BONNIE LYTHGOE HOW BONNIE GOT HER GROOVE BACK Y ou get the impression that Bonnie Lythgoe is making up for lost time. Her voice comes down the phone line with equal measures of energy and urgency as if she’s excited to share her story but needs to get it all out in a hurry. And there’s certainly no shortage of story to share. Best known in Australia for three seasons of playing ‘the nice judge’ on popular TV competition So You Think You Can Dance Australia, further afield in her native London, Bonnie was, until more recently, better known for her role as ‘supportive wife’ to executive producer and creator of the same show – Nigel Lythgoe. Having already successfully commenced her career in entertainment as a 15-year-old in the 1967 movie To Sir, With Love alongside Sidney Poitier, Bonnie (then Bonita Shawe) went on to become a well-loved children’s program presenter before nabbing a spot on the BBC’s Young Generation dance troupe. It was at that audition that she met her future husband, Nigel who was, at that time, a choreographer for the troupe. Bonnie went on to choreograph, produce and direct a number of successful theatre productions in London but, ultimately, forwent the opportunity to plumb the depths of her own career in favour of being a caring and accommodating wife to Nigel, and mother to sons Kristopher and Simon. ‘I used to call myself “Mrs Cellophane” because you could look right through me,’ Bonnie laughs, a tinge of melancholy playing on her words. ‘I would never take anything away from anybody; if it’s someone’s moment, let it be their moment; but I felt invisible because Nigel was always in the spotlight. I didn’t quite know what to do, how to cope with it, so I always took a step back.’ After more than 30 years together, Bonnie made the decision to end her FITNESS FIRST | 113 PERFORMER PROFILE marriage to Nigel in 2007 and reclaim the life that she’d put on hold for so long. ‘When the opportunity is there to flourish, you have to take it. I think, really, it’s just about believing in yourself and having the confidence to say, “Hey! I’m good at what I do, I’m a good person and I can give something back to the world!”’ she says with such vehemence that there’s no option but to believe her. And flourish, Bonnie has. Currently splitting her time between London, Australia, Portugal, and LA, she runs Lythgoe Family Productions and, together with son Kristopher, has introduced pantomime to Los Angeles, to great acclaim. As she discusses the preparations for the second run of the hugely popular Snow White, you can’t help but be swept up in the magnitude of the zeal Bonnie has for her work. ‘I have this passion for being in the theatre. I don’t know what it is… I walk into the theatre and I can forget everything. I just get a tingle down my spine. It’s dark, all you can see is the stage and you know the performers are about to come out. It’s just wonderful!’ Despite being back stage, Bonnie has well and truly found herself smack-bang in the middle of the limelight as the star of the upcoming reality TV show Opening Night. ‘I’ve had a camera stuck in my face for six months!’ Bonnie exclaims. ‘They’ve followed me right from the beginning of auditions through rehearsals and into opening night. It’s literally seeing the real me as a director, with no make up and not wearing my best clothes. You get to see the ups and the downs – where everything’s going wrong, everybody’s fed up and tired and we only have one more day before we actually open.’ So, how does someone who travels so much and works so tirelessly have such energy and vibrancy (not to mention an enviable physique!)? ‘I am one of those really fortunate people who naturally eat well. I’m not a fast food eater; I’m someone who eats fish and salads. This may surprise you, but I’ve never had a ‘flu in my life; I don’t 114 | F I T N E S S F I R S T I LOATHE SAME. I LOVE A CHALLENGE AND EVERY SINGLE DAY IS A NEW CHALLENGE FOR ME. remember having ever had a cold.’ ‘I’ve always been a sporty person. I love swimming and tennis. I play tennis three times a week; even when I’m working I sneak a game in.’ And with tennis partners such as long time friend Sir Cliff Richard just down the road from her in Portugal, Bonnie has plenty of high profile competition. ‘We played last week and he absolutely bloody slaughtered me! He’s so much better than me it’s annoying! His serves are just great!’ she enthuses. While we may not be seeing her at Wimbledon any time soon, sport and dance prowess certainly flows in Bonnie’s family – her granddaughter, Dominie, was accepted by the Australian Royal Ballet at the age of nine and her niece, Charlotte Dujardin, recently bagged two gold medals in Equestrian for Team GB at the recent Olympic Games. ‘We’re always very headstrong, positive people,’ says Bonnie of the ambition, drive and determination that seems to be flowing through the veins of the Lythgoe bloodline. When asked where that drive will take her next, it’s clear that, in Bonnie’s eyes, the only option is onwards and upwards to even bigger and better things. ‘I loathe same. I love a challenge and every single day is a new challenge for me,’ she says, with a confidence and enthusiasm that is as infectious as it is authentic. ‘You’ve got to like YOU. Because when you like yourself you become a much more positive person.’ ALISHA SMITH Interview and article by Alisha Smith ([email protected])
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