Bulletin The Ss Peter & Paul Catholic Community Newsletter November 9, 2014 Feast of the Dedication of the Lateran Basilica in Rome 404 Hudson Street, Hoboken, NJ 07030 201.659.2276 www.spphoboken.com bit.ly/spphoboken spphoboken @spphoboken Vision Parish Office Hours SUNDAY READINGS To grow the Catholic Community of Ss Peter and Paul in faith, Monday Thursday hope, and love. Friday Saturday – Sunday Mission Ss Peter and Paul strives to be an inviting Catholic community, Church Hours inspired by Jesus Christ, where we grow a rich sacramental life through prayerful worship and service to our neighbors with one Sunday Friday Saturday another. Pastoral Team PASTOR Stephanie Panzariello, BS [email protected] PARISH SECRETARY PASTORAL ASSOCIATE FOR ADMINISTRATION Karen Imbach, BA [email protected] Valerie Sorge, BA [email protected] FRONT DESK / RECEPTIONIST Karen Barisonek, MBA [email protected] BOOKKEEPER Sr Joann Marie Aumand, SCC, MA RCIA / FAITH FORMATION [email protected] PASTORAL ASSOCIATE DIRECTOR OF EVANGELIZATION DIRECTOR OF DEVELOPMENT & STEWARDSHIP Louis Scarpa, MA [email protected] Matthew S Still, BA DIRECTOR OF MUSIC MINISTRIES [email protected] DIRECTOR OF MARKETING & COMMUNICATIONS Max Colas, MSc [email protected] PUBLIC RELATIONS ASSOCIATE Matthew Fantau [email protected] Drew Stuart, MA BENEDICT XVI HOUSE INTERN [email protected] Ed Yruma Ezekiel 47:1–2, 8–9, 12 The prophet describes a vision of a great temple from which water flowed out from many sides. An angel speaks, asserting that “every sort of living creature,” plant and animal, shall live by this river. 7:30 AM – 7 PM 9 AM – 7 PM 1 Corinthians 3:9–11, 16–17 Paul names his fellow disciples temples of God, “God’s building.” Our bodies and persons are holy, laid upon the foundation of Jesus Christ. Sunday Masses Msgr Robert S Meyer, Esq [email protected] Susan Francesconi, BA [email protected] 10 AM – 7 PM 10 AM – 5 PM Closed CHAIR OF THE FINANCE COUNCIL Greg McDonald Katie Riley Geoffrey Scheer CANTORS Rose Perry Don Meyer TRUSTEES The Waterfront Project, inc Vigil (Saturday) Sunday 5.30 PM (No music) 8 AM (Family Mass) 9 AM 10.30 AM 12 Noon 7 PM Daily Liturgies Monday Communion Service 12:10 PM Mass intentions originally scheduled for Monday will be rescheduled for the following Friday Tuesday Friday Mass 12:10 PM Holy Hour Eucharistic Adoration First Thursday of the Month 11 AM to 12 Noon Sacrament of Reconciliation Saturdays 5:00 PM sharp Ministry for the Sick If you are aware of any parishioners who no longer can come to Church and would like to receive Communion and a visit from someone at our Parish please call the Parish Office. Prayer Intentions of the Holy Father for November A 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization providing legal assistance to General intention: Lonely people. That all who suffer loneliness may experience the disadvantaged individuals. closeness of God and the support of others. Elizabeth F Caraballo, Esq FOUNDING DIRECTOR Missionary intention: Mentors of seminarians and religious. That young seminarwww.thewaterfrontproject.org Tel: 201.308.3986 ians and religious may have wise and wellformed mentors. Hoboken Catholic Academy Our Cover Proud co-sponsor of Hoboken Catholic Academy 555 7th Street, Hoboken, NJ 201.963.9535 Matthew McGrath, MA, MEd www.hobokencatholic.org PRINCIPAL This week our cover is Driving of the merchants from the temple by Scarsellino. It describes this Sunday's Gospel. John 2:13–22 Jesus goes to the Temple and drives out the money-changers, knocking over their tables and calling it a marketplace. He said, “Destroy this temple and in three days I will raise it up.” Weekday readings Monday St Leo the Great Titus 1:1–9 / PS 24:1B-2, 3-4AB, 5-6 / Luke 17:1–6 Tuesday St Martin of Tours Titus 2:1–8, 11–14 / PS 37:3-4, 18 AND 23, 27 AND 29 / Luke 17:7–10 Wednesday St Josaphat Titus 3:1–7 / PS 23:1B-3A, 3BC-4, 5, 6 / Luke 17:11–19 Thursday St Frances Xavier Cabrini Philemon 7–20 / PS 146:7, 8-9A, 9BC-10 / Luke 17:20–25 Friday 2 John 4–9 / PS 119:1, 2, 10, 11, 17, 18 / Luke 17:26–37 Saturday St Albert the Great 3 John 5–8 / PS 112:1-2, 3-4, 5-6 / Luke 18:1–8 This week's Mass Intentions Saturday, November 8 5:30 pm † Joseph Mongan Sunday, November 9 8:00 am Louis P. Gargiulo, Jr 9:00 am Rosa Montalvo and Rafael Roman 10:30 am † Deceased Members of the Rosary Society 12:00 pm † Dorothy and Patrick Mazzeo 7:00 pm † Fr Francis Hennessey Tuesday, November 11 12:10 pm † Joseph Stellato Wednesday, November 12 12:10 pm In Thanksgiving Thursday, November 13 12:10 pm † Lillian E. Zalewski Friday, November 14 12:10 pm Gene Pelicano Saturday, November 15 5:30 pm Albert Guamer Sunday, November 16 8:00 am 9:00 am 10:30 am 12:00 pm 7:00 pm † James Calandriello † Cher Horning † Jack Raslowsky † Myrna Iris Zelaya Quesada † Margaret Peltin The Bulletin – Contact: [email