mother was for many years my significant other, and I took her around the world with me. Now I live adjacent to my niece, a writer, who has seven children, so she’s doing what our generation could not do, and my goal is to help her get off the ground. But I’ve loved many people in my lifetime deeply and passionately, and I’m very, very proud of it.”O Long Island Woman will present Jennifer Warnes in concert - in her only New York area appearance - at the Madison Theatre at Molloy College on Oct. 31st. The Madison Theatre is located at 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre. For tickets call 516-678-5000 x7715 or on the web at madisontheatreny.org. David Lefkowitz co-publishes Performing Arts Insider (TotalTheater.com) and hosts Dave’s Gone By (davesgoneby.com) on UNC Radio. He is the co-author and director of the stage show, “Shalom Dammit! An Evening with Rabbi Sol Solomon.” Read more at: http://davelefkowitzwriting.wordpress.com/about/ Jenny Sings Lenny Famous Blue Raincoat is the album that broadened the appeal of the music of Leonard Cohen and was a turning point in the career of Jennifer Warnes. For those unable to discover the beauty and magic of Leonard Cohen’s lyrics and music behind his deep and gravely voice, Ms. Warnes opens the door of discovery by wrapping her exquisite vocals around his brilliant songs on this stunning album. Every song on Famous Blue Raincoat is a gem and Jennifer Warnes lovingly embraces each one without over-singing them. She gives each song exactly what they need and deserve. Standout cut on this work of perfection is the beautiful “Song of Bernadette. “ The 20th Anniversary Edition includes four additional songs including a touchingly stripped down version of “If It Be Your Will.” This album holds up beautifully after more than twenty years and deserves to be in everyone’s music collection. - Arie Nadboy 28r-0/(*4-"/%80."/rOctober 2012 To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] In Motion Medical Med-Spa .EW#LIENT3PECIAL BOTOX® $150 &IRST!REAn&OREHEAD#ROWS&EET'LABELLAR 'OODTHRU/CTOBER Botox Treatment For: s&OREHEAD,INES s#ROWS&EET s3MOKERS,INES s&ROWN,INES #OVEREDBYMOSTINSURANCEPLANS s-IGRAINES s(YPERHIDROSIS %XCESSIVE5NDERARM3WEATING *6 Treatment Special* Laser Hair Removal f£ÊÊUÊfÓÓÊÀ>â> f£ÈÊ1`iÀ>Às 'OODTHRU/CTOBER s-ICRODERMABRASION s#HEMICAL0EELS s5LTRASONIC&ACIALS s0HYSICAL4HERAPY s!CPUNUCTURE Derma Fillers: s,IP%NHANCEMENT s-ARIONETTE,INES s&ACIAL7RINKLES s&ACIAL#ONTOURING ® Juvederm Radiesse® Restylane® HCG Weight Loss Treatment As Seen on Dr. Oz & Dr. Drew Dr. Charlene M. 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Unfortunately, any opinion you voiced will not be they are overlooked in favor of the forgotten and you may find yourcruel characterization that continues self shut out of their lives. to make mothers-in-law the butt of 4. Don’t make statements such jokes. For example: as, “I’ll help you,” or “I’ll bring the Just got back from a pleasure trip: food.” You may mean well, but your I took my mother-in-law to the airoffer could be interpreted as intruport.- Henny Youngman sive. It’s better to ask. “Would you Never rely on the glory of the like me to help you?” or “Would morning you like me to bring a dish of somenor the thing?” If declined, don’t sulk. Be s m i l e s gracious. of your What not to do: Jane Fonda and Jennifer Lopez in Monster-in-Law 5. Resist the urge to call your child mother-inseveral times a day. Few things are so urgent that they can’t wait. law. - Japanese Proverb. 6. Do not tell them what to do. “You have to go to your cousin Sid’s wedI find these humorless with no merit, and often ding or Aunt Ida will be angry!” It’s not your decision. Separate family. Sepawonder if anyone ever considers how difficult it is to rate resolution. Let your child and spouse deal with Aunt Ida. be a mother-in-law. Does anyone even realize that 7. Be on your best behavior with the other mother-in-law. Remember she all mothers-in-law are themselves also daughtershas the same concern as you: “Has my child made the right choice of mate?” in-law? Most of us can recall how stressful it was 8. Do not discuss personal things from your child’s past with the other mothwhen we became wives, and we certainly don’t er-in-law. If your child wants the woman to know private things about her, your want to add unnecessary tensions to our child’s life. child will reveal the information. It’s a fact that marriage changes