protected] – Please consider advertising on the back of the bulletin to help us maintain this free publication. For more information please contact J.S. Paluch Cp, Inc. at 1-800.524.0263 and reference bulletin 790250. Please also patronize our sponsors and let them know you saw their ad in The Bulletin. Thank you! Got photos of SPP events? Share them with us on Facebook or Instagram! You can also email them to [email protected] from your Camera Roll and choose "Full Size". Dying ... and Rising By Msgr Robert S MEYER Pastor It is with great interest, and a certain bit of sadness that I read New York Archbishop, Cardinal Timothy Dolan’s column this week entitled, Dying and Rising. In it he announces that as a result of careful study, planning and forward thinking, Making All Things New, their strategic pastoral planning document, notes that about 14% of their parishes will undergo a “purgatory,” with decisions to merge with their welcoming neighbors. Cardinal Dolan understands that some people will be sad, upset, critical, and even angry. Further he says that loyal Catholic people love their parishes, and consider them their spiritual home. To see them changed or merged, even with next door parishes, will be very difficult. The Cardinal wrote that at 368, the New York Archdiocese simply has too many parishes, in areas that used to have huge Catholic numbers, where most of the people have since moved away. In Manhattan alone, for instance, there are 88 parishes, some only blocks apart. More pointedly, the Cardinal says that we must be good stewards of our financial resources. God’s people want their offerings spent on schools, charities, outreach, elders, religious education, the poor, the immigrant, pastoral services, or expanding parishes that are jammed. By merging Parish Calendar Sunday, November 9 9 AM Breaking Open the Word 10 AM Faith Formation — Family Assembly Monday, November 10 4:15 PM Jr Girl Scouts 12881 / Daisy 12006 Tuesday November 11 3:30 PM Jr Girl Scout 12236 5:30 PM ACOA Meeting 7:30 PM Baptism Prep Class Wednesday November 12 7 PM Momnipotent Program 7:30 PM Choir rehearsal Thursday November 13 9:30 AM Theology Thursday (at St Lawrence Community Center, 22 Hackensack Avenue, Weehawken) Friday, November 14 5:30 PM Brownies: Troop 12023 Saturday, November 15 Collection: Black & Indian Catholic Relief Services 5:00 PM Confessions Sunday, November 16 Collection: Black & Indian Catholic Relief Services 9 AM Faith Formation / Family Mass 10 AM Welcome Sunday parishes, he notes that they will make better use of human and financial resources. He says what we’re talking about is realism. Families do it, our schools have done it, corporations do it—now our parishes must do it: we merge in the areas where the population has shrunk, and build and expand—both plants and ministries—in areas where the Catholic numbers are bustling. Cardinal Dolan gives us good food for thought. In our Archdiocese, I have no doubt that these hard decisions are also on the horizon. The best way to preserve our parish is by registering, attending, support and evangelizing, that is, getting others to do the same. His column ends with insights from three Popes: Pope St John Paul II called us to the new evangelization: we cannot, he told us, be so exhausted by the maintenance of our parishes and institutions that we have no energy left for the mission! Pope Benedict reminded us that the vine must be pruned if it is to grow and produce fruit. Pope Francis exhorts us not to be only about buildings and structures, but about outreach, love, service. Amen! Theology Thursday All are invited to attend a New Program that is beginning in November. Our new spirituality program is called “Theology Thursday”. Beginning November 6, immediately following the 9:30 Liturgy at St Lawrence you are invited to attend our “Theology Thursday” program. Susan Francesconi and Sr Joann Marie will take turns leading the sessions. “Theology Thursday” will consists of two themes: Susan will facilitate a study about The Gospel of Mark, as this is the Gospel that will be read on Sundays during this coming Liturgical year. It is easy to claim that you cannot Sr Joann Marie will consider A Look at the Saints. During these sessions various Saints in the Church will be discussed and talked about. others to follow. While the early “Theology Thursday” will take place at the St Lawrence Community Center on Thursdays after the 9:30 Liturgy — until 11 AM and is open t parishioners from St Lawrence and Ss Peter and Paul. Church grew rapidly as people make enough of a difference to change the world, but think about this: Your actions send a message to the people around you. People support each other in attempts to make positive changes, which in turn creates the momentum for Christians were initially a small group of Jesus’ disciples, the saw how