relationships. The 9. Always see the husband and wife as one unit. The husband is not sepachild we took to kindergarten, the one who sudrate from the wife. Wishes of both must always be considered. Never give denly overnight became an adult, has added a new your child a gift of a desired pet etc., without prior approval of the spouse. branch to the family tree – one with different cus10. Do not let any gossip you hear about them cause you to create probtoms, quirks, and new extended family members. lems in their marriage. Always check the facts yourself before you carefully This requires a major adjustment for all of us. Indiscuss the matter with your child and the spouse. Remember, gossip is like laws walk a fine line of not doing enough and doing the game of Telephone. The story changes as it travels from one person to too much; not wanting to be excluded from our child’s life, yet not wanting the next. Example: I know of a family relationship that was destroyed when to overbearing either. the mother-in-law, thanks to gossip, accused the son-in-law of fathering a In order to avoid major conflicts within the new family unit while finding the child with another woman. Actually, the son-in-law, with his wife’s blessing, balance that works, I suggest the following ten life adjustments. participated in the Big Brother program mentoring children on weekends, 1. The biggest mistake mothers-in-law make is to cherish a false sense of which explained the child he was often seen with. The mother-in-law found loyalty – “My child will always take my side because I gave birth to them.” herself banished from the family’s lives. Not so. Marriage changed this relationship. You are not now, nor ever again Mothers-in-law worry, make mistakes, and often forget that we didn’t will be #1 in their lives. It doesn’t mean your child loves you any less; it just lose our child, but very simply gained another adult child who wants very means you are loved differently. If you try to force a choice, you will not like much to fit in with us. The benefits of a warm, pleasant, cordial relationship the results. will always be preferable to one fraught with suspicion and hostility. Let 2. Don’t assume you are welcome to drop by the new couple’s home on your peace prevail! O whim. Always call first. If told that this is a bad time to stop by, don’t make Most of us can recall how stressful it was when we became wives, and we certainly don’t want to add unnecessary tensions to our child’s life. 30r-0/(*4-"/%80."/rOctober 2012 To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] t4)0355&3.3&)"#*-*5"5*0/46#"$65&$"3& t Just because you have an injury or illness, doesn’t mean you can’t go back to enjoying precious moments with your family. 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For those adolescents whose lives have been touched by cancer-related illnesses. s"ALLROOM ,ATIN $ANCE ,ESSONS Mondays 8:30-9:45pm. Suffolk Y JCC. 74 Happauge Rd., Commack. 631-462-9800 xt. 139. suffolkyjcc. org. $9. s"REAST #ANCER %XERCISE 0ROGRAM Noon1pm, Saturdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. For breast cancer patients who are finished with treatment. Provided by personal trainers certified in teaching exercise & wellness to breast cancer survivors. s#ANCER $ISCUSSION 1-2:30pm, Wednesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. Facilitator, Geri Barish. An informal, ongoing chat for people whose lives have been touched by cancer. s#ANCER 3UPPORT 'ROUP 11:15am-12:15pm, Tuesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. For those in need of support for all cancer-related illnesses. Group members of different ages and with different types of cancer come together each week to support one another. s#ANCER3UPPORT'ROUPFOR"ILATERAL3URGERY 5:30-6:30pm, Tuesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9. org. Facilitator, Geri Barish. For women who have had bilateral surgery, double mastectomy. s#ARDIO"ALLROOM: Sundays at 10:30am. Sky Athletic Club. 310 Merrick Rd., Rockville Centre. 516-678-9400. skyathletic.com. Fast paced cardio dance class, all levels, no partner needed. s#ROCHET #LASS noon-1:30pm, Thursdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. The group is designed to help cancer patients draw strength from each other and enjoy togetherness in this circle of friendship. s$ECOUPAGE!RT#LASS: 12:30-2:30pm. Tuesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. Reformatting paper images to create something else. s&EMALE3ELF$EFENSE7EEK October 5th10th. Modern Warrior. 711 N. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst. 631-226-8383. modernwarrior.com. s&ITNESS FOR /LDER !DULTS 9:05am. Fridays. Long Beach Public Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432-7201. nassaulibrary. org/longbeach. sHow To Meditate: 5 week course, Tuesdays from 7:30-9:30pm. Smithtown. 631-7249733. lightawakeningsmeditationandbeyond. com. s)NTEN3ATI: One Sunday a month. Call for next date. Sky Athletic Club. 310 Merrick Rd., Rockville Centre. 516-678-9400. skyathletic.com. A unique workout that combines physical exercises with teachings from the Law of Attraction, positive psychology, and life coaching. s+OGA: Wednesdays at 9:30am. Sky Athletic Club. 310 Merrick Rd., Rockville Centre. 516678-9400. skyathletic.com. Fusion fitness class that combines kickboxing and yoga with instructor Jon Koga. s-AT 9OGA -ONDAYS 9:15-10:30am Mondays. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. 516-766-4341 x111. friedbergjcc.org. Yoga Instructor Sandy Pinz. s.EWLY $IAGNOSED "REAST #ANCER 3UPPORT 12:30-1:30pm, Tuesdays. 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Sky Athletic Club. 310 Merrick Rd., Rockville Centre. 516-678-9400. skyathletic.com. Muay Thai kick boxing class mixed with kettle bell training. s7RITERS2OUND4ABLE 11am-noon, Wednesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. Freelance writer and author Lyna Caruso facilitates this creative writing workshop for those affected by cancer. Eight-week program. Registration required. Free. s9OGA 11:15am. Thursdays and Saturdays through October. Old Westbury Gardens. 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org. s9OGA3TRESS 2EDUCTION 11am-noon, Wednesdays. Hewlett House, 86 East Rockaway Rd., Hewlett. 516-374-3190. 1in9.org. Mondays 1:30-2:30 pm. 6-week program. For all cancer-related illness. SPOTLIGHT Sweet Charity You don’t have to be a Big Spender to spend a little time with us! At the John W. Engeman Theater, Long Island’s only year-round professional theater. Sweet Charity is a Neil Simon musical about the romantic ups-and-downs of an ever-hopeful dance hall hostess, despite endless disappointments and bad luck with men. Charity Hope Valentine, with a shoulder bag and a heart tattooed on her left arm, works as a dancer-for-hire in a Times Square Dance Hall but longs for love. Charity finally meets a nice young man to romance her away, but loses her nerve about telling him what her real job is. It features musical hits such as “Big Spender” and “If My Friends Could See Me Now.” When: Sept. 6 to Oct. 28 - Wednesdays at 8pm,Thursdays at 8pm, Fridays at 8pm, Saturdays at 3pm & 8pm, Sundays at 2pm & 7pm. Special Matinee on Wed., Sept. 24 at 2pm. Where: the John W. Engeman Theater, 250 Main St., Northport Tickets: Tickets $65: visit www.engemantheater.com for group rates or for further information on the 2012-2013 Main Stage Season Sponsored by North Shore LIJ call 631-261-2900 $5 off ticket price with preferred rate code LIW, for all shows except Saturday nights. code: LIW advertisement ENTERTAINMENT 1 sSafe House: 1:30 and 7pm. Oceanside Library. 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-7662360. oceansidelibrary.com. 5 sClannad: 8pm. NYCB Theatre at Westbury. 960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury. 800-7453000. livenation.com. s4HE7HITE!LBUM 8pm. Tilles Center for the Perfoming Arts. L.I.U. C.W. Post. Brookville. To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Happenings October 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org. New York Ave., Huntington. 631-673-7300. paramountny.com. Arts. L.I.U. C.W. Post. Brookville. 516-2993100. tillescenter.org. 6 s&IONA !PPLE WITH "LAKE -ILLS 8pm. The s!UGUST "URNS 2ED WITH4HE #OLOR -ORALE 10 Paramount. 370 New York Ave., Huntington. AND/VERSEER 8pm. The Paramount. 370 New sThe Armory Show: 2pm. Long Beach Public 631-673-7300. paramountny.com. York Ave., Huntington. 631-673-7300. para- Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516- s2ITA #OOLIDGE 8pm. Patchogue Theater for mountny.com. 432-7201. nassaulibrary.org/longbeach. the Performing Arts. 71 E. Main St., Patchogue. s*ACKIEh4HE*OKE-AN-ARTLINGv 8pm. Pa- s(EART WITH !LEJANDRO %SCOVEDO AND 4HE 631-207-1300. patchoguetheatre.com. tchogue Theater for the Performing Arts. 71 Sensitive Boys: 8pm. The Paramount. 370 s3ANDRA"ERNHARD 8pm. Landmark on Main E. Main St., Patchogue. 