they lived the gospel message. This, in turn, led to the transformation of an empire. The Lateran Basilica Our Home, Our Church By Daniel J FINUCANE, PhD By Susan HINES-BRIGGER Managing Editor, St Anthony Messenger magazine Like other churches, the Basilica of St John Lateran in Rome is built on the foundations—physical, historical, emotional and spiritual—of an earlier building. The Emperor Constantine commissioned the original church in the fourth century. Today, this church is the pope’s home parish. We’re used to seeing him address the entire world from St Peter’s. But the Roman Pontifical Cathedral, the pope’s home base as bishop of Rome, is St John Lateran. Pope Martin V is entombed in front of the main altar. Martin was elected to end the Great Western Schism. After a stay of about seventy years in Avignon, France, the papacy returned to Rome, to what was then (generously speaking) a backwater town. A lot of ruins. Not everyone in the Church’s power structure was happy with the move back. The late fourteenth and early fifteenth centuries saw first two, then three men claim to be pope. The Council of Constance resolved the dilemma and elected Pope Martin. St John Lateran speaks power. The nave is flanked by statues of the apostles that are more than twice a normal person’s height. The architecture expresses strength in stone, grandeur, and magnificent art. I’ve taken photographs of the building. They don’t capture the size of the place, but I can still feel it in my bones. In the nave I sensed the deep desire to speak of permanence and stability. But I felt keenly, too, the sense that stones can be pulled down and stained glass broken. Powerful buildings can say only so much. And then my wife and I received the Eucharist at the Lateran Basilica. That reality helps me keep the place in perspective. When my husband, Mark, and I got married, we spent a good deal of time choosing and registering for things to fill our new home. Fourteen years and three kids later, many of those things that we just had to have at the time have been discarded, broken, or packed away. The items that remain are ones that reflect our family, our interests, and even our faith. I’m not surprised by the way our home has taken shape. When someone walked into our home when I was growing up, there was no mistaking that my family was Catholic. For example, each of my sisters and I had small holy water fonts fastened to the walls of our bedrooms. On important days, such as for tests, a candle was lit in front of the Blessed Mother statue in our living room. These outward expressions of faith— or sacramentals—were as much a part of my faith formation as my sixteen years of Catholic education. In fact, most of what I carried with me into adulthood are the aspects of faith that my parents taught us as Passing on the Faith… Young Catholic Adults? Fr Linh Hoang, OFM, PhD A host of studies on young adults stress that church attendance is not important. This is probably not surprising news. A recent book Young Catholic America (2014) follows this claim with data and personal interviews. In fact, it insists that the future of the Church looks pretty bleak, especially if we rely on the current crop of young people. The book is a continuation of the National Study on Youth and Religion that began in 2002 when many of the young people in this survey were in their early teens—now they are in their twenties—and the majority claims that church has definitely fallen off their radar. By the number,on the one end of the spectrum,only 7 percent call themselves practicing Catholics—if practicing is defined as attending Mass weekly and saying faith is extremely important. On the other end, 27 percent are disengaged which means they never attend Mass and feel religion is unimportant. Bleak numbers, indeed. The author Christian Smith, a sociologist from Notre Dame University along with several colleagues, tracked these young people as they transitioned into adulthood. They label them as “emerging adults” because they do not fit neatly into the traditional category of adulthood. The labeling can be debated but what is important is the followup interviews with these emerging adults. For the emerging adults, church seems associated primarily with morals and obligations rather than anything that sounds like Jesus and the Gospel. A more depressing statement, “it’s just easier not to follow a religion, is what is comes down to.” The authors’ sense is that this is a generation largely lost to what older adults think of as Catholic identity. If you have not followed the discussions on young adults and religion, this may be a good book to start because this downward trend is nothing new: Mass attendance and other measures of involvement and allegiance among young adults have been at low levels since the 1960s. They state that the church in the