631-207-1300. pa- New York Ave., Huntington. 631-673-7300. Street. 232 Main St., Port Washington. 516tchoguetheatre.com. paramountny.com. 767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org. s,EO +OTKE 8pm. The Y Boulton Center 14 for the Performing Arts. 37 W. Main St., Bay 12 s!N!COUSTIC%VENINGWITH-EDESKI-ARTIN sHugo: 1:30pm. Oceanside Library. 30 DaviShore. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org. s,ET)T"E 8pm. Tilles Center for the Perfom- and Wood: 8pm. The Paramount. 370 New son Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansing Arts. L.I.U. C.W. Post. Brookville. 516-299- York Ave., Huntington. 631-673-7300. para- idelibrary.com. Matinee film. mountny.com. s*ORMA+AUKONEN 8pm. The Y Boulton Cen3100. tillescenter.org. s,ONG )SLAND /PERAS 2IGOLETTO 8pm. The s%NGELBERT (UMPERDINCK 8pm. NYCB The- ter for the Performing Arts. 37 W. Main St., Bay Madison Theatre at Molloy College. 1000 atre at Westbury. 960 Brush Hollow Rd., West- Shore. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org. s.ICK,OWE 8pm. Landmark on Main Street. Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre. 516-678- bury. 800-745-3000. livenation.com. s,AURIE !NDERSON 8pm. Adelphi University 232 Main St., Port Washington. 516-7675000 x7715. quinntheatreny.org. sTheresa Caputo: 8pm. NYCB Theatre at Performing Arts Center. 1 South Ave., Garden 6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org. s/RLANDO-ARIN 2pm. Long Beach Public LiWestbury. 960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury. City. 516-877-4000. aupac.adelphi.edu. brary, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432800-745-3000. livenation.com. 13 7201. nassaulibrary.org/longbeach. s!N%VENINGWITH0ATTY,U0ONEAND-ANDY 7 s3HANGHAI 3TRING 1UARTET 8pm. Tilles Cens0UNCH "ROTHERS 8pm. The Paramount. 370 Patinkin: 8pm. Tilles Center for the Perfoming ter for the Perfoming Arts. L.I.U. C.W. Post. Brookville. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org. 15 s3ALMON &ISHING IN9EMEN 1:30 and 7pm. Oceanside Library. 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com. 17 s!USTRALIAN0INK&LOYD 8pm. The Paramount. 370 New York Ave., Huntington. 631-6737300. paramountny.com. 18 s#ELINEAND*ULIE'O"OATING 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre. 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. s7EIRD!L9ANKOVIC 8pm. NYCB Theatre at Westbury. 960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury. 800-745-3000. livenation.com. 19 sAsia: 8pm. NYCB Theatre at Westbury. 960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury. 800-745-3000. livenation.com. s7HOOPI'OLDBERG 8pm. Tilles Center for the Perfoming Arts. L.I.U. C.W. Post. Brookville. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org. Special Appearance: Teresa Giudice From the Real Housewives of New Jersey! The Largest Event for Women on Long Island! SCCC Sports & Exhibition Complex Saturday Oct. 13th: 10am to 8pm Sunday Oct. 14th: 10am to 6pm Exit 53 L.I.E. Fashion Shows! Fitness Demos! Free Makeovers! Wine and Food! Boutique Shopping! Health / Wellness! And Much More... 250 Free Gift Bags Each Day! Admission Only $5.00!! To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] For More Info. Visit LIWomensExpo.com October r-0/(*4-"/%80."/r33 Happenings October SPOTLIGHT s(OME-OVIE$AY 12pm. Cinema Arts Centre. 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. s(ALLOWEEN &RIGHTMARES 10:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre. 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. Double feature movies. s3AY!NYTHING -URDER "Y $EATH4HE 3IDEkicks: 8pm. The Paramount. 370 New York Ave., Huntington. 631-673-7300. paramountny.com. s7ARSAW0HILHARMONIC 8pm. Tilles Center for the Perfoming Arts. L.I.U. C.W. Post. Brookville. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org. 21 An evening with Jennifer Warnes “Her voice is like California weather; filled with sunlight, but there’s an earthquake behind it.” (Leonard Cohen) Multiple Grammy and Oscar award-winning artist Jennifer Warnes has recorded some of the most popular and beautiful songs of her age. Her duets with Joe Cocker, “Up Where We Belong” from An Officer and a Gentlemen, and with Bill Medley “(I’ve Had) The Time of My Life” from Dirty Dancing, are love songs for generations. Her versions of Leonard Cohen songs on her album Famous Blue Raincoat are renowned for inspiring arrangements and stripped-down vocal beauty.This is her only New York area appearance and her first concert on Long Island in decades. When: October 31st at 8pm Where: The Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre. Tickets: Tickets $59, $39: Call 516-678-50000 x7715. www.madisontheatreny.com. advertisement s4HE &ABULAIRES$OO7OP AT )TS "EST 2pm. Oceanside Library. 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com. Tickets required. 23 s%LTON*OHN 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre. 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. sVirtuosos in Classical Music with Phil Malamud: 2pm. Long Beach Public Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432-7201. nassaulibrary.org/longbeach. 6 s4HE0RICEIS2IGHT,IVE3pm. NYCB Theatre at Westbury. 960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury. 800-745-3000. livenation.com. s &ALL 'ARDEN AND (ARVEST &ESTIVAL 10am-4pm. Bayard Cutting Arboretum Horticultural Society. Oakdale. 631-581-1002. nysparks.com. 29 s#ELEBRITY!UTOBIOGRAPHY 8pm. The Madison Theatre at Molloy College. 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre. 516-678-5000 x7715. madisontheatreny.org. 31 sJennifer Warnes: 8pm. The Madison Theatre at Molloy College. 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre. 516-678-5000 x7715. madisontheatreny.org. ONGOING s-ANOF,A-ANCHA October 13th to November 4th. CM Performing Arts Center. 931- Montauk Hwy., Oakdale. 631-218-2810. cmpac. com. sSweet Charity: September 5th through October 28th. John W. Engeman Theater. 250 Main St., Northport. 631-261-2900. engemantheater.com EVENTS 7 sTH !NNUAL 'ALA 1pm. Connetquot River State Park Preserve. Sunrise Hwy., Oakdale. 631-581-1072. friendsofconnetquot.org. This year’s theme will be an old fashion country fair celebration. s&ALL'ARDENAND(ARVEST&ESTIVAL See October 6th. 8 s&ALL'ARDENAND(ARVEST&ESTIVAL See October 6th. s2IBBON 7EAVING ON #ANVAS 7-10pm. Plainview-Old Bethpage Library. 999 Old Country Rd., Plainview. 516-931-7768. Demonstrated by Sally Shore. 9 s"OOK $ISCUSSION 2pm. Oceanside Library. 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com. Fran Cohen leads the book discussion about a photojournalist covering the Vietnam War. s353()4HE 'LOBAL #ATCH 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre. 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. The documentary SUSHI: The Global Catch looks at the environmental consequences of the food’s growing popularity. 25 1 s)NDIGO'IRLS 8pm. The Paramount. 370 New York Ave., Huntington. 631-673-7300. paramountny.com. s"IRDINGTHE-ANU 7:15am. Quogue Wildlife Refuge. 3 Old Country Rd., Quogue. 631-2816001. easternlongislandaudubonsociety.org. 26 2 sAl Green: 8pm. NYCB Theatre at Westbury. 960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury. 800-7453000. livenation.com. s4HE,IVERPOOL3HUFFLE 8pm. Dix Hills Performing Arts Center. 305 North Service Rd., Dix Hills. 631-656-2148. dhpac.org. s4HE 2EAL $EAL /N 2ELATIONSHIPS (OW TO -AKE 3URE9OURE A (APPY4WOSOME 2pm. Long Beach Public Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432-7201. nassaulibrary. org/longbeach. With Dr. Karen Sherman. 10 27 3 s#REATIVE7RITING7ORKSHOP 7pm. Rockville Centre Public Library. 221 N. Village Ave., Rockville Centre. 516-766-6257. rcvpl.org. s(ANDS/N #OMPUTER #LASS 6:30-8:30pm. Oceanside Library. 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com. Registration required. Introduction to Microsoft Excel 2010. s5NITED3TATES3UBMARINES4HENAND.OW 2pm. Long Beach Public Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432-7201. nassaulibrary.org/longbeach. The PowerPoint presentation will be presented by Captain Everett Rosenblum. 11 s"LUE /YSTER #ULT 8pm. Landmark on Main s4HE,ASTOFTHE(AUSSMANS 7:30pm. Cinema Street. 232 Main St., Port Washington. 516Arts Centre. 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631- 767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org. s#OLIN 1UINN 8pm. Staller Center at Stony 423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. Brook University. Stony Brook. 631-632-ARTS. stallercenter.com 20 s"UIKA 8pm. Staller Center at Stony Brook s*ANIS)AN 8pm. The Y Boulton Center for the University. Stony Brook. 631-632-ARTS. stall- Performing Arts. 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org. ercenter.com s$OO7OP 0ROJECT 8pm. Landmark on Main s+ELLI/(ARAAND.ATHAN'UNN'ALA Street. 232 Main St., Port Washington. 516- 8pm. Tilles Center for the Perfoming Arts. L.I.U. C.W. Post. Brookville. 