United States did not appear unified nor provide strong leadership which some may argue continues today. But throwing blame to the hierarchy is too simplistic. There are many complex issues and social changes that the Church did not or could not handle which compromised peoples’ commitment. But if it is leadership, this may be a reason so much attention is given to Pope Francis. Some may say he will call people back, others have their doubts, but nevertheless, he has provided means to address some of these complex human concerns. I am drawing your attention to book also in light of the closings of the 50 plus parishes in the Archdiocese of New York. The current problem is not only part of the leadership but everyone involved from the local priests to the occasional parishioner because everyone has contributed to these ultimate closures. Thus, if we do not want to see this happening in the Archdiocese of Newark, then we should inform ourselves as well as continue to participate and encourage others to come and join us in sharing the faith. Finally, a few things that kept emerging adults as well as seasoned adults in the church was their parents example and other peoples’ encouragement, especially those who invited them to come back. It is that personal invitation which endures. This is passing on the faith. ABOUT THE BOOK... we were growing up. Now my husband and I are following in my parents’ footsteps. Currently in our living room, a palm from last year’s Palm Sunday Mass peeks out from behind a frame on the wall. Each of our children’s bedrooms displays a crucifix and a statue of Saint Francis. A plaque of the “Bee-Attitudes” hangs in my oldest daughter’s bedroom, and the Ten Commandments are prominently displayed in our hall. Placing these sacramentals throughout our home has made them a part of our everyday lives. And if I’ve learned one thing as a parent, it’s that most of what our children learn comes from their surroundings. Now if anyone were to ask me what parish I belong to, I would immediately give the name of our local parish. But the truth is, I also belong to a much smaller, more intimate church whose only other members are Mark and our three children. That church is our home, and it is where a lot of our family’s faith formation takes place. What are your everyday sacramentals, the things your family turns to for comfort, guidance, or inspiration? It is important to remember that things don’t necessarily have to be distinctly Young Catholic America, the latest book based on the groundbreaking National Study of Youth and Religion, explores a crucial stage in the life of Catholics. Drawing on in-depth surveys and interviews of Catholics and ex-Catholics ages 18 to 23 — a demographic commonly known as early “emerging adulthood” — leading sociologist Christian Smith and his colleagues offer a wealth of insight into the wide variety of religious practices and beliefs among young Catholics today, the early influences and life-altering events that lead them to embrace the Church or abandon it, and how being Catholic affects them as they become full-fledged adults. Beyond its rich collection of statistical data, the book includes vivid case studies of individuals spanning a full decade, as well as insight into the twentieth-century events that helped to shape the Church and its members in America. smile.amazon.com/dp/0199341079 religious to hold religious importance for your family. For instance, on the wall going down our staircase hang pictures of generations of fam- Saint John’s Open House The Staten Island Campus Open House will be held on Saturday, November 22nd from 10 AM – 3 PM, and will provide students and their families the opportunity to learn more about St John’s University, our Vincentian heritage, the ben- efits of a Catholic university education, our prestigious academic programs, international service learning opportunities, and more. For more information, go to http://www.stjohns.edu/ about/events/Open-House Finding Balance in our Lives Retreat Join us in seeking the wisdom of St Benedict as a guide to finding balance in our lives. Men and women are invited to a retreat day “Finding Balance in Your Lives” November 15, 9 AM – 3PM at Benedictine Center, Elizabeth. $35 lunch included. The retreat is open to women for the weekend November 14-16. ($135 weekend – women only) Registration required. Call 908-353-3028 or email [email protected]. ily members. To some, it may be just a family photo gallery. To us, it is our very own communion of saints. In my family, cooking is a big deal. Recipes are passed down from generation to generation. My husband’s grandmother died recently, and when the family came back to our house after the funeral, I served the cake that she had made for so many family celebrations throughout the years. One of our family’s All Souls’ Day