516-299-3100. tillescen767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org. s&RANK3INATRAAND&RIENDS 2pm. Long Beach ter.org. Public Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. s-ELISSA %THERIDGE 8pm. NYCB Theatre at Westbury. 960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury. 516-432-7201. nassaulibrary.org/longbeach. s(ERMANS(ERMITSWITH0ETER.OONE4OMMY 800-745-3000. livenation.com. *ONES AND THE 3HONDELLS4HE "UCKINGHAMS s/UT AT THE -OVIES 7:30pm. Cinema Arts 'ARY,EWISTHE0LAYBOYS8pm. NYCB The- Centre. 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423atre at Westbury. 960 Brush Hollow Rd., West- 7611. cinemaartscentre.org. bury. 800-745-3000. livenation.com. 34r-0/(*4-"/%80."/rOctober 2012 28 s&REE ,EGAL #ONSULTATION #LINIC FOR 3ENIORS 9:30-11am. Nassau County Bar Association. 15th and West Streets, Mineola. 516-747-4070. [email protected]. Registration required. s&REE "LOOD 0RESSURE 4EST 12-2pm. Long Beach Public Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432-7201. nassaulibrary.org/ longbeach. sSyosset Camera Club: 7:30-10pm. Community Center in Hypath Park. Old Bethpage. 516-528-0421. syossetcc.org. Photography competition. 12 s!.ATION)N$EBT 2pm. Long Beach Public Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516432-7201. nassaulibrary.org/longbeach. sCelebrate Poetry: 7pm. Oceanside Library. 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. 5 oceansidelibrary.com. With featured writer, s)MMIGRATION)N!MERICA(OWDO7E&IXA Tony Iovino. 3YSTEM)N#RISIS 2pm. Long Beach Public Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432- 13 7201. nassaulibrary.org/longbeach. s$0UMPKIN#ARVING$EMO Hicks Nurseries. 100 Jericho Tpke., Westbury. 516-334-0066. To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] Happenings WIN NER! October hicksnurseries.com. s&ALL$AHLIA3HOW 1-4pm. Carriage House at Bayard Cutting Arboretum on Montauk Highway in East Islip. 516-832-3652. longislanddahlia.com. s,ONG )SLAND 7OMENS %XPO 10am-8pm. SCCC Sports and Exhibition Complex. Michael J. Grant Campus. Brentwood. 855-414.0444. liwomensexpo.com. 2 day women’s lifestyle event featuring the latest fashion, food, fitness, cosmetics, wellness, travel, family, home, health and more. 14 sTH!NNUAL,ONG)SLAND"UDDY7ALK 10am3pm. Tanner Park in Copiague. alexandersangels.org. 516-361-7263. Help raise awareness and funds for Down syndrome. s#LEARY3CHOOLFORTHE$EAFRD!NNUAL#RAFT &AIR 10am-4pm. Cleary School for the Deaf. 301 Smithtown Blvd., Nesconset. 631-7371492. clearyschool.org. s,ONG)SLAND7OMENS%XPO 10am-6pm. See Oct 13th. s0HOTO%XHIBIT 10am-4pm. Carriage House at Bayard Cutting Arboretum on Montauk Highway in East Islip. 516-832-3652. longislanddahlia.com. 15 MUST SEE 19 s!MERICAS 2OLE IN THE 7ORLD 2pm. Long Beach Public Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432-7201. nassaulibrary.org/ longbeach. 20 s$UNE 2OAD 3HINECOCK TO -ORICHES )Nlet: 8am. Shinecock Inlet. 631-281-6001. [email protected]. 21 s0OETRY %VENT 3pm. Molloy College. 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre. 516-6785000 xt. 6272/6468. molloy.edu. 22 16 23 s#ELEBRATING "IRDING ON ,ONG )SLAND 6pm. Casa Basso in Westhampton. 631-727-0417. easternlongislandaudubonsociety.org. s#REATIVE7RITING7ORKSHOP 7pm. Oceanside Library. 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-7662360. oceansidelibrary.com. s(ISTORY ,ECTURE 7pm. Oceanside Library. 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com. Long Island Rail Road: 178 Years Young. WHY YOU s(OW$ID9OU'ETTHAT3HOT 7:30pm. Connetquote State Park and Preserve, Sunrise Hwy., Oakdale. 631-563-7716. gsbas.org. Grace Scalzo will share her approach to bird and wildlife photography and describe the equipment she uses to create her images. sSyosset Camera Club: 7:30-10pm. Community Center in Hypath Park. Old Bethpage. 516-528-0421. syossetcc.org. Lightroom Workflow by Alan Agdern. s!NTIQUE *EWELRY $ISCUSSION 2pm. Long Beach Public Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432-7201. nassaulibrary.org/ longbeach. 17 7 REASONS 18 s%NVIRONMENTAL"OOK#LUB 7-8:30pm. Cold Spring Harbor Library. 95 Harbor Rd., Cold Spring Harbor. Book discussion on Mark Kurlansky’s The Big Oyster: History of the Half Shell. s!RT,ECTURE 2pm. Oceanside Library. 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com. Lecturer, Mary Vahey presents The Barnes Collection. s&REE #OMPUTER #LASS 10am-12pm. Long Beach Public Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432-7201. nassaulibrary.org/ longbeach. s3TARGAZERS 8:30pm. Old Westbury Gardens. 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org. Bring your flashlights for an evening stroll through the gardens. sTechnology Training: 6:30-8:30pm. Oceanside Library. 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com. Demo-All about your iPad. 5 TONY AWARDS ® s!FFORDABLE #ARE !CT )NFORMATION 3ESSION 7-9pm. Cinema Arts Centre. 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. Keynote speaker: Mary Dewar. s&REE#OMPUTER#LASS See Oct 16th. 1. 4. 5. 26 s2EGAINING!MERICAN0ROSPERITY 2pm. Long Beach Public Library, 11 W. Park Ave., Long Beach. 516-432-7201. nassaulibrary.org/ longbeach. 27 MORE PIRATES 3. 5 TORNDYS AWA It’s got than any show . on Broadway It’s won 25 s0RESIDENTIAL0OWER 12:30pm. East Meadow Library. 1889 Front St., East Meadow. 516-7942570. Lecture with Dr. Frank M. Sorrentino. sSyosset Camera Club: 7:30-10pm. Community Center in Hypath Park. Old Bethpage. 516-528-0421. syossetcc.org. Photography critique and special photography information session. 2. “ABSURDLY FUNNY!” 24 s0LASTIC 3URGERY 3EMINAR 5-6pm. 516-7734646. Minimally invasive facial plastic surgery and non-surgical treatments. Entertainment Weekly says it’s It’s an il legitimat e love chil d of MONTY PYTHON and Pet er Pan. ® . If you don’t, THIS MERMAID will take her top off. 6. ntioned it’s Have we me ABSURDLY FUNNY? 7. You’ll love it MORE THAN BREAD . TICKETMASTER.COM t 877-250-2929 BROOKS ATKINSON THEATRE, 256 W. 47 ST. WWW.PETERANDTHESTARCATCHER.COM s#RAFTAND'IFT&AIRJoseph A. Edgar School. To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or [email protected] October r-0/(*4-"/%80."/r35 5 Happenings October Route 25A in Rocky Point. 631-846-1459. depasqualeshows.com. Sponsored by the Rocky Point Athletic Booster Club. 28 sChinese Auction: 6-10pm. Island Hills Country Club. Lakeland Ave., Sayville. 631-2180315. ovationsdance.com. All proceeds benefit Ovations Dance Repertory Company, a nonprofit youth organization. 30 s(ISTORY ,ECTURE 2pm. Oceanside Library. 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com. Electing the President. sTechnology Training: 6:30-8:30pm. Oceanside Library. 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 516766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com. Demonstration of downloading eBooks and Audiobooks. ONGOING s!DULT#ONNECTIONS7:30pm, Thursdays. Friedberg JCC. 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. 516-766-4341 x111. friedbergjcc.org. $7 dues per month. Additional fees apply occasionally for theme dinners. s4HE !LEF "ET OF "EING A -ENSCH Sundays 1-4pm. Suffolk Y JCC, Alan and Helene Rosenberg Discovery Museum. 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack. 631-462-9800 xt. 140. suffolkyjcc.org s"OOK ,OVERS "ONANZA 1:30-5pm, on the first Wednesday of each month. Extended hours until 8pm on the first Wednesday of each month. Library Wing on Merrick and Kirkwood Avenues. 516-379-6434. s#ONNECTIONS 7-8:15pm, second and fourth Wednesdays. Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack. 631-462-9800 x139. syjcc. org. Widow and widowers group for ages 50 and up. $9. s#URRENT %VENTS #LUB 11:30am, Mondays. Friedberg JCC. 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. Contact Debbie Rosen 516-634-4169. friedbergjcc.org. Breakfast with facilitator, Matt Shalette, in a discussion highlighting world, national, local news and the week’s hot topic. MFW Consultants to Professionals s&RIENDSHIP #IRCLE 12:30-3pm. 1st and 3rd Thursdays of the month. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516-822-3535 x335. miyjcc.org. Ages 60 and up. $6. s'IVE"ACK3UNDAYS Once a month ZwangerPesiri Radiology provides free radiological exams (MRI, CT SCAN, X-ray, Mammography, etc.) for uninsured Nassau and Suffolk County residents. For more information, upcoming dates, and phone numbers, visit ZPgivebacksundays.org. s*APANESE#LASSICAL$ANCE: 5-7:30pm. Tuesdays. Long Island Japanese Culture Center. 5 Linden Pl., Glen Head. 917-226-1195. takahashi. [email protected]. Learn to wear kimono and dance with a fan in the elegant Soke Fujima style. Beginners of all ages. For free trial lesson, contact the instructor. s.IGHT 3KY /BSERVING 3ESSIONS 7pm-midnight, Saturdays. Custer Institute and Observatory, 1115 Main Bayview Rd., Southold. 