traditions is to cook recipes from friends and family who have passed away. Through food and stories, we nourish ourselves physically and spiritually and recall loved ones who have passed away. As families, we spend the majority of our time in our homes. So it makes sense that this is where a good deal of our learning and formation takes place. Sometimes, in the midst of our busy lives, we fail to recognize the sacred that surrounds us on a daily basis. Sometimes, all we need to do is appreciate what’s already going on around us. Take some time to stop and take in those little everyday encounters of grace. It’s those things that truly make a home Catholic. RCIA Rite of Acceptance The Global Christian Forum By Sr joann Marie Aumand, SCC On Sunday, November 23 we celebrate The Rite of Acceptance for those candidates in our RCIA this year. These candidates are declaring their intention to become members of our Catholic Faith. This means that the candidates who have been inquiring about the Catholic faith in the previous few months will now enter into a more intense time of religious formation. This phase will focus on the Word of God, Worship, Community and Apostolic witness and service. Through this period of formation the candidates, who are preparing to be Baptized will now be called catechumens. These candidates have made a commitment to come every Sunday morning for 2 1/2 hours to learn about our Catholic faith so that by the end of the 2 year process they too, will be ready for Baptism and will become full members in the larger Catholic Community. Those preparing for Baptism are: Jennifer Choi g Louis Long g Julie Yeagley g Vanvian Hoo g Sean O’Neil We welcome the following 4 candidates, who have already been Baptized, and who are continuing their journey to become full members in the Catholic Church: Gregory Lane g Yunjo Lee g Sabrina Pasini g Kevin Nixon We ask you, our parishioners, as already committed and practicing Catholics to support these candidates on their journey and pray for them as they respond to the call of God in their life. Saints Peter and Paul presents a Wine Tasting Class with Susan Hesleitner Owner of the New Jersey Wine School November 20 7-9 PM Food provided for pairing Donation: $25 100% of proceeds donated to Saints Peter & Paul Church Open to the public Participants must be 21 or over 404 Hudson Street, Hoboken Registration: spphoboken.com/wine STEWARDSHIP Using Envelopes to Support Ss Peter and Paul? We are very appreciative of your support! We recently sent a letter to all envelope users suggesting a migration to giving to SPP electronically via FaithDirect. Please consider joining the over 300 parishioners who choose to donate electronically. Here are 4 benefits to FaithDirect: Convenience — Online giving allows people to give whenever they want, regularly and wherever they are. Sign-up once and your giving to SPP is set! Join the Reverend Wesley Granberg-Michaelson (pictured above) on Thursday, November 13, 2014, at 4:30 pm in the Chancellor’s Suite, Bishop Dougherty Student Center at Seton Hall University (400 S Orange Ave, South Orange for a lecture on The Global Christian Forum: a new ecumenical development for the 21st century, presented by the Department of Catholic Studies, Seton Hall University, in cooperation with the Commission on Christian Unity of the Archdiocese of Newark. The Global Christian Forum (GCF) was conceived fifteen years ago, to bridge this gap by finding ways of bringing mainline Christian churches and growing numbers of Pentecostals and Evangelicals into contact with each other. The GCF is supported by the Vatican Pontifical Council for Promoting Christian Unity, the World Council of Churches, the Orthodox churches and many others. Increasingly the Pentecostal and Evangelical organizations are supporting it as well. For more information, see spphoboken.com/lk/21 WINE CLASS AT SPP Learn the Basics and Enjoy a Taste! Understanding wines is a fun, informative and fascinating journey. Take the first step with an introductory wine class and tasting with Susan Hesleitner, founder of The New Jersey School on November 20th, 7 pm at Waterfront Hall, Ss Peter and Paul Church. Learn the basics about wine, food pairing, wine ratings, how to choose a wine, the seven noble grapes, and what makes them taste different around the world. You will taste six wines and learn how to write a tasting note. "Enjoy delicious "palate teasers" from The Hoboken Gourmet Company. Sign-up today at spphoboken.com/wine Class fee is only $25. You can also send a check payable to Ss Peter and Paul to 408 Hudson Street, Hoboken, NJ 07030. Contact Louis Scarpa, Development Director at 201659-2276 x306 or email ddevelopmentspp@gmail. com for more information. This is a great event to attend with friends and makes a wonderful gift. Cheers! It’s safer than checks or cash —It’s more secure than giving by cash or check, both of which can get lost, stolen or mis-tracked. Online gifts through FaithDirect are secured by SSL connection and sent directly to Ss Peter and Paul’s bank account. Additionally, FaithDirect is fully compliant with the security regulations set forth by the Payment Card Industry (PCI) Security Standards Council and transactions are covered under the terms of the Federal Reserve and the National Automated Clearing House Association. It creates faithful giving — Recurring gifts help you make giving a priority. For SPP, it makes income more predictable and budget planning an easier process. It keeps giving consistent in the summer months. Ss Peter and Paul Events Committee Forming It is a win-win for you and the parish — Faith Direct reduces the the administrative burden of the parish financial team. It eliminates the printing, mailing, processing and recording of donations of the envelope system. FaithDirect allows you to track your donations and access tax statements as any time. How much should I give? — We ask each working household to gift one hour’s wage to the parish. For FaithDirect users, a suggested minimum gift is $75 per month or $18.75 per week. Please consider using the electronic checking debit option as this will save the parish on credit card processing fees. Signing up takes a few minutes and you will feel good about doing so! Please visit www.faithdirect.net, our parish code is NJ627. Contact Louis Scarpa, Director of Development at [email protected] or 201-659-2276 x306 with questions. In light of all the gifts God has given us, we are called to offer a portion in service to others through the ministry of the Church. Thank you for signing-up TODAY with FaithDirect. Thanksgiving Meals for The Hoboken Shelter Ministry Help us all connect to one another and enjoy some down time! Lend your talents and time in helping to plan special events—monthly mixers, dinners, the gala, outings or many other possibilities. If you are an events planner, designer, a good organizer or someone who enjoys inviting others to get together, please be in touch with Gaetano Sacco at [email protected]. THANK YOU for being a “connector!” SOLEMNITY OF CHRIST THE KING Vespers Service On Sunday, November 23, the Archdiocese of Newark will celebrate the Solemnity of Christ the King with a Vespers Service and Multicultural Concert to be held beginning at 3 PM at St Aedan’s, the Church of St.Peter’s University, at 800 Bergen Avenue, Jersey City. Following prayers, at least six choirs reflecting the cultural diversity of our Archdiocese will entertain participants. A reception at Hudson Catholic High School (next door to St. Aedan’s), will follow. All are invited to join in this moment of prayer and rejoicing. The Hoboken Shelter ministry at Ss Peter & Paul is coordinating a Thanksgiving meal for the single occupancy residents of the Hoboken Y on Monday November 24 and we need cooks and servers! Please consider preparing one of your favorite Thanksgiving dishes a little early this year and sharing that dish in community and fellowship with those who will be touched by your generosity. If you are interested in participating in this effort, please contact Guy Francesconi at guyfrancesconi@ gmail.com for more information. CONFERENCE ANNULMENT American Bible Society and America cordially invite you to a talk with N T Wright, Leading New Testament Scholar, Professor and Author on “Paul and the Powerful Word: Gospel, Community, Mission”. The conference will take place on Tuesday, November 18, 2014 AT 6:30PM at American Bible Society, 1865 Broadway, New York. Reception to follow. The event is free and open to the Public. Please respond by November 15th to Margaret Sarci, American Bible Society at [email protected] An Annulment Information Evening is scheduled for Tuesday, December 9, 2014, 7:30 PM-Saint John the Apostle Church, 1805 Penbrook Terrace, Linden. A staff member of the Tribunal of the Archdiocese of Newark will provide basic information about annulments; the requirements for annulments and how to begin the process of petitioning for an annulment. Pre-registration is not necessary, but for directions, please call the parish at 908.486.6363. Miraculous Medal Novena The Shrine of the Miraculous Medal will host their Annual Solemn Novena (Nine Days of Prayer), November 17th to 25th with Fr Michael Whalen, CM. The Theme is: The Hail Mary: Prayer of Angels, Saints, and Sinners. Mass,homily and Novena prayers at 7 am, 9am, & 12pm daily except Sunday. Novena prayers, Homily & Benediction in afternoons and evenings. Miraculous Medal Shrine, 500 E Chelten Ave, Philadelphia. Free and secure parking is always available. Visit www.MiraculousMedal.org for more details. R U texting in Church? Put the Phone Down! By Angela CAVE Catholic News Service Entire families