631-765-2626. CusterObservatory.org. Guided tours of the night sky through powerful telescopes. Weather permitting. Suggested donation $5. s2!$)3( (Reserve a Day for Interesting Social Happenings): 11:30am-1:30pm, Tuesdays, Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516-822-3535 x335. miyjcc.org. Ages 60 and up. $6. s2!02ETIREES!CTIVITY0ROGRAM: 12:30-3pm, 2nd and 4th Thursdays of the month. Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516-8223535 x335. miyjcc.org. Ages 55 and up. $6. s2%!#( 2ECREATIONAL %DUCATIONAL !RTISTIC #ULTURAL (APPENINGS 10:30am-noon, Tuesdays. Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Drive, East Hills. 516-484-1545 x134. sjjcc.org. Ages 60 and up. $10. s4HE2ISEOF*ACK/,ANTERNS Through October. Old Westbury Gardens. 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. 516-333-0048. therise.org. Sculptors and artists will be creating unique style Jack O’Lanterns for this event. s3CREENWRITERS $ISCUSSION 'ROUP 7:30pm. Every other Monday. Cinema Arts Centre Sky Room. 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-4237611. cinemaartscentre.org. s3INGLES#HAT#HEW 7:45-9:30pm, Wednesdays. Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack. 631-462-9800 x139. syjcc.org. Group for all singles facilitated by a certified social worker. Refreshments served. $9. s3OCIABLE 3INGLES 3-5pm, first and third Thursdays. Suffolk Y JCC, 74 Hauppauge Rd., Commack. 631-462-9800 x121. syjcc.org. Group for active, single seniors ages 60 and up. $4. Registration required. s3OPHISTICATED 3INGLES 7:30-9:30pm, Mondays. Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct., Oceanside. 516-766-4341 x133. friedbergjcc.org. Singles ages 40 and up meet weekly; facilitated by Irwin Pfeffer. $8. s7EDNESDAY #LUB 10:30am-1:30pm, Mid-Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview. 516822-3535 x335. miyjcc.org. Ages 70 and up. $6. s9OUNG .ATURALISTS #LUB 1-3pm. Meets the 1st of every month. Brookside County Park. 59 Brook St., Sayville. 631-581-1731. gsbas.org. This club focuses on creating interest in the natural world around us and becoming stewards of a natural area. PATRICIA BONO North Fork Access Your Own Innate Wisdom ANIMAL COMMUNICATOR PSYCHIC Personal Coaching supports you as you explore where you are now, determine where you want to be; and create a pathway to get there; all while being supported in a non-judgmental manner. My method offers a blend of Eastern philosophy and energetic healing anchored in a conventional coaching structure. Gain insight into the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual aspects of your animal friends Phyllis Quinlan, RN, PhD MFWCONSULTANTS GMAILCOMs718-661-4981 www.mfwconsultants.com linkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/phyllisquinlan 36r-0/(*4-"/%80."/rOctober 2012 516-922-7574 [email protected] www.patriciabono.com EXHIBITS 7 s,ONG )SLAND "IENNIAL 3CREENING 7:30pm. Cinema Arts Centre. 423 Park Ave., Huntington. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. Screening of the finalists’ films in a juried exhibition of Long Island filmmakers. ONGOING s&AMILY3UNDAYATTHE-USEUM 1pm, Sundays through November 4th. One Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum. org. Docent-led family walk-through of the exhibition and, beginning at 1:30 pm, supervised art activities for the whole family. Special family Wine Tours Professional group tours tailored to your specific needs including: Winery Tours Girlfriend Getaways Bachelorette Parties guides of the main exhibition are available in the galleries. Museum admission required. s*ULIE 4REMBLAY3YDNEY #HASTAIN#HAPMAN Through November 4th. One Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum. org. Part of the contemporary collectors gallery. s-ARC #HAGALL Through November 4th. One Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. exhibition of Chagall’s work, more extensive than any other previously seen in this area, and including paintings being shown to the Long Island public for the first time. s.#-!S 3CULPTURE 0ARK Nassau County Museum of Art, One Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. More than 50 works by renowned artists set amidst the 145-acre property. s.#-!S7ALKING4RAILS AND 'ARDENS Nassau County Museum of Art, One Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum. org. The museum’s 145 acres include many marked nature trails through the woods. Experience the many lush examples of horticultural arts. 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