navigate their smartphones while sharing meals at restaurants. Students text in class. Parents take phone calls at their children’s sporting events and plays. It’s no surprise that cellphones affect even church. It has become common for parishes to place blurbs in their bulletins about silencing cellphones and for lectors to make announcements about it before liturgies, reminding parishioners they’re in a place of worship. In some places, Massgoers heed the notices – with a few exceptions for people who work in emergency fields or don’t understand how to silence their phones. At other parishes, ringtones, texting or even taking calls during liturgies can distract the presider and the people in the pews. exceptions should be few.”On the other hand, “I’m happy they’re there, even if they’re doing stuff they shouldn’t be.” Father Thomas Holmes, pastor of St Henry Parish in Averill Park and St Mary Parish in Nassau, gets so frustrated by poor technology etiquette at Mass that he joked about installing an electric dog fence around the churches –— or at least a signal scrambler. “Almost every weekend, somebody’s cellphone goes off during Mass, oftentimes during the consecration,” he said. “I often laugh, and it’s a sarcastic laugh. I’ve said a couple of times, ‘You’ve got to be kidding me.’ I think they should be embarrassed.” There’s a sign on the door of St Henry’s asking those who enter to turn their phones off. Father Holmes was puzzled and disappointed when he noticed someone had crossed OFFICE OF DIVINE WORSHIP Contagions Guidelines for the Liturgy A message from the Archdiocese of Newark. CATHOLIC SOCIAL TEACHING Stewardship and Financial Responsibility By Drew STUART, MA We ask a minimum of one hour’s wage from each working parishioner weekly. Why one hour? The first hour of the work week is given to God, imbuing our work with a sense of sacredness and gratitude. This is a spiritual approach to work and stewardship. Global Climate Change and Catholic Social Teaching In 2001, the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops released “Global Climate Change: A Plea for Dialogue, Prudence, and the Common Good,” which, as the title states, is a pastoral statement environment and of other people, especially the poor and vulnerable. Individuals can make a major contribution to addressing climate change by rejecting excessive consumerism and adopting a sense of sacrifice and restraint. Any approach to climate change must be driven by a concern for pro- An important element of containing germs and disease, both during and outside the liturgy, involves common sense. There is no need to severely limit liturgical practice due to the fear of contagions. Some things to keep in mind: Whether you are a priest, minister of the Mass or member of the assembly, washhands before and after Mass. Make liberal use of hand sanitizers. “What do you say?” she wondered. “Do you give the teenager grief when the parents are sitting right next to them and not saying anything? The last thing I want is for them to stop coming. You have to figure out what’s best. Unfortunately, asking, ‘What would Jesus do?’ isn’t a good question” – the Son of God never had a cellphone. Average weekly e-giving contribution: $8,071 This represents 62% of our weekly expenses. November 2, 2014 Weekly average expense : $13,050 Basket Collection (109 envs): $5,240 Assessment Collection: (55 env) $3,939 Fiscal Year 2014-2015 Cumulative expenses: $234,900 Fiscal Year 2014-2015 Cumulative Collection: $230,438 Deficit for the fiscal year so far: $4,462 Archdiocesan Youth Conference Day Dorothy Sokol, parish life director at Our Lady of Grace Parish in Ballston Lake, notices phones ringing and worshippers texting at Mass, despite signs in two different places and announcements cautioning against it. She said some people don’t know they’re offending people, but she’s distracted by it, especially when parents let toddlers play electronic games on their phones. Some parishioners use a tablet or smartphone to follow along with the readings for Mass, and “there’s a place” for that, she said. As for texting, “people have to be conscious that they’re in church to pray with a community and to try, if possible, to put the distractions away,” Sokol told The Evangelist, Albany’s diocesan newspaper. She’s not sure how to handle teenagers she’s seen texting repeatedly. For a convenient guide on how much is one hour's wage for you, please go to: spphoboken. com/donate Join us on Saturday November 22nd from 9:30am until 9pm Fall Sports are over! (unless your towns football team makes the 2nd round of the State Playoffs)! Marching Band Season is over!! Winter Sports can’t start for another 2 weeks!!! CONFLICT FREE !!!! Keynote Speaker — Chris Padgett out the words. “It’s disheartening,” he said. “There’s no reason for anybody to have their cellphone on in church.” He has spotted teenagers and young adults texting at Mass, but hasn’t confronted anyone. Texting only distracts him if he notices it, but he still wishes it didn’t happen at all in church. Father Richard Carlino, pastor of St. John the Evangelist and St Anthony parishes in Schenectady, calls himself a “strong endorser of silencing the cellphones.” People cooperate for the most part, but some don’t hear the announcements at the start of each Mass. “I’ve watched people walk into telephone poles while they’re texting, so it doesn’t surprise me” that it’s hard to turn off the technology, he said. “People are attached. I’ve had parents tell me that their kids text each other while they’re sitting next to each other on the couch. “Overall, I think people should have a little more sense when it comes to their cell phones. They forget why they’re (at church). It’s only an hour of their life.” “It throws my whole concentration off” when a phone rings during Mass, Father Carlino said. But “I don’t think they do it maliciously.” Andrea Freeman, office manager at St Matthew’s in Voorheesville, saw someone texting at a wake, but said otherwise it doesn’t happen there often. In recent months, he’s also had to talk to parishioners about texting —which he considers less distracting than a ringing phone, but “still a distraction from what they’re supposed to be doing in church. Their mind is not on the Lord. There are exceptions, but the At Christ Our Light Parish in Loudonville, phones generally aren’t a problem, though a ringer did interrupt Deacon Dick Thiesen, the parish life director, once as he proclaimed the Gospel. He’s also seen parents texting during their children’s confirmations. If you are not feeling well, refrain from receiving the Blood of Christ and avoid physical contact with others. It is not obligatory to touch during the sign of peace; a reverent bow, for example, could suffice. Persons who feel that they may be contagious can legitimately excuse themselves from the obligation to attend Mass. Priests who are ill and must celebrate Mass might consider a separate chalice for their own use. Parents should determine the level of participation in the liturgy of their children, especially if they are sick. Germs spread more easily in warm, moist environments. Even in winter Church buildings should be kept cool and dry. Public buildings and bathrooms should be cleaned regularly. Ultimately, each individual needs to determine their level of liturgical involvement in sensitive situations. The ill who are homebound long-term should consider calling the parish for Communion for the sick. on global climate change. In this statement, the bishops stress that creation is a gift given to us by God. This being the case, global climate change is, at its core, about the protecting the future of God’s creation including both the human and the natural environments. The bishops assert the needs of the poor and vulnerable must be included in dialogues about climate change, as their plights are related to the current environmental crisis. At the same time, because scientific evidence shows our present actions risk jeopardizing the future of our environment and the well-being of humanity, the bishops call on everyone to take preventative or mitigating action to address the crisis. The US bishops go on to emphasize that any response to climate change must reflect the interdependence and common responsibility of all humanity. They call for economic freedom, creativity, and initiative to help our nation find ways to effectively deal with climate changes. However, the bishops stress that we must not allow a desire to possess more material goods to overwhelm concern that we should have for the basic needs of the tecting human life, caring for the environment, and respect for the culture and religious faith of others. Finally, the bishops claim equity must be considered when addressing climate change. They point out the hypocrisy of affluent nations, which often refuse to acknowledge the negative impact of their “voracious consumerism” while calling for population and emission control in poor nations. This shows inequity in climate change solutions. To promote equity, developed nations must use their technology and experience of reducing greenhouse gas emissions to help developing countries as their economies industrialize. According to the bishops, developed nations can show concern for those most affected by and least able to bear the burden of climate change by helping poorer nations implement sustainable economic development. Overall, the US bishops assert that developed and developing countries must work together equitably to address global climate change. This can be done by adopting an attitude of mutual sacrifice and self-restraint. 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